If you are married or living with someone in a committed relationship, do you ever let your man use your body for his own pleasure?

Assuming that you both love each other, share both responsibilities and fun activities, and also regularly engage in gratifying sex that you, yourself, find very satisfying. He also does things just for your sexual pleasure at times.

Are you also willing, at times, to let your partner use you purely for his own sexual gratification?

You're feminine body is like a playground or theme park, or like the ice cream wagon on a summer day. It brings him pure joy. Do you know that?
Given that, are you willing to give him a skillful blowjob, tittie fuck him for fun, or let him bend you over for a quicky from time to time?

So, questions:
- Do you refuse because you find it demeaning? You're not your husband/partner's cum dump.
- Do you comply out of a sense of duty or obligation but don't enjoy it and may even resent it?
- Is it no big deal one way or the other,. You could be thinking of something else at the same time?
-Do you do things like that gladly because your ability to make your partner happy makes you happy?
- Do you do such things eagerly because you get pleasure from the physical contact and the erotic nature of the act, even when the primary goal in such cases is your partner's pleasure?
- Or... Do you get aroused by such sexual acts? For example, you love sucking dick or feeling his cock sliding between your tits. Or bringing out the animal in your partner, having your panties pulled down, getting taken from behind, and feeling him inside you, is hot af.
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  • Yes. I’m not naive and I know sex is a big factor for guys in a relationship. There are certainly times when I’m not really in the mood but he is and I accommodate him. I find that the overall relationship is better and he’s more loving towards me when he’s getting regular sexual release. I don’t mind taking care of him like that. He takes care of me sexually when I need it and in numerous other ways outside the bedroom. Plus, even though sometimes I don’t think I’m in the mood, I get aroused once we start.

    • You nailed it. I posed a similar question a while back and I think I framed it badly. A surprising number of women who admitted to giving blow jobs were highly offended by the idea of letting their guy "use" their pussy outside of a full session of love making. I found that odd. Now that I posed the question properly, I'm getting more positive responses. Thanks for your perspective.

  • We both love and respect each other, and I don't mind that there are times that he uses my body for his own sexual gratification. I love it, it turns me on, and I like pleasing him.
    That being said it's a two way street so when I want to use his body for my own sexual gratification he allows me, and he loves it.
    So win win?

    • Absolutely, ariadneR. It has to be a two way street. Good attitude. I appreciate your perspective. :-)

    • Like with anything in life you can't always take take take, and you also can't give give and give and expect to be happy!

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  • Given your criteria above- mutually respectful loving involved relationship- I’m cool with anything not involving pain or 💩

    Physical contact is mostly always satisfying unless it’s a bad time but then I wouldn’t be doing anything so that’s moot

    it can be relaxing to not be in control sometimes

    it’s exciting to feel someone excited by your presence

    inteteating & educational to see what someone likes without it being based on my explicit preference

    attraction is attraction so it will be stimulating regardless.

    Reaffirmation of trust is always cool

    • Thanks, Vivant. Nice attitude. :-)

    • I know it’s not ideal I’m not like anything goes for love 😂 but it’s better than bad and it works well enough so far lol

    • I admit that I do like this comment. I don't believe that it's something that any man deserves or has a right to or should automatically expect; but I would feel lucky if I found someone with views similar to yours, @VIVANT.

  • We do this regularly. I find it quite arousing for him to take the reigns and dominate me (without hurting me) for lack of a better term. In fact I’d like him to dominate me more than sometimes he wants to.
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    Something to be said for giving up full control to someone you love. Big turn on.

    • Awesome. Thanks for the perspective, Loves2learn. :-)

    • My pleasure as always @lliam sir 😁

  • I can't answer for her, but I have never done anything, intimately sexual, or personal touching, that we didn't mutually agree on, before.
    Yes, kissing, and holding, cuddling, and touching curvy parts, together, is part of our "Assumed Reality".
    She can touch me, and like the early morning thing, that most guys, and women, in relationships just know, without it having to be more than just casual touch!
    I love her PERFECT, bottom, and she is totally OK with me just kissing her, and just having a hand on her bottom!
    She thinks hers is "fat" and too "big" but BULLSHIT!! I have big hands, and either side, is just a Nice Hand Full, as a prelude to loving. . .

    • Mutual agreement goes without saying. I would never condone force or coercion.

  • I don’t believe in obligation sex.
    And I will never be a person to participate in one-sided sex.

  • i'd like to know this

  • What kind of nonsense is this?

  • Yes of course

  • Im single 😗