What Do Guys Like During Sex? Advice?

[Anonymous]

This is probably my most cringey question, but I've only ever done oral and stuff like that with one person before now, because we don't talk anymore.

I hung out with a guy friend at his place and we did similar stuff since I didn't want to lose my virginity yet but he kept wanting to do stuff. I'll say it went well enough, but it could have been way better? 😅😅

He told me I needed to work on giving head because I nicked him with my teeth, and tbh I suck hard sometimes and it was a weird angle so understandable lmao. He also said, I need to learn to be slow because I'm always hard and aggressive. Which is fine, I like aggressive and I'm used to it 💀💀 but I can do both. That's as much as he told me tho, because anytime I ask about his spots or kinks he tells me he doesn't know them. He said he's a hang job guy tho, which is kinda weird to me. Cause those are boring asf, I like giving head tbh.

Also he said, he didn't like spanking or giving hickeys before we started which was random. Then he did both of those things to me without me without me asking. Which is fine but wtf? Lol. I don't know, I feel kinda confused and like I don't know how to please him. He said he takes a while to cum too. 💀💀

Maybe I just suck at sex shit, and that's crazy for me to say because I've never been told I gave bad head, handjobs, or anything before. I've always had fun and it's been good until now. Advice? 😅😅😅

[FunkyMonkee]

If he doesn't know his preferences, time to experiment!! Let your fingers do the walking!!
As for you being a blower and he being a handy guy, can you do both at the same time? Put the knob in your mouth and suck while you slide your hand up and down on his plonker! Try licking the helmet of his little soldier while you're down there. That should make him stand at attention!! Watch out for the salute, though!! Do it nice and slow with long licks! That's basically what would've been his clit, if he was born a girl. Find out what works for you and try it on him! Also, try to softly and slowly rub with just the tip of your finger, like you're pushing things around on your phone, or lick the under side of the helmet, the "shiny" white part surrounding the edge of the helmet.
Here's a good one for you!! Wrap your hand around his dick so that only the very tip of his dick it popping out of the top and then, very slowly, rub the center of the palm of your other hand around on that AND the edge of your other hand (thumb and index finger)!! It's ELECTRIC!!!
One thing my ex used to do, which I LOVED and could take for hours, was her sitting beside me in bed or on my ass and then VVVEEEERRRRYYY SLOWLY AND VERY LIGHTLY, trace her finger tips in random designs all over my back sides, ass, legs and eventually my chest!! She could also do this REALLLY COOOL thing with her tongue on my nipples that really flipped my burgers but she'd never tell me exactly how she was doing it!! She'd go to kiss one of them, take it into her mouth, slightly and then do a really fast flick across the nipple with her tongue!
I would stay away from the very base of his tail bone, between his cheeks, because, from my experience, although it feels good, it suddenly makes me want to pee!
Some guys like it when you play with the biffin bridge... the area between his balls and asshole. Just, again, trace your finger tip along it up & down rather slowly.
Use your own body to get clues, what things do you like or feel good to you, try those on him.

[Dargil]

First, an effective blowjob. *A blowjob is not passionate sex. It is nurturing sexual therapy.
*Get him hard and ready by an erotic massage. A little anal fingering will speed up the process but watch how close he comes to orgasm.
*The best blow job combines properly timed use of hands and mouth. Your mouth focuses on the head and your hand strokes the shaft.
*Gradually build sexual arousal/tension. Do not slow down or pause. He can lose momentum.
*Edge him to make him last longer but be sure not to let him fade before building to orgasm.
*When you are ready for him to cum, bob and suck as quickly as you can sustain for maybe 3 minutes. Stroke as fast as you can with a moderate grip.
*When ejaculation starts, stop ALL mouth motion. Moderate sucking only.
*Slow down, but keep stroking to the last squirt. If you can master it, stroke between the later squirts but pause during the squirt.
*Stay locked on sucking lightly until he drains unplugs.
*A skilled blow job is not slutty. It's Girl Power. It's an act of love and nothing else makes a man feel more loved. If you get really good at it and will give it whenever he asks, it is cheating insurance. And, there's this:

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He told me I needed to work on giving head because I nicked him with my teeth.
*That's easy to avoid. Curl your lips under your teeth if you need to.

I suck hard sometimes and it was a weird angle so understandable lmao.
*Only suck as hard as you would at your own nipple.

He also said, I need to learn to be slow because I'm always hard and aggressive.
*Read my text above.

*One more thing. Check out anal/prostate fingering. Some (me) like it, some not so much. If he does, he will cum like a race horse.

[ohshee]

A roast beef sandwich maybe a vanilla banana or chocolate shake. I like to laugh I like massages I like to kiss you know the usual stuff LOL

To be honest it's all different every time I'm really not that much because I like to do all the work anyway I like to make it about the girl

[Leavesbound]

I'm open to almost anything sexual but I'm particularly fond of a girl sitting on my face for long periods of time or in a 69 with her on top. I love having her sit in my lap facing me with me inside her and us making out and I'm fond of having a woman make-out with my ears. I mean just lick and suck them all over like she's trying to lick my eardrums. It's also fun when girl talks about wanting to do ludicrously impossible sexual things with me.

[TheBigGuy9]

Let’s forget about sex for a second here. It sounds like you’re a virgin? I’d get rid of this guy. The no hickey thing and then doing it is fucked up. Then the no ass slap? I’d be afraid of what he might do? The work hard play nothing is boring as fuk too. Potentially Dangerous. You want a guy that is more than that.


You don’t suck at giving head. His taking longer to cum thing is because he jerks off to porn! Seriously, I’d drop this guy.

[jahaims]

For her to be excited

[Pterodon]

Dirty talk

[Narcotics]

I like sweaty boobs, i know it's weird but i do.

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

different guys, like different things hun

JUST ASK HIM

[JustMe62]

I like just about everything, But I draw the line at Anal. That is out for me.

[JesseJayNeak]

Creampies

[Anonymous]

Practice practice practice and yes I like it hard but the angle would do some damage so you have to be straight on it

[Anonymous]

Wait until you are in love to have sex. It's so much better that way.

[Anonymous]

well it's different from a guy to another
but the main things are these
1-oral 2-moans and little talks 3-eye contact and kiss 4-being touched 5-having a bucket list of ideas to try 6-watching boobs jiggle

if you're bad at oral just search for some tutorials on pornhub and other websites (Not Porn "Tutorial only")
here some sites which you can read in your free time
New things in bed
24 tip For giving a Blowjob
How to give a Blowjob
also here's a blowjob tutorial if you're interested

[Anonymous]

I like when my parter bite my lips gentle.

[Anonymous]

Are you saying that you've never had intercourse before?