When someone you just started talking to of the opposite sex replies to your messages super fast which of these are you thinking the most?

- Like within 30 seconds to a minute on average is how fast they are to reply to you always and no matter when you message them. Except for when they sleep. But sometimes even during their sleeping time.

- We will say you just started talking to them recently and initially found them to be cool to talk to which is why you’ve continued.

- They are also of the opposite sex (or if you lgbt pretend they are a gender or sex you are attracted to) and you are unsure whether they like you romantically, just want something from you, or just super friendly.
When someone you just started talking to of the opposite sex replies to your messages super fast which of these are you thinking the most?
When someone you just started talking to of the opposite sex replies to your messages super fast which of these are you thinking the most?
When someone you just started talking to of the opposite sex replies to your messages super fast which of these are you thinking the most?
I appreciate that they reply to me quickly
Vote A
They must have a ton of free time
Vote B
They probably like me romantically
Vote C
They’re too clingy
Vote D
They likely have no life
Vote E
I’d usually just be thinking of whatever they messaged me not how quickly they sent it.
Vote F
I would think something else
Vote G
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You might be thinking of more than one of these but which is most prominent for you?
+1 y
We will also say they dont go nuts on you if you dint reply to them quickly. Like maybe 3 messages max and all round the time you messaged them.
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  • The closest choice here would be A, but I'm really thinking they're into me and we have good chemistry (this has only happened with two girls in my entire life, by the way), since in my experience, most women are flakey AF and don't respond unless "they feel like it."

    I used to see this girl who would ghost me every night, and say the next day "I fell asleep." But only when I texted her first the next day. Like, that's rude as hell, bitch! She didn't just pass out mid text; I'm sure she actually put her phone down and intentionally went to sleep, while leaving me hanging. And then waited until I texted her sometime in the early afternoon before explaining herself.

    ... So it's good when I find a rare woman who DOESN'T do things like that.

    • " don't respond unless "they feel like it." " yeah i do notice that.

Most Helpful Guy

  • That they Simply have that chance to reply quickly, sometimes that me I will reply even on here fast, just because it’s a good distraction and helps me think.

    I sometimes get a text (WhatsApp) when holding my phone about to text the same person.

    how many times has someone being holding their phone thinking about someone, then the phone rings and it’s them.

Most Helpful Girls

  • When you’re first getting to know someone it’s really important to put the time in - it shows you’re interested but it also ALLOWS u to get to know them more and feel comfortable talking to each other.


    I don’t have the time to be texting 24/7, I’m a super busy woman. I work full-time and I’m loyal to the gym and other commitments at home. But if I’m interested in a guy, I will find the time to be replying relatively quickly otherwise it will be boring. Texting is already so dead anyways. Imagine spaced out replies. WOAH.

    • so you wouldn't assume he's got no life or is obsessed?

    • No I’d be happy!! Means he wants to get to know me and he’s making the time for me

    • great i wish most people thought like you about this :)

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  • I wouldn't see that as an issue, why would it be? I think it's worse when someone texts you first, starts a conversation, you reply and then they don't respond for hours/ days.. if you didn't have time to talk why start a conversation in the first place?

    • For real!!!

    • yeah im usually the one starting it and i usually pretty speedy with my replies, but i have had people do this to me too. i understand :/

    • I have “friends” who do this. Annoys me like no other

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  • Option F, I don't think of the time much, I mostly think of the context of the message.

  • I don't focus on anything other than the message. The time it takes someone to reply is of no importance. It literally means nothing because it could be a million reasons as to why. I just don't assume.

    • Thats good, unfortunately doesn't stop others from assuming though.

    • Very true. It reminds me of that 3 day rule lol. I just don't understand it.

    • Yeah like “oh you replied while eating? You must have no life” lol just like ehhhh.

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  • I've probably caught them when they're using their phone and not in the middle of lunch.

  • I appreciate quick replies. I must have caught them in a free moment.

  • I like when I receive a text back regardless. What I don't like is when someone chats with you constantly & then without rhyme or reason nothing. Playing with someone's emotions isn't right all. Don't be a coward just be honest ✌️

    • Yeah unfortunately it seems to be the norm these days. I get you though

    • Thank you Good question ✌️

  • I would assume that they had tons of free time or that they're bored and have nothing else to do. Or maybe they just want me to stop talking to them. so they try to be super fast.

  • To me, what has been said is more significant than how promptly he replied.

  • I honestly think nothing of it.. I dont create mountains out of mole holes..

  • They free at the moment

  • I don't asume anything. I do appreciate a message back

    • If they are slow to reply would you think the same thing?

    • I wouldn't asume still. let's say I message someone (one here), and it took days, I would be thinking, well, maybe... they ran off, sick, had an emergency. It does make people think.

    • I do appreciate, that person telling me some reason why they weren't responding sooner, when they message me back.

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  • Obsessive

    • Why just based on the speed of the replies?

    • Yeap especially if it’s consistently

    • How come?

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  • I typically don't think about it because I often reply fast, I'm a multitasker though, I can be gaming or working on a project or drawing or doing whatever else while also having my phone next to me.


    Replying to someone takes only a small amount of time, so even if busy, it's not very often I don't reply quickly.

  • I think it's nice.
    I have more of an issue if someone texts a lot and constantly.
    But if he replies fast to my texts, I like it since I have a short attention span.

  • They are too clingy or want to bang me lol.

  • I'd be frustrated depending the time we are texting. Because we should have a life too. I won't respond if I'm at work.

  • Honestly I just have to much free time on my hands but I usually do it to be nice as well