Guys: Does the use of sex toys make you feel less of a man?

I want to bring in a toy that makes me orgasm but I don’t want him to feel like sex is not good or like he’s not enough.

I just like a particular feeling in a specific place sometimes. I don’t want to take forever to get there with him without a toy, but also it’s something I would like to do together.

Does incorporating this toy during sex make you feel uncomfortable?
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  • No I'm very confident in my ability and in my tool I know sometimes you want to use because that's what she wants to do I mean she might I have a fantasy of two guys so in order to make it work you need that toy I mean there's all different types of reasons for needing it it kind of sucks for the reason you need it but it is what it is I guess you can figure it out then no I don't even my brain doesn't even go there

  • Tell him you have a treat for him. He gets to sit in a chair and watch while you strip and masturbate. Do it, and bring out your toy while you're getting off. Let him see what the little magic buzzer can do, and then ask him if he wants to take over the controls.

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  • No! I have a drawer full of toys. Use them or bring your own. No problem here.

  • Nope I love foreplay that involves , tongue, mouth, fingers, teeth and toys.

  • I have built fucking machines for girls I've dated. If that didn't then no sex toy she can think of would do that.

  • No... I'd buy more of them for her.

  • Depends on the guy of course, but I would love it if my woman wanted to do that.
    I think it would feel fantastic for her to be using a vibrator during sex.
    If he doesn't like it, call me ;)

  • No it doesn't. Whatever works for her is fine. I had a partner who rarely climaxed from intercourse alone. Best sex ever.

  • I have no problem with my wife bringing a toy into play. She often does it when my tongue is in her cheeks, or when she is feeling in charge and penetrates me

  • No not at all I actually like using them with her.

  • No, I'd even help her use it!

  • I liked to use toys.
    I was interested in anything that would help the woman have an orgasm.

  • Dear lord honey, you need to sit down for an adult convo with your man. This is what people do. TALK TO HIM. And quit being in such a hurry.

  • I encourage it.
    I love watching her cum.
    Her pleasure is my priority.
    Whatever it takes and everything possible to make her cum is game.

  • No as I get older I have them myself.

  • I don’t use them

  • No! Guys who feel inadequate all the time might have an issue but they often don’t give good sex anyways. If you are enjoying the sex you have and you open up the subject with toys for him to play with on you then he should be ALLLLL over it!

  • He should not, your toy and his cock together can give a double pleasure

  • No, because If I'm paying attention I can learn some things.

  • I don't mind if she brings in a sex toy I don't consider it that I not good I just think she wants a earth shattering orgasm and wants you to help her achieve that and also it feels good feeling her orgasm while I am in her.

  • toys are ok by me

  • No, I love it

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