Should I or not?

[Anonymous]

I love my wife but her blowjobs arnt fantastic infact they can be teeth painful as a horny guy i miss blowjobs that are deep and where the girl swallows, iv never cheated iv thought about it i know its not good but it feom a place of not been completly satisfied i dont want an afair no feelings just a one night stand or even better a quick stop to my local glory holes where i can have a hot bj without any emotion just pleasure and hopefuly no guilt im not sure im confused what do u think?

[PeacefulRainDrop]

No I wouldn't do any of those things.. why dont you teach her how to give you one? she's basically trying to please you so much she's sucking too hard which cause the teeth to go together.. tell her to gently suck she wants to suck in a way she can wiggle her tongue up and down your shaft. She won't know unless your honest with her.. she's doing it to please you and I know you dont want to hurt her feelings just in the middle of it when she starts sucking too hard it hurts tell her babe thanks soo much for doing everything you can to please me. Can you try wiggling your tongue along my shaft? Then she will start will likely feel much better might stop ask if its okay just be honest. Your sexual desires are important to be fullfilled so are hers and this might open her up to suggest for you to do something different.

Dont say she does a horrible job why can't she do it like others... it hurts with her teeth.. I can tell you right now she's unaware of her teeth hurting you.. a blow job isn't an easy task but I love it when my man shakes I know he's close.. to know im the reason he feels that good.. I didn't always give good ones but one ex took the time to show me.. I still remember him telling me to think of it like licking an ice cream cone not sucking on a sucker. Never had any complaints since then before it was just my teeth and it would make me upset cause I didn't understand how my teeth were hurting when I wasn't biting him its the act of sucking to hard.. you have a good woman you need to be honest with her if you go to someone else you could lose her.. I know Id leave you if I was her its the act of doing it of looking for greener grass when yours just needs a little fertilizer. Then you will have the best of both worlds no guilt and for free by the love of your life.

[Asker]

Thanks so much for ur great advice without judging me for my thoughts

[SueShe]

You are the definition of a toxic person.

Your wife and any girl for that matter are only good to sexually satisfy your perverted needs. If they don't live by your standards, they are disposable goods, about a step below a common worm. Somebody one can basically discard after use.

I honestly hope that your wife finally sees through you and divorces you and takes the maximum she can from you to teach you a lesson about human values.

You disgust me. I don't wish you anything bad but if it happens, I will not be sad. That is about the only thing I call tell to a person like you.

[Asker]

U r not a nice person to call me toxic, i came here to not be judged but a possitive oppinion i have never cheated on my wife & i really dont want to but ill i have written is about thoughts only at this stage, i suspect u have been hurt or have a grudge it seems on possible how u may have been treated in the past, marriage is important to me but also both our needs rather offering helpful kind thoughted advice uv gone on the attack not very nice at all.

[SueShe]

Message received. You find it okay to want to cheat on her just because she does not sexually satisfy you the way you want. Also, why would you want to go to a glass manufacturing company to get what you cannot get at home? Having sexual intercourse with another person is indeed cheating, whether you like to hear it or not.

[Asker]

Well i never cheated i only thought about it, thinking & acting on something are two different things i never said i find it ok and just thinking about that makes me feel guilty, but i have feelings u know & thoughts & all it is so yeah u have no right to judge me in anyway, im really a nice guy if i wasn't why would i not have acted apon it, instead of judgements try offering advice in a kind loving way cause if anything is toxic it has been ur respons from the begining, another advice nice from another person i marked as a top respons is a good response

[SueShe]

You know, cheating starts with the thought of it. If you think of cheating, you have already cheated. End of story. The only thing that is missing is the actual act but in your mind, you have already made your decision.

[OlderAndWiser]

How would you feel if I said, "Hey, I just happen to know your wife and she told me she never has orgasms when you guys do it, so she was thinking about going to just to find a guy to fuck."?

[Asker]

Yeah i get ur point id wanna know if that was the case what i can do to Better for her

[OlderAndWiser]

Have you talked to her about how she could make things better?

[AustinMan]

Have you talked to your wife about her BJs? What happened?

[Honesttguy]

How about teaching her how to give you better blowjobs? Everything is skill and can be improved.

[Anonymous]

glory hole is a very good option but, don't make it obvious to her, by that I mean don't go there every day
just go there when you need it