Would even an apparent really good guy focused on his job enjoy nudes?

Question

This guy called Chris and I are friends but he's a natural flirt and so am I. I really vibe with him, we never did anything and I would like to change that. He's very respectful of women, I've never seen his eyes wander on a décolleté when talking to a girl eye to eye and neither him or his friends are the kind to catcall for fun. He's single because he prioritize his work (which is producing music all day in his studio) but I don't think he would completely be against the idea of him and I having a little fun.  I'm not a 100% sure tho as I said he really is a good guy focused on his job and I wouldn't want to risk weirding him out as he might not be into girls sending him pictures like that... But I don't know my guy friend says any guy would still enjoy that type of attention... What you think? Would a somewhat serious guy still like my proposition or would it weird him out?

Born-for-sex · Accepted Answer

So good guys do still like nudes but it depends on the relationship. As i saw you talking with someone else I know that you do know that girls and guys can be just friends but it does however take a friend zone and serious commitment. Your friend is either seriously committed to work or a friend zone. If you are in the zone you will totally freak him out. I would suggest hanging out with him sometime in a way that you can show off your body and see how he reacts or start conversations with him that allow you to send him controversial pictures. Either way you would be able to see how he reacts and start that ball rolling.

JackofSpades · Accepted Answer

If I'm into her, hell yeah.
Knowing a girl is into me like that is a huge turn on.

I'd start out with some non-nude selfies first though I wouldn't send any actual nudes until you sleep with him.

I understand not showing your face here, but make sure you show him a big cute smile, and not just a close up of your tits.

We can see cleavage like that with a quick google search.

But the look of a woman who's turned on by the thought of us, that's something we don't get very often.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

@ pink Anon, actually laughing here. you sort of described me lol. So as a Chris that actually fits pretty well your description, the answer is yes, he would enjoy nudes.

spartan55 · Answer

Not understanding how you are connecting the dots between him being a 'good guy focused on work' to nudes...🤷

Leavesbound · Answer

Why not ask him out on a coffee date and see where it goes from there? You don't have to call it a date so no chance of anyone getting weirded out. In a non work environment things can be more casual which also means flirting can be more obvious.

MotorcycleMan · Answer

Well, you can always pull the "OMG, I didn't mean to send you that!", but then of course he's going to wonder who you were actually sending it to.
Maybe you could take it as a challenge. Send him increasingly sexy pictures, but with an innocent explanation. See how far you can go.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Yes he would enjoy them. A respectful guy can still have fun.

Bricealan · Answer

Well, you might scare him off if he is quiet and into his work. I would try another approach, but don't know what that might be.

CentralPerk77 · Answer

If he likes females then he would probably like it a lot

RealMarek · Answer

I’m pretty sure he would enjoy the pictures.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Hmmm... We'd have to see a full body shot to evaluate if he would enjoy it or not.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Maybe you can have "Call me!" with your phone number written on one.

Nik1hil · Answer

Yes. Nudes are like snacks version of food.  And people enjoy snacks anytime

chriscdi · Answer

I don't know what to tell you cause people are different but I doubt he would dislike it, as long as he knows you aren't just sending it to random people and it's just him then I think you'd be chillin, don't quote me on it tho