Girls, does anyone else ever feel like they are going to pee during sex?

So sometimes during sex I get this feeling as if im going to pee. Its weird because I know my bladder is empty but I still get the feeling.
I also get the feeling when my new boyfriend goes down on me and fingers me at the same time.
Does anyone else get this?
Im so scared of having pee come out while having sex so it makes me hold back to be honest.
Is there a way I can stop it? I usually go to the bathroom before I shower prior to sex but it doesn't seem to help.
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  • I have experienced several times my husband peeing in me - in my vagina. It is a very strange, wet and hot feeling to get warm pee sprayed in my body. It is known as golden shower and not common for many. We usually shower together on Sundays and all holidays, I need not to clarify why? It is our pleasure. The first time my husband pee inside me during coupling, was because I do not allow him to pull out to pee. He had finished in me, and I was enjoying aftershocks. He got somewhat hard because of his urge to pee, but it gave me some more pleasure. I was sitting on his lap, locked him hard, and said something. He peed in me with a strong forceful jet in large volume. I sensed it almost like his cum, hot, strong, but for much longer time, and very pleasant. His pee was flooding out from my body, giving strong and great pleasure. For men, it is not possible to pee during sex, if he has not finished. There is a duct that allows for semen to pass or urine to pass, but never both. It is generally switched when the man gets erect. During ejaculation, semen is passed through the same tube as urine, but the body prevents the two things from ever coming into contact. As the erection begins, a cleansing liquid known as pre-cum is released from the penis, which lubricates and removes any traces of sperm-harming acid which may be left behind after urination. The bladder is physically locked, making it impossible to urinate during an erection. The two acts are never normally confused. Man with an erection may find it very difficult to pee but it is possible. It is not harmful, because urine is normally sterile in a healthy man. Few days after that episode, he did it again, (asking me), and I enjoyed it. The same way I peed while connected after finishing first round, and he said it feel nothing special to him, because it showered his penis from outside – near base. If my husband somehow managed to urinate inside of my vagina, nothing will happen and it will just flush out his cum. Sexual arousal can potentially increase the feeling of needing to pee. During sex, both men’s and women’s urethras become ‘charged’ with seminal fluid, from the Prostate Gland in men and from the Skene’s Glands in women. This gives the feeling of needing to pee. Ejaculation, in a way, is ‘peeing’ of seminal fluid, released from the urethra in pulses, when the external urethral sphincter is opened. We are enjoying it.

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  • Yes I definitely get this feeling. My advice would be not to hold back because that's stopping you enjoying it so much. It's probably just the feeling of your body enjoying itself, and what you really want is for your body to really enjoy itself and have an orgasm. Holding back from that means that sex isn't going to be as good.
    And if what you're worried about does happen when you orgasm then your boyfriend will be happy that he's made you enjoy yourself and squirt.
    I occasionally have an accident when I have an orgasm, and although it was embarrassing at first I decided not to worry about it. It's a natural part of me, and I love orgasms and I'm not going to let my bladder getting excited get in the way of me enjoying sex. Just go for it and don't hold back.

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  • Its normal cause they put pressure on your bladder

  • What if it's squirt?