Would you breakup if 2 months without sex?

[Anonymous]

I love my girlfriend and we get along amazing. But in my current situation, only had one oral sex during that period. I had final exams for 1 month and girlfriend didn't want to visit just for the purpose of sex which obviously wasn't, because free only for few hours. For one month my girlfriend felt really lonely regardless we are calling about 5 times a day though arguing and she's socializing with friends. Whereas I'm at home cramming everyday non stop feeling horrible. After another 1 month passed, she keeps abstaining sex because we wants to build emotional connection again, which is fair. I'm trying my best while but secretly resenting her for so long without it. Now two months passed, still nothing ker kitten has died unfortunately, another week passed and period coming up. We are at work so schedules only suit weekend but she plans one day with friends only. She wants to make it work once all the hassle is over but isn't 2 months too long? We are 3 year relationship by the way in our early 20s. Sorry needed to vent

[VanillaSalt]

Nobody owes your sex... that being said a relationship is a social contract with expectations. If your not providing your end then I would consider this contract void.


People talk about love lmao. Love is for people that know and respect each other and are willing to sacrifice for each other. Including sex when not in the mood. I’m sorry but as unsexy as it is discussing expectations especially the sexual kind the fact is in any contract you set the standards up front. You can’t change the contract because something happens just renegotiate it. If negotiations break then it means that’s the end of the agreement.


You might need to wait on a good woman but a good woman won’t ask you to wait also. Sex is a great stress relief. It helps overcome life’s bullshit. A woman that’s broken by life’s pitfalls just isn’t strong enough to have a relationship. A man as well so understand it’s your job to take on the responsibility of the relationship and the bullshit of the world while she supports you.

[otaku_owl_91]

I actually agree. With that being said, I think buddy just needs to move on because the likelihood of her cheating is high.

[VanillaSalt]

I can’t speak to the likely hood of cheating. If I don’t know then I’m not particularly against it. If I found out heads would roll though. I don’t trust easy. If your a whore and make me look stupid because word gets out then I’ll make an example of you but the fact is thinking you can get true loyalty from anyone is laughable.

[VanillaSalt]

Dude... if she broke up even temp ide walk out I ain’t got time for fucking games.

[otaku_owl_91]

She played buddy like a fiddle, and she's probably sucking the other dude off. Things like this make the red pill community necessary.

[razelove]

Yeah, end it. If someone can make the time for you and won't, you aren't high on their priority list. Unless they're low on your priority list as well, get out of it into a relationship where you do value each other.

How the hell can you complain about being lonely if you'll only talk on the phone and not visit, because she wants it to be more emotional. That's the most stupid shit I've ever heard. What part is fair? You don't rebuild one connection with a person by breaking another one. Anyway, you're a dumbass for putting up with it.

I also guarantee that she isn't abstaining, but simply making sure things are going well with whoever she's upgrading to. She won't see you, won't sleep with you, and is still going out. You already aren't in a relationship. Oh, her fucking kitten died, how sad. Wake up man. The high school relationship is over, you're studying hard, get with someone who will come over and study with you.

[Hidden_P]

To answer your title question, no I wouldn’t. In fact, it took us over a year of no sex to break up.


It sounds like she is being open and honest with her feelings with you so you need to do the same. I’m not saying tell her “I need sex”, tell her you miss being intimate and with her. It’s a reasonable feeling and I’m sure she will meet you at least halfway and work towards building those feelings.


To the guy who said that her cat dying is an excuse is an extremely ignorant comment. I’m sure the situation isn’t the same but my ex’s cat died about 2 weeks after his nan died. His cat had been with him as a kid. The two combined destroyed him emotionally. My cat is my world, he’s helped me through long term poor health, rape, break up, caring for my dad... at the end of a bad day he is always there for me. Perhaps you should speak to her about her cat and what the cat meant to her. You can start healing that break for her and she will emotionally come back.

[spartan55]

@Hidden_P That was me who made the "ignorant" comment about the kitten excuse. First of all I've lost 5 cats in my life, so you calling me ignorant is pretty irresponsible. I'm not getting into a whole cat death grieving discussion anyway. My point was it was just one of her litany of excuses that add up to she don't gaf. Aren't you girls always saying "if he's interested he will make time for you?" Does it seem like she is trying her best to make time for him? I think it's funny this girl is just getting a pass, when if a guy were treating his girlfriend like that the pink users would be raining hell down.

[Hidden_P]

Did you not read my reply @spartan55? I stuck with my ex after a year of no sex, his cat dying his nan dying. I’m not the typical “pink” user and I’ve been fair in my comments regardless of gender.

[spartan55]

So you don't see excuses from the girlfriend here?

[jspl90]

only thing im pretty damn curious about is wtf does building a emotional connection again mean that is a bullshit excuse I mean sure if they had just started dating yeah fine but 3 fucking years that is not a thing in my mind🤔 @Hidden_P what are your thoughts

[otaku_owl_91]

So here's the reality of it: you're staying on code for most women, but you know the likelihood of her cheating is high, and we don't do exceptions.

[DollAlone]

Im assuming your a young guy and she is a young female. If you love someone and care about them and been together this long then sex should be the least of your concerns. You made it this far. Obviously you care about one another or its been just a waste of time. Im totally confused about the oral sex issue. Are you referring to phone sex or an actual blowjob? Two months is a long time if you live together or in same town but its not a deal breaker. And perhaps you should try sex before, during or after her period, its not a big deal. Oral sex on her during that time may be tricky but bottom line is, i think you need to grow up.

[spartan55]

@dollalone He needs to 'grow up' huh? So he should just put his relationship needs aside while she makes up excuses not to see him? Why are you deciding that sex should be the 'least of his concerns'? I thought you girls were all about caring about your partners needs and feelings? Guess not

[spartan55]

@dollalone 3 years and she needs "time to make an emotional connection" again? If they have made it that far as a couple why would she need to do that?

[otaku_owl_91]

@spartan55 she's staying on code for most women. They know that she's more than likely cheating but doesn't want to say it.

[myname604]

I hate to break it to you but you had 3 years and now she wants to build emotion?
She is fucking other guys, maybe girls too.

Find a real woman! One who isn't confused and deceitful!

[Valerie315]

She could be looking for more of a commitment and possibly ready for marriage too.

[myname604]

@Valerie315 Of coarse I do not disagree but she should have started the relationship without sex in the first place. But she had a legitimate reason like adapting to a new religious belief she change her position for that reason, anything else is a complicated question if she is cheating or trying to be abusive. You know as well as I do these things. There another poster who was together 6 years and she adopted her religion and claims she is trying to be more moral in her relationship. I believe her. Her man is still refusing marriage and complaining about being deprived of sex which she is not withholding for any nefarious reasons but her own feeling that have grown to a higher moral level.

[loves2learn]

Sounds like she’s lost the emotional connection she needs in order to feel sexual pleasure with you. I wouldn’t break up with her. Talk to her. Make time for her. Cuddle with her. Show he how much you love and support her emotionally. I had a 4 month long stint like this during my marriage. It was 100% related to emotional validation.

[loves2learn]

How are you doing with the breakup?

[Asker]

Quiet relieved but at the same time confused. I feel like the situation could be fixable if we both tried. Right now contemplating should I initiate contact and apologise on my part and hopefully she does too or move on, but I feel like I want her to intiate since I dont to give her power. Currently I have another lady I'm texting ready to date but its too sudden for me.

[loves2learn]

Taking the high road and apologizing and owning your piece is always a good choice. Let me tell you this from years of experience.

[spartan55]

@loves2learn So that means his girlfriend should own her part too, correct? I will bet anything she won't even do that, much less apologize. Girls rarely, if ever apologize. If the relationship goes south or ends it's never their fault... it's a fucking joke.

[loves2learn]

@spartan55 she absolutely should. I always do. It’s rarely all one person’s fault. They should also try to give each other the benefit of the doubt and put themselves in the other person’s shoes to understand their point of view.

[MrNameless]

I think you need to talk to her about it. Say that you miss the sex and would like to get back on it

[spartan55]

Dude, it sounds like she isn't really into the relationship. Her kitten died... are you fucking kidding me? I'd tell her your needs aren't being met. Two months would drive me insane.

[shadyresidence]

It may not automatically mean she's not into the relationship, maybe her sex drive has changed. But it doesn't automatically mean the relationship is lame to her

[spartan55]

@shadyresidence Then she should communicate that with him. You have to admit there seem to be plenty of excuses from her.

[Asker]

I respect you so much

[spartan55]

@asker Pm meeting

[spartan55]

*me please

[Apple1996]

Maybe you should try taking her on a date or doing something special. She might not be giving in causes your relationship is lacking romance

[otaku_owl_91]

Yeah, romance her while she's basically letting another guy f*ck. I notice that women hate being honest about this.

[Apple1996]

@otaku_owl_91 I dont know who this bitch is so not gonna pin cheating on her right away

[otaku_owl_91]

@Apple1996 ok, then she's more than likely cheating. I'm sure you're familiar with the signs.

[Apple1996]

@otaku_owl_91 they've been together 3 years and she didn't fuck for 2 months. It's really not pointing to cheating. she could literally be busy.

[otaku_owl_91]

If she was busy, she would've said so. She keeps making excuses like "my cat died" and "she wants to build emotional connectivity". Either she's tired of him or she's cheating...

[Dalton57]

It depends on how old the relationship is.
2 months plus a day- I'd move on.
It's definitely something that the couple have to talk about.
It's a symptom of something.
Could be anything from a medical or psychological problem to an affair.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Congratulations on your three year relationship & if you are happy in the relationship you’ll find a way to make it work. On the flip side does your wrist hurt? How is your man to hand relationship, hump your fist brother.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I don't believe in going backwards in a relationship. If I feel we aren't as close, or there are any signs of animosity building up between us? I'm out

[Maxine_C]

That's completely idiotic to break up over that

[otaku_owl_91]

Lemme guess: you think men should forgive women for cheating.

[Maxine_C]

@otaku_owl_91 no. What? This has to do nothing with cheating. Cheating is unforgivable. She wants to build a emotional love connection and not just have sex every time they see each other which is a healthy relationship. It's unhealthy to just have sex every time. It would just feel to us as if we are just being used for sex and not love and actually doing things together.

[friendzoned4life]

But if you have had sex with a man before you don't go deprive him of it for 2 months it is kinda the only reassurance we get u still like us

[otaku_owl_91]

@Maxine_C my point is that she's more than likely cheating.

[Maxine_C]

@otaku_owl_91 not at all. Just because she wants a emotional connection doesn't mean she's cheating. Wtf. She just feels she's being used for sex and so she put her foot down and said no

[Maxine_C]

@friendzoned4life "only reassurance" really? What, do you think a relationship is only about sex? She felt used for sex cause that's all he did when he saw her. So she said no, I want an emotional relationship, a loving and real connection before sex. She doesn't like sex all the time and until that connection is made, no sex. Sounds fair to me. Men don't have a ownership to sex and women don't owe men sex at all

[otaku_owl_91]

@Maxine_C she uses two excuses so far, and it's been two months. They've been together for three years, so the likelihood is high. Even if she wasn't cheating, it reeks of trust issues, which is why he needs to break it off.

[Maxine_C]

@otaku_owl_91 break it off? After 3 years? Just because of lack of sex? God you people disgust me.

[otaku_owl_91]

@Maxine_C it isn't due to the lack of sex. It's because it's likely that she's cheating.

[friendzoned4life]

@maxine_C Do you have the time to listen to me whine About nothing and everything all at once? I am one of those Melodramatic fools Neurotic to the bone No doubt about it Sometimes I give myself the creeps Sometimes my mind plays tricks on me It all keeps adding up I think I'm cracking up Am I just paranoid Or am I just stoned? I went to a shrink To analyze my dreams She says it's lack of sex that's bringing me down I went to a whore He said my life's a bore So quit my whining 'cause it's bringing her down Sometimes I give myself the creeps Sometimes my mind plays tricks on me It all keeps adding up I think I'm cracking up Am I just paranoid? Ah, yeah, yeah, yeah Grasping to control So I better hold on Sometimes I give myself the creeps Sometimes my mind plays tricks on me It all keeps adding up I think I'm cracking up Am I just paranoid? Or am I just stoned?

[Maxine_C]

@friendzoned4life what is the poem supposed to mean?

[Maxine_C]

@otaku_owl_91 there's no garentee

[friendzoned4life]

@maxine_c seriously u don't understand basket case by green Day? This guys having obvious anxiety attacks about this that is what that song is about. And to be fair I would have had those 2 if was having sex with a girl for 3 years and suddenly 2 months without any because she decided to change Personality. She obviously fucking some one else

[Maxine_C]

@friendzoned4life obviously you have trust issues if you just jump to conclusions of cheatiny

[Maxine_C]

Cheating*

[friendzoned4life]

Quess why I have those

[Maxine_C]

@friendzoned4life you can't put expectations onto your next relationship from a previous one

[friendzoned4life]

Women do it all the time why can't men?

[Maxine_C]

@friendzoned4life its bad for anyone to do that. Men and women.

[friendzoned4life]

Well you say it is idiotic to break up over this so you must have been in a situation like this before

[Maxine_C]

@friendzoned4life nope. Actually in my first relationship of 3 years and we still hadn't had sex

[friendzoned4life]

Totally different than his situation in your situation it would be idiotic in his situation it is a pro gamer move

[Maxine_C]

@friendzoned4life nothing irl is a "pro gamer move". Dumbest thing I ever heard

[myname604]

Putting aside the fact that if the role was reversed the man could be criminally charged for abused by withholding sex and a woman can not be. If the role were reverse then what you would say? He sounds like a good man who deserves a good woman, not some emotionally unavailable woman who would have a 3 year sex involved relationship then one day decides to withhold sex from him and give him little to no affection and still she would rather make time to party with friends than the man who is ready to give his life to her? When you start standing up for good men who become victims like this to these black widows, then you will have credibility. But to sit here and defend a harlot who is clearly trying to ruin the man, this is wrong! All women need to learn to be accountable for what they do to men! In Sweden men are even more abused, a certified welder can get a job but if a welder is a woman apprentice she will get paid twice as much and if she does not the whole women feminist tyrants raise hell until a mans head roles. All abuse needs to stop!

[Maxine_C]

@myname604 how tf is withholding sex abuse? Are people so obsessed with sex that withholding people think that it's abuse? Wtf is wrong with you all

[friendzoned4life]

@Maxine did you ever consider that you are the person Who has something wrong?

[otaku_owl_91]

@Maxine_C we may have different philosophies about sex, but my point is according to the signs, she's more than likely cheating. Take emotion out of your senses for one second. This could also be due to the fact that you're young, but there have been too many signs not to see it. The cat "dying" story sealed the deal.

[Maxine_C]

@friendzoned4life I've never heard of withholding sex is abuse. She was a rightful reason. Emotionless sex is meanless. Sex without the feeling of Emotional attachment to a woman means nothing to her. So she wants an emotional attachment to be worked on first. It makes sense

[friendzoned4life]

@maxine_c it would have made sense if this was 3 years ago starting to with hold now is abusive.

[Maxine_C]

@otaku_owl_91 sex without emotion is meaningless and pointless. You need to build a emotional bond. And a cat dying wouldn't separate a couple. That would be dumb

[Maxine_C]

@friendzoned4life you people are way too sensitive. Calling no sex abuse. She feels the emotional connection slipping and she wants that worked on first

[friendzoned4life]

If you have a lot of sex and then it stops. But she keeps hanging around you she is depriving you of a need she made worse first. Its like giving a Child candy everyday for no reason at all and suddenly start asking the Child to work on something where the Child has no idea of cause you don't tell what it exactly is but it now needs to earn the candy. That is called mental abuse

[Maxine_C]

@friendzoned4life she told him why. And sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship. It's the least important

[friendzoned4life]

But not how. Cause he has to work on it while she is not working on it and that does not work. And sex is Just as important as the rest in a relationship.

[Maxine_C]

@friendzoned4life how is sex important? All it is, is just pleasure

[friendzoned4life]

Sex is not only Just pleasure but how is pleasure not important?

[otaku_owl_91]

@Maxine_C you're still missing the point. Focus. She's more than likely cheating. Are you able to comprehend that?

[Maxine_C]

@friendzoned4life physical pleasure is just a selfish drive

[Maxine_C]

@otaku_owl_91 I don't think she is

[friendzoned4life]

@Maxine_C masturbation yes , actual Sex no are you really 20 ? Or are you really not aware what sex in a healthy relationship does?

[otaku_owl_91]

@Maxine_C you're an adult now, so you need to know that the things in romance novels and shows contradict how most people perceive sex and love. If people suddenly don't want to have sex in 3+ year relationships and use random excuses not to do so (especially bad ones), then they are more than likely uninterested in the relationship or cheating. It doesn't matter how you feel. That's just the reality of life.

[friendzoned4life]

She is obviously cheating

[Maxine_C]

@friendzoned4life all I know is sex is a selfish pleasure

[Maxine_C]

@otaku_owl_91 but you can't jump to conclusions and assume.

[Maxine_C]

@friendzoned4life so your gonna assume that?

[otaku_owl_91]

@Maxine_C given the signs, disinterest, and overall excuses, the least I can say that it's highly possible that she's cheating. We wouldn't know for certain unless the boyfriend confirms. It's foolish to hope for that small percentage that she's been "faithful" because he hasn't done anything that warrants the disrespect.

[friendzoned4life]

@Maxine_C I am not assuming sje is Just ticking the important red flags for that. And if you really think sex is a selfish pleasure u never had sex before cause in good sex u are actively trying to pleasure ur partner and yes if it is good you will get pleasure from it too but it actually trying to pleasure eachother and it is the physical version of saying I love u in a relationship

[myname604]

This is what is written in the laws, if a man withholds sex from a woman it is abuse under the law. Not the other way around.

[friendzoned4life]

@myname604 what country do you live in 😅😅

[otaku_owl_91]

@friendzoned4life I think he lives in a country that has good control over their women. I used to shy away from it, but their religion has a good hold on female nature.

[friendzoned4life]

@otaku_owl_91 here in the Netherlands it was punishable by death to cheat now it ain't 😭

[spartan55]

@maxine_c Would you think it was "idiotic" to break up if your wasn't meeting your needs or didn't value your feelings? Spare me the "need to build an emotional connection" if that's what she REALLY wanted to do she wouldn't pass up chances to spend time with him so she can party with her friends! She is clearly bullshitting him, and if the situation were reversed you would be raining hell on him right now..

[Maxine_C]

@spartan55 nah. It's not my place to force him to have sex with me. It's not an expectation or a requirement. It's a want, not a need. If he doesn't want to. Simple as that. He doesn't want to. Even if it was for awhile. Sure I'd get concerned but it's not my place to make someone have sex with me

[spartan55]

Who the hell said anything about "forcing or making" anyone to have sex aside from you? That's not it's about. I notice you ducked my question... what would YOU do if one of your important needs was not being met by your boyfriend?

[Maxine_C]

@spartan55 sex is not an important need. But yeah, if it was something else I would be concerned

[spartan55]

@Maxine_C This isn't about what you think about sex and it's importance, it's about his feelings about it. "sex is a selfish pleasure" really? You are in VERY small minority with that opinion. And if you think I'm wrong, put up a poll.

[Maxine_C]

@spartan55 it's literally your chemicals in your brain telling you to relieve pleasure with sex and you do it because it feels good

[otaku_owl_91]

@Maxine_C this isn't that hard to understand, so I'm just to assume that you're either staying on code for scandalous women like this or you've cheated on men like this before as well.

[Maxine_C]

@otaku_owl_91 I've never cheated before.

[spartan55]

@Maxine_C You were obviously taught that sex is something utilitarian, and that you shouldn't enjoy it. You have some real odd viewpoints about it.

[Maxine_C]

@spartan55 I was taught it was a sacred act between a couple

[spartan55]

@maxine_c Okay, great. Where does the part about feeling pleasure is selfish and all that other shit?

[Maxine_C]

@spartan55 cause pleasure is just a chemical drive in your brain and that's all

[spartan55]

@Maxine_C Oookay... so what?

[Maxine_C]

@spartan55 it's just a self desire. A desire to pleasure yourself. It makes it selfish.

[spartan55]

@Maxine_C Where is that taught, because that's very false. Sex is between two people, how is it a selfish. So that means anything you enjoy is selfish? Fuck that...

[Maxine_C]

@spartan55 anything that is sexual is selfish.

[myname604]

I was going to agree with you today until I read this! It is selfish for the selfish, it not selfishness for everybody. This kind of thing is why men are frightened of women now. If you are so selfish then maybe you are prone to cheating. Of coarse biology is sex drive for both men and women but my desire is to make the man I love happy which if he is turns me on more. Biology may lead but it is our nature that follows. Is love selfish, yes, is love selfless, also yes. Also it is the nature of biology and need. I do believe schools should teach the 88 precepts and maybe people will not be so confused on these things. As to the men, if you are so secure and women often attracted to a man who seems secure then why be so insecure? It seems the men who are most bashful and insecure make better relationships. A woman's mood could be turned off for any number of reasons besides cheating, you have to be careful not to make quick judgements. Do not expect us to be the same though because our moods can change suddenly without warning. She may not be getting that romantic feeling or she maybe insecure about something about you, girls can get jealous and insecure too incase you haven't noticed. I am sorry if I have come off sharp and short sighted. I am not a magician I can not make predictions of your relationships. Sometimes you have to focus on yourself instead.

[spartan55]

@Maxine_C No, it's not at all. You've been brainwashed. So your boyfriend/husband can expect to have sex... well, never! Good luck finding a guy like that. Might work if he is gay.

[Maxine_C]

@spartan55 everyone gets brainwashed in some way. May that be, society, parents, friends, environmental issues. Everything brainwashed you into what you are now.

[spartan55]

So explain you think it's okay to send nudes? Isn't that a selfish sexual thing?

[spartan55]

@Maxine_C Clearly you don't understand what brainwashing means...

[The_Maphio]

If there's a reason for such delay in consummating, you can and should keep a brake on your hormones.
If there is none or none that could be deemed smart, you should discuss the thing with her. If the result of such discussion ends in silliness, it's probably not worth waiting any longer. Otherwise, grit your teeth or fire up PornHub.

[spartan55]

@the_maphio The reasons she is giving him are bullshit.

[Finchie40]

If you are communicating with her and telling her that you are feeling deprived sexually and she keeps making excuses to not want sex with you then yes you have a right to leave that relationship and find someone else , Never be someone’s sitting duck , when you give someone an inch they will take a mile , so whatever her reason is for not wanting sex with you , is bringing fire into your relationship. Someone that actually loves and values you will not hold walls up from being intimate with you , never be someone’s convenience , life is to short to settle for someone that only likes the convenience of you , plenty of fish in the sea to choose from then to deal with someone that uses sex as a weapon to gain , fuck that bitch and move on

[Barry88]

I've been more than a year without sex, while in a romantic relationship. There can be reasons why that happens. It's certainly not nice, but not immediately a reason for breakup.

[0112358]

Not necessarily but it's a massive red flag.

[Shiver]

I had gone 4 months at most without having sex with my girlfriend, but my situation was a bit different. This seems like she keeps finding things to reject sex over. I'd say give it some more time, but don't wait too long. If she keeps postponing sex over things, she's either trying to manipulate you, or worst case scenario, cheating isn't out of the question.

[exitseven]

I always thought there is a lot more to relationships than sex.

[spartan55]

@exitseven I agree, but why does that mean sex has to be put on the shelf?

[exitseven]

@spartan55 The question asks about no sex for two months. If a relationship cannot go two months without sex it is not much of a relationship. I am recovering from surgery and I cannot have sex for two months. My wife said she will wait for me. She was only kidding when she said that because I know she won't divorce me over this.

[spartan55]

@exitseven You are right, but go back and read the bs reasons this girl is giving him... didn't see any surgery.

[exitseven]

@spartan55 I see what you are talking about. However, as somebody who had a longdistance relationship with lots of drama you have to decide if the relationship is worth it. Things do not always go like we want them to go. Two months isn't the end of the world, especially if there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

[Chriscunning]

There is a lot more if I look at relationships with my mom, dad, brothers, sisters, friends, work colleagues, etc. We don't have sex. So if my girlfriend stopped having sex with me, i guess she's 'just a friend'.

[HawkPerception]

Sex is an important part of any serious relationship and is a large factor of why many relationships end up with a lot of toxicity and end. People don't communicate enough or don't try to understand the others desires enough.

My advice would be to try and communicate your thoughts openly with her and if she isn't willing to fulfill your desires, then best to find someone with better sexual chemistry. If you're serious about someone you should always care about fulfilling their desires.

[cth96190]

You are still in the courtship phase and she has turned off the tap.
She is either frigid (a mental illness), or, more likely, she is getting her itch scratched by someone else, to whom she will monkeybranch soon.
Whichever is the reality, she has failed the test.
Blow her out an airlock.

[Browneye57]

Get a NEW girlfriend - one that likes to fuck more. Or several. :)

[TDDMS]

Two months? Shit, by the second or third date, if we aren't fucking by then, then she can find someone else.

[shadyresidence]

They've been dating for 3 years

[Massageman]

No I wouldn't.