Did the first time hurt?

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Rate on a scale from 1-10? Which position is a good starter? Did you bleed? Any new changes to your body?

loves2learn · Accepted Answer

It does hurt somewhat, or at least did for me, but it also feels good at the same time. Maybe a 4 or 5 on the pain scale.
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Start with missionary, you on bottom, him on top. Make sure you are plenty wet or have lots of lube. This is very important. I cannot stress enough how important it is to make sure you are wet enough.
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Took us about a month of having sex 2 times a week for it not to hurt anymore.
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I did not bleed so don’t feel bad if you don’t. I suspect I tore my hymen with a bad tampon incident, horseback riding or maybe I never had one.
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No permanent changes to my body other than that sex didn’t hurt after a month.
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After missionary we tried with me on top.

Breanna_nonbinary · Accepted Answer

There is a way to have sex the first time without it being painful. It’s painful for two reasons. All you have to do is know what to do. I’ve taught quite a few virgin girls how to have a wonderful first experience because so many times it’s just painful awkward and so short that by the time she begins to feel pleasure he’s finishing.
So it’s my missions to teach girls and women how to enjoy sex and have an amazing experience so that she never thinks sex is just “meh”.