NSFW- my boyfriend is way more into anal than PIV sex, what do I do?
A lot of conversations, even non sexual ones, he drops a comment about doing anal, and honestly I’m just getting tired of it. Im supportive of fetishes and kinks and all that but to drop it into every convo just seems excessive to me. I’ve been open to trying it, we’ve used plugs, fingers and even done anal a few times but everytime I’ve asked to stop because it causes too much pain (he’s pretty well endowed). Honestly it’s starting to really hurt my self esteem and made me feel inadequate because he gets way, way more into it when we do anal and gets off way easier. And afterwards he’s way more satisfied and affectionate. I know it’s unfair for me to think this but now I have the constant feeling that somethings wrong with me and my vagina isn’t good enough, and I’ve never had this issue with previous boyfriends. I’ve tried talking to him about this but he’ll usually just brush it off or turn into a joke to avoid talking about it.
It just really sucks cause we were really good friends before this and connected on such a deep level but now that the relationship has turned sexual it’s completely wrecked my self esteem in the bedroom. How do I handle the situation and is there any way I could ever possibly make this work?
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