Guys, What do you think when a girl asks you to get tested (STD or STI) before you have sex?

[Anonymous]

And what if the girl is a virgin?

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't complain at all, but I would also ask the girl to get tested. If she says she is a virgin, she could still have an STD acquired in utero, and how do I know she is really a virgin? Also, STD's can be acquired through oral or anal sex and she could still have an intact hymen but have something like chlamydia.

[Asker]

That is fair

[NamerOfStars]

That she's got a good head on her shoulders. Well, probably on her neck, actually; that expression doesn't make much sense when you think about it. I've made it a point to get BOTH of us tested before I'll first have sex with anybody; it's just common sense.

Virginity doesn't matter much; there isn't a single disease out there (that I know about) that can ONLY be caught through having sex. And if you DO have something, isn't it better to know?

[MTC29]

Her pussy... her rules. If I was interested in her, or more to the point: getting inside her, I'd get tested.

[Lliam]

I think a girl who does that is admirable. She takes care of her body and doesn't want to take chances. It tells me that she doesn't just fuck anybody but is serious about wanting to have sex with me. It's hot.
I had one girlfriend as me to go with her to get us both tested before we had sex. I willingly complied. As it turned out, she was wild and orgasmic in bed.

[hellionthesagereborn]

Seems fair so long as she is getting it done too (I don't know that she is a virgin).

[ChrisMaster69]

That she is being sensible,

however as a guy I would also be expecting her to be tested as well and would suggest a joint booking,

that way we both know we had our tests, it also shows the girl what happens and how easy the testing is,

[ChrisMaster69]

@ pink Anon asker, ref your update - because they are basically fuckwits.

[ohshee]

I think the girl is smart I think the girl is wise and I think that she should do that before she has sex good job

[Adam1978]

Fine as long as she takes the test with me and I get to see her result. But it's something that can wait until I know I want to date the girl long term.

[MotorcycleMan]

I think she is being smart and safe and if I have any respect for her I will comply with her wishes.
Sex is complicated enough, especially for a virgin, without the added worry of picking up a disease.
If a man doesn't respect your request, he is either not respectful (find another guy) or already has a disease (find out what, decide if you are willing to take that risk and play safe).

[slatyb]

That she's pretty sensible. I would have no problem getting tested.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

I think that I'm glad she's responsible and practicing safe sex. I get tested after each new partner anyway so it's no big deal. I would ask her to get tested too. Even though she's a virgin, there are STDs you can get without having sex, like herpes

[DCooper]

Honestly, I wouldn't have sex with a virgin. She's still potentially good marriage material for somebody.