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My stepson asked me about sex should I answer his questions or tell his father?

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My stepson 15 and he has had gay sex and he thinks his gay.. How can he tell?
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  • Unless he came to you for a specific reason, involve his dad. Not only so he can be a part of his son's development, but also so you can give both a female and male perspective to his question. Because, both perspectives have merit, regardless of the gender of the child.

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  • How old is step-mom, if step mom is in her early 20's and is good looking then he has probably been reading to much step-mom and step-son erotica and thinks step mommy will show him the ropes when daddy is not home. Tell his dad and let dad explain the birds and the bees or let is biological mom tell him.

    Sounds like step son wants to get with step-mom to me.

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  • How old is he? What questions did he ask you? He may be too shy to bring it up to his dad, but I would run it past his dad first if he wants you to talk to him.

    • His 15 and why does his penis get hard when he wakes up.

    • If his son thinks he's gay then he probably is. He would know. Maybe he is turning to you because he doesn't want to confront his father. In that case it would probably be best not to "out" him and just be a safe person for him to talk to. In that specific question you can just say "I don't know, but maybe your father would." But if he's already had sex then he's way beyond basic questions like that and maybe looking for a way to open up to you about other things.

    • He told me he has had sex with both boys and girls. And it felt better with a boi.

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  • How old is the son? Why is he asking you instead of his father? And where is his mother?

    • Response to update: He fucked another guy. That is a pretty good clue about being homosexual.

    • He got fucked

    • If was was assaulted, he should report it to the police.

  • You don't tell us how old he is. That may make a difference in the answer!

  • He's asking you because he trusts you he needs a friend he probably need somebody to talk to he knows he can't talk to his dad

  • Definitely answer his questions. It is great that he feels comfortable asking you. How old is he?

  • I'd say talk with his father find out his position on what to talk about just so your on the same page.

  • Personally, I prefer to talk to a female for sex education. In my case, I talk about that stuff with my aunt. We've had some talks with my mom as well, but never with my dad/uncle. I think you should talk to him about it and help him.

  • If you send him off to dad, that gives him the message that sex is dirty or something not to talk about, etc. Also, you may think of information that his dad doesn't give. It's a good idea to have him talk to both of you.

  • Wow. This is tough. I don’t know how to answer that. I’m glad I’m not in your position.

  • Both really - they’re coming to you sooo you can handle wave one of questions

  • Tell him he trusts you that’s why he asked

  • You want protect him cause there is AIDS / HIV out there and he could have multiple partners it's his choice to have male partners and lovers but you need to have the talk with him or go to his dad and explain the situation, your stepson needs to practice safe sex the same that lesbians need to practice safe sex

  • Haha.. Just get one of your lady friend
    ( - 18) to flirt and try to turn him on.. And if he gets aroused..
    He is not gay..
    Otherwise he is gay...

  • Tell him to go talk to his dad.

  • The context you have really makes it seem like he's trying to trust you and come to you for advice so I'd say give it, it doesn't seem like anything he's asking is inappropriate.

  • i think it's generally a good idea to be on the same page about those things with your husband or partner.

  • Asked his question be a friend.

  • How old is the stepson? Age-appropriate answers can be given but talk to his dad first.

  • Probably should not learn from a women especially at that age he might develop sexually attracted feelings towards you depending on what you say. When that age hormones are sometimes out a control.

  • Just answer 😊

    • See if he gets a boner if he accidentally sees you nude or masturbating

  • Boys feel comfortable with girls sometimes taking. That could really hurt him. Talk to him or tell him you can’t. Don’t tell his father. I have a stepmother too that I’m super open with. We’ve never really talked about sex but if I grow up again I think she’s be in the leaders of people I might ask.

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