Do you think this is wrong or fine?

My sons friend is currently seeing a hot girl for sex, she is 16 which is legal in our country and he is 49 and single. I have to say its pretty hot, as I find him attractive. Her parents just remain neutral, but the dad was mad.
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  • I guess it’s fine? I don’t know do they both like each other? In our country it varies by state but even in states where it’s less than 18 there’s usually a 5 year or less older limit if one of the people is under 18 so a 16 year old can’t be with someone over 21. In the case of the people you’re talking about i would say it will fizzle out anyway… that kind of age difference isn’t really built for longevity. Hell … being 49 that guy isn’t going to last forever anyway haha

  • It's fine because both are willing.

    • Thanks for MHG.

    • Right @Leavesbound

    • Why would I reply in private? You posted the question in public.

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  • Although it's legal, it's still disgusting. He's almost fifty sleeping with a teenager? A 16 year old should be focusing on teenager things such as friends, school, parties, etc... instead of entertaining a lonely, desperate, pathetic 49 year old. The father has every right to be angry, I would be too. There's a reason why the legal age is 18 in most countries, it's because the frontal cortex isn't fully developed until the mid twenties.

    • Actually age of consent is lower in most countries

    • Most teenagers have sex too, so it's stupid to just focus on the older person

  • As a father I would be upset also. I think I would do what I could do to stop it. As a man there's something about our animals instincts that tells us we need to refresh our breeding stock, to keep our traits going into the future. It's like your family surname, we want boys to keep our surname goin on forever, but I know some family names that will die out after this generation cause there were no males born.

    • I think it's pretty hot

  • Do you think this is wrong or fine?

    For her, hopefully a life liaison resulting in positive memories... speaking from firsthand experience, I will say, as that older male, my emotional pain of the 'vacuum' of her departure was a soul-sucking void that's taken DECADES to numb.

    Nevertheless... experiencing MY 'Lolita' for 5 years, was one of the MOST memorable genuine loves of MY Life. <3

    • This is about sex, not love

  • Not legal in Australia , as he is 49 , she would need to be 18 plus.
    Not so sure that is legal in the UK , as all the drama with Prince Andrew , I thought the girl was 17 ?
    At 16 , I think she to too young to know what she has become involved in.

    • It's definitely legal here

    • Well in that case Randy Andy is okey then :)

    • Wouldn't be legal here in Canada either, eh.

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  • That is an extremely creepy age gap. Definitely not okay by me.

    • Saw worse

    • @TwistedTube you seem strange

    • What

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  • I think if it's legal and they both like each other who knows how long it will last let them have their own business create a moment let them learn something that can enjoy each other and life and grow and become it can be happy if their business

  • Ideally, no because she is too young for a relationship and he is too old to be dating someone this young

    However, since your laws (and maybe culture) deems this as legal, i cannot really comment on it.

    • They are not dating, just sex

    • Ok shit... Having sex with a girl before she is 20 is something i consider wrong (as adults, that is 18 above or 20 above, whatever they do is none of my concerns)

  • I think that is up to both of them. Hence fine.

  • I think it´s wrong because the girl can be his daughter. That´s way too old. It says a lot about the guy if he´s into minors. It´s obvious to me that he´s not going after because of her character. Younger girls are less experienced and are therefore easier to be manipulated. She might be beautiful and innocent, after some time he might leave her just because he gets bored.
    For her it might be her dream come true, for him it could be that, too, but I´d rather doubt that. After some time he knows everything about her needs to know, has experienced with her everything he wanted to and moves on.

    • They know its just sex, they are not in a relationship. I don't know why you assumed that was the case

    • It seems you made up things to suit your narrative so you could judge. Shows that you are biased

  • Thats super fucked up

    • What do you mean

    • Where im from he would be arrested and sent to jail.

  • It is fine as long as she is happy and he takes care of her.

  • If both are consenting and are not legally doing anything wrong, then I think it's find. The age difference is pretty massive but it doesn't really matter if they both are consenting their will and are willing to be in such a relationship.

  • If it's legal I don't see anything wrong with it so I think it's fine.

  • Qtnthe end of the day your parents cannot decide who you need to date

    • It's sex

    • So we all start sex around that age.

    • So you think its OK?

  • Perfectly fine

    • Look at the downvote lol

  • Legal and freely engaged.

    • That doesn't make sense

  • Good for the dad! A 16yo should not be the sex toy of any man, let alone someone old enough to be her grandfather.

    If you find him attractive, maybe you should offer to be his sex toy, and save the girl the painful experience.

    • Why painful? You don't know what she wants

    • I didn't mean physical pain... mental pain and anguish. If she does this, when she's much older she'll look back on it negatively. and most likely regret it.

    • That's your opinion

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  • In 1939 it was legal in Germany to hand over a Jewish person to be murdered.

    That doesn't mean it was right..

  • This goes against like everything we talked about last night. If that was my daughter I'd kick that dudes ass every which way down the street.

  • Difficult situation. 16 years is rather young, and illegal in many countries, but that's not relevant in daily life. As long as the 49 years old man knows when to let her go live her life with someone around her age, I think the girl may have learned something positive.

    • I agree

    • But it's legal here so it doesn't matter

    • Legal or not is not the real question. Laws are only artificial but necessary in order to keep a certain degree of peace in a society. In reality things happen without laws being able to do anything about it. The real problems are practical, and laws sadly often make things worse.

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