Why would he want to cum on my body rather than inside me when I on birth control?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

Reasons why cumming ON a girl can be hot:

• it's dominant (him)/submissive (her).
• There's a huge visual element, and guys are visual.
• Some people like to "mark their territory"/"be marked by their man".
• For some, it's humiliating, and many people have a humiliation fetish (women especially).
• It's different - and men especially love variation.
• It alleviates any concerns of birth control failures.

Now, obviously YOUR feelings matter too, so this is something you should talk over with him, and then set expectations that you can both agree to.

[FunkyMonkee]

Probably because some guys just like the look of their come ON a naked girl instead of just the THOUGHT of it being IN her. I guess it's kinda like a form of proof. Personally, I'd MUCH rather cum IN her!!! it's so cool to know that she's got a big load from me inside of her!!
Unless she wipes it all over her body and leaves it there, or tries to scrape it off and PUT it inside of her or her mouth, what's the point of cumming ON a girl when, most likely, she's gonna go wipe/wash it off moments later, anyway?
In a lot of recent pornos, they now DO cum inside a girl but, if it's not leaking out of her afterwards, they ask her to push it out so they can see on camera that the guy did, indeed, cum in her!! All she really has to do is open it up so they can get a close-up shot of the cum inside her!! To me, it's very disappointing to spend 20 some minutes watching one only to have the guy pull out and cum ON her instead of IN her!!

[Anonymous]

I really think it’s the influence of porn. Men are aroused by watching porn, where the male “actor” almost always cums on the female’s body or face. Then they want to act that out in their own sex life to relive that feeling of arousal. When I think back, every boyfriend I’ve ever had has at least occasionally pulled out to make a mess on my body or face. It’s just become a normalized part of male sexuality from repetition in porn. If he’s doing it too much, don’t be afraid to ask him to dial it back some and finish inside more. Your desires are important too... but obviously you’ll have to accommodate him sometimes.

[Curiouss1]

That’s it. No doubt

[Lliam]

I have no idea. He probably got the idea from watching porn. I have the lowest possible opinion of guys who do that. It's a pathetic fetish. They probably enjoy masturbating as much as fucking a woman.

[Curmudgeon]

Either what Luckycharms12 wrote, or he doesn't trust the birth control.

[integrale77]

Sounds like he's watching too much porn as that's a typical porn thing!

[LiamSawyer]

Simple, he watches way too much porn and thinks that's the thing to do. In porn they do that on purpose to show the cum shot otherwise known as the "money shot".

Personally, I'd much rather cum deep in her vagina.

[Kabluie]

Visually marking the girl with your cum is also hot.

[dudeinohio]

maybe he doesn't believe you are on BC

[jahaims]

Because you can still get pregnant

[Mangospacho]

He is probably still paranoid about getting you pregnant. It’s natural to be skeptical about the birth control working the first time you use it.

[Twalli]

Birth control isn't 100% effective and he really doesn't want a kid.

[Cowboy6666]

maybe he wanted variety to cum over other places too ;)

[amaguqe]

I have no fucking clue hahahaha
Perhaps he enjoys torturing himself, I would rather shot myself than pull-out lol

[Luckycharms12]

Cos its hot

[Asker]

Excuse my ignorance, but why is it hot?

[Luckycharms12]

Guys like cum on girls face tits pussy and ass as well as in her. Maybe it's control thing

[Asker]

Okay so he likes to be dominant.

[Luckycharms12]

That too

[Asker]

Being controlling is dominant isn’t it? Kind of like marking their territory?

[OnTheLevel]

It's a fetish for some guys. They like to see their cum on a girl.

[Joshua0213]

Cause it is fun to change it up every once and a while, inside is the best but love doing other things every once and a while.

[bananathunder]

*porn

[abc--123]

More visually appealing

[Asker]

Why, because you can see it all?

[Deku2009]

Have you asked him if he would like to cum inside , or talk about with him

[Asker]

He already has many times the first time we had sex, but we were talking about what we liked and he was saying how he’d like to cum on me too.

[Deku2009]

Have you told him you love it when he cums inside you?

[Asker]

Not in so many words yet but I will

[CubaPirate]

To humiliate you or mark his territory perhaps

[dolemite89]

cuz the pill isn’t infallible 😂

[guyinterested]

yeah, that is kind of dumb, I agree