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I’m sick of men chasing me.. why can’t men take the hint “ no “?

I’m constantly telling men to back off like I don’t see them romantically or sexually as a lesbian, but they keep on insisting themselves.. one guy told me today he wants to meet me my first response was for what he was like a shower and a kiss ( in the back of my mind wtf do we need to shower for and f no to kissing ) I immediately said hell no wtf 😳🚫🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️.. like me explaining my sexuality is NULL - but these guys keep on dating sites where my profile clearly shows rainbows 🌈 and unicorns 🦄 .. I don’t get it with men.. I use to be pissed about them approaching me ( no cap 🧢 I still am ) lol 😆 , but it’s annoying now.. what do you lesbians do to ward off straight men?
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  • guys

    if a girl says no

    BACK THE FUCK OFF

    • FACTS

  • They are a bunch of horn dogs. No means no!

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  • Online I will tolerate it up to a certain point. I generally try to be nice and mention my wife but if they keep going I become more direct. If they still can't take a hint I'll block them

    • I’ve gone everything I can to ignore them it’s to the point just annoying at times.. ughh

  • Nature and biology is what it is. If you chose to go against nature, you will have to accept the consequences!

  • @bricealan I don't know what made u go off with her question? Do women always say no to u and that's why u started accepting their answer? Cause I've experienced this, most women do, so I don't know what's offensive for u

  • Have you thought about writing in your dating profiles that you´re only interested in women? Because I for example didn´t know that unicorns are an emojis just lesbian women use.

    • You just answered what men already know lol “ I know that unicorns 🦄 and rainbows 🌈 are what lesbians use “ which means men know this they just ignore this

    • No sorry for the misunderstanding. I just know that for reading you´re text. I didn´t know that before.

    • Even behind the emojis and making my profile for women they still flock to me

  • Probably because many guys don't see a "no", as a final answer. And many women say "no" initially, and later relent.

  • On dating sites? Ignore them. Don’t respond in any way.

  • The same reason women with strap-ons can't, it would appear.

    Get yourself together, and sort out your communication. It's atrocious.

  • If you are just so 'irresistible that men just can't take 'NO' for an answer, hire a body guard. You say you are 30-35, a 'big girl' now ! You, and other 35 year old women KNOW how to say get lost, I'm not interested, etc. etc. Your question is insulting to most men. You post anonymously, and that is another indicator. You waste the time of any serious responder. I DO have the guts to not answer your question with my name attached.

    Ask some 'REAL question

    • I’m not obligated to show my identity on GAG.. o find it flattering when men chase me it’s a no and it’s only insulting if you let this question bug you. I constantly tell me bye bye my biggest concern is them sexual assaulting me

    • Brice you could’ve not responded, but you did so well

    • How is it insulting? I’m not interested in men and a lot of men can’t handle rejection so I avoid men all together now

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  • I bark at them.

    • Lol I may try this 🤣

    • 🤣🤣🤣

    • I just ignore them half of the time I don't know 🤷🏽‍♀️ what to say

  • We can't help it! We're horny bastards!

    • I know but I’m not the one for it.. try with heterosexual women

    • The thing is, we don't know you're a lezzie unless you walk around with a sign SAYING you're a lezzie. Women are the strongest magnets in the world and men are cheap metal! But, we all know which way North is! If you were a guy, none but the gay guys would be hitting on you. I've had a few gay guys hit on me and there was nothing to get upset about. I'd either just say, "no." or, if I had the time, we'd have a casual chat for a while and then just walk away from each other. They're just people (you should know that) so, I just treat them that way. Another thing is, I've met a number of lezzies over the years that had kids and/or still fucked guys! One had a 3 year old daughter when I first met her. Another got pregnant by my guitarist and had a daughter with him but, they never stayed together. A couple years later, I started asking her out and she told me she's gay! Then she flashed her tits at me as we were walking down the street! Another few years later, I caught her fucking my singer!! He had her up against the same guitarist's dining room wall! Either she's bullshitting me about BEING gay or she keeps jumping off the horse!

    • The only problem I have with men is you tell them your gay and they’re still disrespectful. Like how can you try and change a lesbian? 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ lol 😂 I don’t get it? 🛑🚫

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  • well maybe fucking write in you profile that you are lesbian and not into men since you said you have rainbows and unicorns on your profile or something😂
    like everyone and their cat seems to bi or something these days so if you are on a dating website where you can freely message someone

    • I do doesn’t stop men from chasing though it’s werid how men chase women who don’t want them. So you’re excusing men for not feeding profiles ( no excuse ) all pussy isn’t available to men

    • Everyone seems to be bi or cat these days I’ve been this way sober I was a teen wth females are doing I can’t answer that 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤣 .. I onus you got kinda salty there

    • not really but if you feel like that go ahead but sure if you have that on your profile then they are just retards maybe swap to tinde or something

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  • I'm a lesbian. 😎

  • I mean you could get a fake ring or something, that'd probably make them less likely to approach you I don't know other than that

    • I do wear fake bans it’s comical when I reject men at this point.. some will back other others no than I have to get stupid.

  • When are we gonna meet for our first date!

    • Hahaha you must got me confused with some other chick lol 😂 I don’t date men ( never did )

    • My first date was with my girlfriend ( butch )

    • Well, you're not using your pussy to it's fullest potential Jokes on you.

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  • Write everywhere in bold letters that you have a boyfriend now and its been 4 years.
    Its just a matter of writing
    talking about lesbo part thats not natural to have
    if u want i can explain u in detail somewhere else

    • Silly move

    • You have by the time presumed every guy approaching to flirt with you i have encountered such obsessed girls they end u frustable in life. YOu are aginst nature forces look in the mirror and see whats more silly

    • Why would a straight man chase a lesbian after that’s known? Entitlement or stupidity you tell me. I normally look at men when they approach me and kindly request telling them I’m gay and not interested in their sexual advances or interest. It only becomes a problem when they start trying to convince me that they can change me and this is when I have to step out if character. Men can’t change women’s sexuality and secondly it’s up to a woman to decide what she wants to do with her body. I’m not a straight woman whose in the spaces of men to being with. So any straight girl obsessed with men has nothing to do with a lesbian who 9/10 doesn’t like men. The majority of lesbians don’t like men so this notion about women being obsessed is crazy maybe straight women who chase men for sex, but I can’t see a lesbian doing that sorry

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  • Maybe you should wear a T-shirt that say "back off buddy".

    • Maybe I should start rubbing men off

    • I am sure they would like that, but you do what you gotta do

    • lol what I’m gonna do just run men off

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  • Take it as a compliment but ignore them they'll eventually get the point

  • once a cunt always a cunt

  • It’s only natural for men to be attracted to a woman, you probably don’t look like the butch type so they have no way of knowing what you really like, I never knew what rainbows and unicorns meant, thought that was just someone being girlie

    • No it’s lesbian emojis

    • Never knew that and probably most guys don’t either

    • Some guy below recognized the emojis , but nevertheless it’s on my dating profile I’m GAY - men just think their entitled to women and you’re not. Or they think they can cure us lol not how it works - sexuality is a part of femininity

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  • You must be an exception to the rule... most lesbians are ugly af and I wouldn't give them a second look.

    • Like most men ugly af there are pretty lesbians and lesbians who don’t look like men. There’s nothing attractive to me about a man sorry

    • Romantically or sexually I see some men as attractive , but that’s about it

    • I really couldn't care less if you find men attractive or not.

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