Should Girls With Naturally Big Butts Be Ashamed?

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What Do You Think Of Girls With Naturally Big, Non-Enhanced Bums? " I think the media glorifies having a large bum but no one really understands the insecurities that come with it. You get a lot of attention and stares and sometimes guys will go as far as to try and touch it. It causes me so much anxiety when I leave my home. So I always wear something around my waist to keep it from being a distraction. (Trigger Warning ⚠️ read no further: I'm in trauma therapy and these are my stories and personal experiences) For example, in middle school I was in chemistry class and I was bending over to just grab a test tube and beaker from a box and one of the male students came up behind me and grabbed my waist and pressed himself against me. I was so terrified and left the room in tears.  
 
 Another example was when I was in grade school, me and my classmates were out at recess playing flag football. I fell down on accident and before I even had a chance to get up a male classmate mounted me and started humping so I couldn't get up. I didn't even realize what he was doing until I got him off of me. I was so embarrassed and upset I left the field and cried in the bathroom.  Honestly, having a big bum is just basically like having a restraining order strapped to your backside. I've had so many traumas due to having a larger backside so I don't envy anyone who has them."

ncannon18 · Accepted Answer

Absolutely not. No girl/woman should never be ashamed of herself just because she has a big booty on her. The truth is that mostInclude a caption for your image…

would find it disgusting because they’ve never seen a booty that big, however there are other people out there who really does love the way a big booty looks on a female & that’s for people who are booty lovers like me. Just think of your booty as a blessing because there are lot’s of men & possibly other women in this world who would do anything to hang out with big booty women, the booty itself would be too hard to look away from. And some other women embrace their good looking big butts because they use that as a way to receive many things that they’ve always wanted in their lives like. Oh and let’s not forget the part where female celebrities be showing off the booties online most of the time just to see how many compliments they would receive from random guys all over the internet. And men/women post pictures of themselves on many advertisements shown on tv and even on health/fitness magazines. Don’t worry you having a big booty is never a bad thing because it really does make you look really hot & most guys really do love women who’s packing some bubble booty on them. “Baby Got Back.”

MasseurDeMojo · Accepted Answer

You should never be ashamed of what you are born with. The men who make it super sexual are the ones who should be ashamed!!

No woman should be treated as being available 24/7 because of her butt size. The same thing goes for what a woman wears. I have seen many women who love to wear the knee high boots and a skirt, and they do look good; unfortunately most men see them, and think automatically that they want sex with them, because of what they wear. And the woman is wearing it, because it is comfortable to her, and she feels good in those clothes. Many women do not wear those types of clothes, because of how they are treated.

Just be yourself, ignore, and report the harassers. You do not deserve to be treated like a piece of meat, because you have a big butt. You are a person, with concerns, emotions, and real feelings.

undefined-intentions · Answer

I think all butts are beautiful and that it's the horrible guys who treat you like crap that should be ashamed.

I understand that experiences like that are hard, but you're not the one initiating them. This is on them. And THEY can go to hell.

PlatinumBeetle · Answer

No, of course. I don't think anyone should have to feel ashamed for their body's natural features. It isn't something you chose, and it's not even unhealthy. I'm sorry for the harassment you've faced.

But unfortunately I don't have any helpful advice about your cyber-stalker. Wish I did though.

Mofunfour20 · Answer

Depends on the circumstance. If she is showing it off online and her childs classmates tease the child because of the mothers promiscuity, then absolutely yes. Why should the child be ridiculed because his/her mother wants attention from people online, itll be there forever

Barry88 · Answer

Be proud of what you got because it's beautiful.

scuff1986 · Answer

Natural big butt's can look amazing in this right clothing and should be admired from a distance unless a guy is in a relationship with the lady. If not have respect and don't touch what isn't yours I say 🙂

Dragonpurple · Answer

No, its genetics and why should anyone be ashamed of who they are.

RealMarek · Answer

There is no reason to be ashamed by having an ample, round bum. That said, I would never grab a woman’s bum unless she wanted me to. That is just wrong.

questionsforguys · Answer

No, it's natural

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Nothing wrong with Naturally Big Bums and girls shouldn't be ashamed what is wrong is when guys in public sexually harass a girl who has a big bum, they should be shame to do them things to a girl, how would a guy like a girl, to come up to him and rub her body up against his bulge in his pants then leave him get blue balls, I'm thankful that my bulge or boner can't be seen in my pants when in my early teens I would wear shorts and walk around with a boner without realizing that it was wrong for me to do so

DisappointingHope · Answer

Not at all, and the guys who were humping you against your will should have been slapped in the face with a brick or some shit.

DKinSmashUltimate · Answer

Absolutely not! Natural big butts are SEXY!!! :D

Massageman · Answer

Sorry that you have had those negative experiences. Those guys were just figuring what was good for THEM, not what might be bad for the OTHER PERSON (you in this case). Empathy and maturity come with age and life experiences.

If any of my clients had a rear as nice as yours, I certainly wouldn't try to startle you, but I would try to give it extra special treatment.

Oppressed_Leecher · Answer

slimm thicc! 🍑

Titanic1912 · Answer

You have a beautiful butt! You shouldn’t be ashamed.

soe11 · Answer

You got lovely ass 💋

jmf909 · Answer

You have a beautiful butt but what was done to you at school was wrong and out of line. very disrespectful. being a marine i wrongly thought such anxiety s were pounded out of you. you should proud of wwhat you have achieved in life all ready and you have the right to brake anykne that touches you or any part of you

Long time no see you here girl hope your in a good head space and enjoying life to the max

Andy79 · Answer

You should be proud of what u got, it is really hot. Do not let the guys bad behavior effecting you. If this guy keep bothering you just agnore him. I think he is sick.

Wiredone · Answer

I don't think you have a big butt. It looks good.

Caliguy88 · Answer

Hell no. That’s what’s in these days

Likes2drive · Answer

Doesn’t look that big actually and not fat either, you should have told on those boys back then

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