Are there men that DON'T like blowjobs?

[CrotchRot]

Maybe this has been asked before but I wanted to know if there are any, or many, men out there that DON'T like a woman to go down on him. And not because of funk or anything but as a general preference!

[MCheetah]

I don't. Every one I've had has been awful. I've had enough of them (9) to where I'm sure I just don't like them, rather than all of the women being bad at it. I also don't like giving oral, as well.

I hate giving oral, especially dealing with the odor and foul taste of vagina, even more than getting a BJ, but I'm more willing to do that because at least then, the girl I'm with will get something out of it. With a BJ, I'm not even able to stay hard most the time, cause it feels like someone slobbering on a lollipop, but I have to try to not offend her and think of entirely separate things to mentally stimulate me and stay hard, even through the horrible ordeal.

If it was up to me, I'd avoid oral altogether; no giving her oral and ESPECIALLY not BJ's from her. But every girl I've been with has not only asked me to give her oral at one point (some I've done it for, others I've said no), but swears on their mother's life, "they give the best BJ's" and I'm like the GTA San Andreas meme, "Ah shit. Here we go again..."

[MCheetah]

Thanks for the MHO

[JackSmy]

I think I am one, of about 5. in the world, and we Zoom chat, like a 'club' monthly! LOL!!
I ADORE kissing, and I don't want her to go down on me, and I think that is just degrading for many, that don't like to, but feel obligated!
I don't want to kiss her, and taste "dick", so I avoid it, unless she is one that is HONESTLY, REALLY liking that!!
I can't judge, because I LOVE going down on the Ladies I date, and I think that some 'tolerate' the idea, at first, not liking it, but later, they seem to like it, because I take the time to get to know her, and what she likes, and wants, and then it becomes something that is more "loving" and not just "Sexual".

[chrissykerdock]

i don't know how many girls actually like to give them... and if they do how long will they suck for? a lot of guys told me a lot of girls have an attitude against them and they also don't kneel to a man to give them... guys who got a blowjob from me enjoyed and a lot... i always thought when i give one give a good one because this may be the only good blowjob this man will get in his life... yes i got a lot no one ever swallowed my cum before or i never was able to cum from a blowjob before... i've always been complemented on my blowjobs so i never really was uncomfortable giving a guy a blowjob who wanted one... i enjoy giving them and not concerned if someone is going to call me a slut.

[CrotchRot]

I love giving blowjobs. Now, I'm not down there trying to run a 4k down his shaft, but if it's your average blowjob, which can last 2-12 minutes, that's fine, but if it takes him 15+ ... yeah, no. I'll be slurring my speech for the next several days. lol

[loves2learn]

I’ve heard of guys on here who don’t. It’s rare. Sometimes they have a bad experience.

[imbeingmyself]

well in my case it isn't a bad experience tbh I just don't like

[loves2learn]

@imbeingmyself nothing wrong with that either

[imbeingmyself]

yea...

[TurboKid]

I'm one of those. I don't hate it but it's like I tease for me that makes me want to grab the girl's body and take over. If I had any sadomasochist component to me, I might grab the girl's head and face-fuck her, but I don't want to because I'm 0% sadist and 0% masochist and don't want to hurt her or make her uncomfortable.

This test result might explain why I don't like blowjobs that much. That said, I like going down on a woman. I see that as dominant, not submissive since I'm in control and she's at my mercy.

== Results from bdsmtest. org ==
97% Dominant
73% Vanilla
67% Daddy/Mommy
54% Voyeur
45% Owner
42% Experimentalist
37% Exhibitionist
35% Brat tamer
34% Master/Mistress
31% Primal (Hunter)
16% Ageplayer
1% Rigger
1% Brat
1% Non-monogamist
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Boy/Girl
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Submissive
0% Masochist
0% Degrader
0% Pet
0% Sadist
0% Switch

[TurboKid]

Meanwhile, the blowjob to me is a submissive position (and like the test result says above, I'm 0% submissive) because she's in control and I'm at her mercy. Just within minutes I want to take over control, and again I might like it if I could face-fuck but I'm also 0% sadist.

[TurboKid]

For similar reasons, I don't like sex positions where the girl is on top. It's like a tease for me. She starts moving and taking control and I start wanting to grab her body and take over. So I often tend to lean up into the lotus position after a few minutes of frustration and teasing me and then maybe roll her over into missionary where I can take full control.

[TurboKid]

I have experienced very skillful blowjobs where I was patient enough and resisted the urge to grab her and take over long enough to climax. But it was like a tease the entire time frustrating me. I'm just wired in a way where I hate just standing or sitting or lying there and handing over all the control to the girl. It makes me feel like a raging bull in chains wanting to break free of the chains.

[TurboKid]

Wish I could enjoy them more though. I think my skewed tendencies make me miss out on a lot of things that are very pleasurable for people. I do feel the physical pleasure of the mouth in these cases. It might even be better than intercourse from a simulation standpoint. But I see sex in a different way from trying to maximize my basic physical pleasure. If I wanted maximum physical pleasure, I might as well just masturbate with lube since I know exactly how to maximize the sensations that way. Sex is more about control for me and bringing the woman to ecstasy and minds connecting.

[TurboKid]

* stimulation

[TurboKid]

Anyway, apologies for the long ramble but I really seem to be such an oddball here. I've had many call me crazy here. So I feel like I got lots to explain to try to explain why I don't like blowjobs very much, no matter how skillfully delivered.

[Tyme1313]

Personally, I'm not a fan of getting a blow job, I have a problem with getting teeth dragged across my shaft every time. So I'd rather skip it if possible.

[NamerOfStars]

Some, not many. And a lot of them would, if they were done better. I would guess (and while it's educated, it's just a guess) that since getting a blowjob is a more receptive thing, they see it as passive and "not their role" in sex, so it doesn't appeal to them.

[Boromir]

Nope… Doesn't do a lot for me… I don’t mind going down on a girl but the other way round is not my all time favorite… Dunno, taste differs.

[God_of_Thunder]

I'm probably in the minority, but I'm personally not a fan of blowjobs.

[MTC29]

It never did much for me. Pass.

[ChrisMaster69]

It’s all part of the sex fun bus. Not everyone likes the same thing but the bus still gets to its final stop.

me I like them but it’s important the girl likes giving them, being unenthusiastic it’s a big no.

that and those that simply go through motions...

[MrCommodore]

Yes, I have never really enjoyed blow jobs.

[spartan55]

They are out there... I will never understand why.

[kitkills]

Lots of reasons, they can quite literally (excuse the pun) suck.

[Leavesbound]

I enjoy it sure but I much prefer to go down on a woman. If she says to me that I can eat her out but she'll never give me a blow job I would not be that upset. I'm addicted to the flavor of Vagina and the juicier the better.

[The_Maphio]

I'd be really impressed by it. It's really hard not to like such a sensual commitment to give pleasure, especially if she manages to make eye contact with you during the deed.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Think there’s some, blowjobs aren’t that important to me unless the girl has some unique talent then sure let’s make it happen but if not I won’t really miss it as long as her skills in everything else is amazing

[MotorcycleMan]

I used to work with a guy who said "Any lips that have touched penis shall not touch mine!"
lol, personally, I think he's wack and I love oral, both giving and getting, but each their own.

[CrotchRot]

lol ♂♂♂

[kkirk4442]

There must be some men who don't like BJs, but I never heard of one.

[slatyb]

I expect, but I haven't asked any other men how they feel about it. I like it.

[jshm2]

I absolutely hate oral in giving and receiving. It just is not a nice sensation or position.

[Miristheiss]

I know I love them.

[LiamSawyer]

I wouldn't say I don't like a bj but I much prefer going down on her then her going down on me. By the way I love your profile photo.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

I'm not much of a fan, honestly. They don't do much for me, and I would rather do something else that makes me AND my partner feel good, rather than have all the attention focused on me

[thimmslicc]

Never heard that a man didn't like bj
I am shocked.
I dont like giving them but love receiving