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Are all men dirty like this?

My husband has a huge thing for women. Like he seems hungry dog for women. He has a big wandering eye, he's sick minded, he has no morals.

I have talked to him about this and he says all men are like this, and I would be ridiculous to leave him for it. He says i should just be single cause i will never be able to find a man who only wants/desire his woman.

Yeah, i understand there are attractive people out there, but i believe my husband is overblowing it. He would turn his head and eyes in front of me, try to get their attention. And sometimes he gets off while we have sex and wants to watch pov porn instead, cause he says the way i look turn him off.

He seems very vulnerable to sex. If a woman offers him sex, he would take it. Hell, i believe he does it behind my back too.

This makes me want to leave him. Should i? And are all men like this?
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  • Sweetheart, let me tell you something. That is not a husband. That is somebody that took advantage of you because he wants that's and he wants it the way he wants it simply because he sees women as somebody to use, abuse coming into only be used for sex. Which you are going through is abuse. It's flat-out abuse. And first of all he's cursing you so he can try to keep you in an abusive relationship. The thing is is that if he's already having a Wandering eye he already committed adultery in his heart. I think it's very clear you do not necessarily have to stay involved with that. But it's your choice. Personally, you have to decide if this is how you want to be treated by men. If he wants to talk about how is better for you to be single, he's right about one thing. And that's to say is of the person who never been married, is a virgin, never dated, never been involved with a man. It is better to stay single then to be destroyed by a person who said they love you. That man does not have love, he has a serious perversion and lust spirit, and he only sees women as to take advantage of them to use and abuse.

    The truth is any man can be capable of being like this. Plenty of men are like that. But not all men are like that. Because of all men I really like that. God have mercy on us. Just know that you're married to an abuser and somebody who never loved you. He's just using you for sex and using marriage as a convenience to have sex. But remember something. When you chose to get married you made a decision to be married to him. So in a way you still in the sentence have to stay married to him unless he himself commits adultery. But he if what you're saying is true, has a Wandering eye and doing all the stuff, he already committed adultery. So really ask yourself why you still staying? Because of your thing this thing because you have nowhere else to go, because you have no way to support yourself, because you're scared to be alone, then this is why you're stuck with that kind of man. Because until you actually go out there, and try to survive and do what you got to do for yourself, and truly go to God and ask God to help you, and not just for help and deliverance, but repentance, you going to go to stay stuck with this man who's going to government needs to hell because this man don't even see if he ain't going to change he's going to end up being with you don't want to be at. Don't do that to yourself.

    Because of me in a lot of people going to say all know that men are not like that. But yet premarital sex, pornography, masturbation, lusting, coming to women because they desire stuff and everything else etcetera, this is why we are in a rut the weekend. Because of people have been taught the bases in the foundation what it means to truly love and care about an individual many of us will not be in this mess. The truth is a lot of people especially men are not going to hear your plate. They are not going to really care. I have spoken my piece, I said what I said for many years not only on this place, but everywhere I go, and for the most part is gone deaf ears with people. I already made my choice in that sense where I refuse to get married and be involved with a man down here. I do not see the point especially when when when does the reality of what they choose to make of it. It's truly not worth it. All the woman that they desire and want this that's on them. They got to live with this. They got to live with these decisions, especially for the children that got to live with it. But at the end of the day I'm not doing this stuff for myself. And at this point you got to really ask yourself what do you really want. Because if you don't try to do what's right for yourself right now, no matter what type of person you end up with it won't really matter.

    • Only God would know. God can lead you to the right kind of man that may be right for you by the end of the day if you're not straight within yourself, it can affect a relationship that you're in. A lot of people from what I'm saying have no business having sex let alone be getting married. Someone like you I can see that you can definitely be married, and you can definitely do better if you choose to. But that kind of man he don't need to be married. He acts like a dog if what you're saying is true. And that because he chose to be that way. And any given time he can change but that's obviously not something that he really wants based on the actions that you are describing of how he's behaving. You would think that he would try to treat you with more respect. And he doesn't because he doesn't understand the word respect. So again, if what you're saying doesn't wake men up tp their perverted behavior, more and more people are going to suffer. And women who promote this Behavior are not helping either.

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  • Seems you don't fuck him properly. Wake him up by sucking his dick. If he comes home from work and sits down do your job On your knees and swallow. Be fun and tell him to fuck you in the ass. Satisfy your man. Clearly you not doing it. Wear sexy underwear. Go to the gym. Make him want you

Most Helpful Guys

  • If I'm 100% honest I'm kind of like him too except for I do have morals values and ethics I won't push myself on anybody if the person is married I won't even go there in casual I do like a light flirt and behind closed doors I like a lot of hot flirting that's one thing I do like about myself as I do have morals values and ethics and I treat women with respect

  • If I'm with a woman then she's the only female human in the universe. Though I might make an exception if she has a female friend she wants to bring into the relationship. A girl I dated once asked me "would you ever cheat on me?" and my reply was "Sure but you have to pick out the girl or guy"

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  • I have to wonder how people were raised when things like this pop up. This is very clearly a complete dickhead you've married, and you were likely aware of this before you married him. Leave his ass, or give up the right to complain and accept your loveless marriage.

  • Wow you have a REAL keeper there. NOT.

    No we aren't all like that at all.

  • I am... more confused at the fact he is your husband and only now you have a problem with him about this. Husband implies time of been together and getting married. Through that time you would of seen this behavior and you rolled with it and now have a problem with it?
    And eyes wander for every guy but not the extent you describe.

  • So - as far as his obviousness that is pretty uncouth but yes it is very normal to find other people attractive. Humans are not a monogamous species and his attraction to others is fairly normal. To me it seems though that if he has said he is not attracted to you then you should leave because you deserve to be cherished for your beauty as well.

  • This guy is a real prize. Make sure you get him a nice gift for Fathers Day. He surely deserves it.

  • not all men# but seriously just dump the bastard😂 and yeah not all men cheat find someone who respects you

  • It's not dirt - it's our wiring.

    My wife would only be worried if I did NOT look at women with an adoring eye.

  • If he's cheating and talks like this, he is showing utter disrespect for your marriage and you would be perfectly in order to ask for a divorce.

  • I try not to do this when I am in a relationship. If I am taken than I try my best to only think of her

  • I wouldn't do much of whe he dies outside of looking at attractive women. I wouldn't seek their attention nor would I turn down sex for porn. Yet he is 100% right that our partner is not the only person we find attractive. If you want something like that you'd have to program a robot to do that.

  • He’s an insensitive jerk that doesn’t love you at all. It will never change so you have a decision

  • Sounds like you're being brain washed by a philandering asshole of husband imfao

  • Leave him and never look back

  • I'm not like that just a little if I was with someone I'll dedicate my self to them

  • You should leave him. Not all men are like that.

  • first, no he's just making excuses
    second, take him to a hypnotherapy session, just tell them the problem and wait for them to do their magic

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