Guys, You think he'll get weirded out by this?

[lanadelrey25]

I want to call him daddy but he doesn't like it so I've been casually saying sir or boss, but I haven't done it in a way where he would really notice I mean it in a submissive kind of way.

I was thinking on using it more to wear he will get the hint, do you think it will weird him out? Do you find it sexy? He doesn't like being called daddy bc it "makes him feel old" (even though he is but whatever)

[BlueWalker]

Well, it seems he's made it clear that he doesn't like it and he feels uncomfortable being called "daddy", so it's probably not a good idea to push the issue.

However, tell him you have that kind of fetish and that you'd like to express it in a different way. Just talk to him about it and see if you can both come to a happy middle ground that works for the both of you.

Communication is SO important in a relationship and especially with sex, so don't be afraid to voice your needs and desires, and don't be afraid to compromise a little to come to a happy middle ground. But just talk to him about your needs. 🙂

[lanadelrey25]

I wasn't asking about calling him daddy, I already know he doesn't like it.

[BlueWalker]

Okay, my bad. But my point is that you have replaced "daddy" with "sir" and "boss" in hopes that "he will get the hint". The thing is, he may not realize you're saying those things for the same reasons and once he realizes, it's possible he could feel uncomfortable about it or get upset. Which is why you should talk to him about your needs to be called pet names, instead of dropping hints in the hopes that he'll notice and follow along. The point of having that kind of conversation with him is to voice your needs and to see where he feels about all of it. You may tell him you want to be called by other pet names and he may be okay with that, and from there you can figure out what those pet names would be. But I can guarantee he'll appreciate you talking to him about these things more than just dropping hints and just hoping he'll get the hint and/or like it. You need to have that conversation to see where you both stand, and how he feels about it. Just talk to him about it, because even if he's not into it, I'm sure he'll still appreciate it. 🙂 But you'll only know until you ask.

[spartan55]

Lol, girl you are 0-100mph WIDE OPEN when it comes to sex... which for me is great. But remember your audience, and we have established he is very different. I promise you that he will already be very nervous about your 'big night'. Be respectful, if he doesn't like being called 'Daddy' then leave it out of your bag o tricks. Pretty sure you wouldn't like it if the situation were reversed, right?

[Bright_blue_eyes]

Does he want an 18 year old Pet? Maybe he doesn't think of you as his Sub, in which case he may not like it. I love the idea that you're his 18 yer old Pet, but... he might be weird about it.

[MTC29]

If he's not into daddy then it is doubtful that anything like master's pet, sir or boss, will turn him on. It's sounds as though you're considerably younger. If you turn him on, just leave it at that.

[Pasiton5]

Well i get where your coming from but at same time if old dude don't want to be reminded that he's well old you did respect that, how about young old dude or young daddy, or just call him be his name daddy frank or what ever his name is out just ask him say ok old dude what the hell do you prefer i call your old ass

[ohshee]

You're doing it for fun it's in your personality to make him smile, I think it's absolutely great. It just makes me think of something they say everybody has a twin I wonder how hard it would be to find your twin LOL

[kkirk4442]

I'd laugh if she wore something that said "master's pet". While laughing, I'd make her my pet.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I say do whatever you feel comfortable , who knows you might be surprise

[FunkyMonkee]

On one hand, it's okay because men have a tendency to call women, "Mama" but, as far as I know, a girl calling a guy "daddy" went out back inn the late `50's! Who's bringing that back?

[lanadelrey25]

uhh that's been a kink for a while now. Ever heard if DDG?

[lanadelrey25]

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[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah!! Aren't they the group that setts their drummer on fire at the end of every show?

[lanadelrey25]

DDLG* lmao I'm having a ton of typos today. No, it stands for dominant daddy, little girl. Look it up lol

[Tunasub]

Sometimes less is more.. try not to pressure him too much the anxiety may cause dick issues...

[lanadelrey25]

I am trying to do less by not saying daddy duhhh

[Tunasub]

Smarty pants..

[lanadelrey25]

haha :)

[Wise4myage]

He doesn’t like being called daddy, so why press the issue? Calling him sir or boss just sounds lame.

[lanadelrey25]

wtf do you mean "press the issue"? I stopped calling him that so how am I pressing the issue? And that's your opinion that saying yes sir or no sir is lame so...

[Wise4myage]

Because sooner or later your going to slip up and call him daddy. He’s not your boss, so it’s lame to want to call him that.

[Caliguy88]

I hate being called daddy too. It make me feel like a child molester. You’re not my daughter. It’s just bothers me. I’ve never told anyone to stop but I don’t like it. At all...