Am, I losing my mojo aka my sex drive, or is my Virgina ran down?

So this is the last question, that I'll post about sex and FWBs. But, anyways! Am I losing my sex drive. It's like, lately I have been so tired and overwhelmed. And when I do feel or get horny, it doesn't stay for long like a used to when I was 18 and my early twenties. And I'm not sure- if it has something to do with my urinary tract infection I need to go get that checked out, soon. Or if it's because I've been with to many guys! and my vagina just isn't able to work the same and contract muscles. Or maybe is it the countless disappointments and to the guys who used me and hit and dip. Or could or be, I'm just not set up for any more sexual relationship I no longer desire, just sex. I will say this. The last guy, that I was dealing with. (Laughs) he is a whole mood. But I do think, sleeping with him was a really bad decision my self-esteem went down. People like him, make it bad for others. And people like him, make me just don't want to do anything. I mean I honestly never been the type of female to go around sleeping with the whole wild world, that's just disgusting and trifling and downgrading to any woman that does that. But yes, I can admit I have had my days of being a hoe. I mean I'm sure a lot of people have. And one thing about me, I will never have to worry about me not having sex. Men are the biggest whores out here. But anyways. I do want love, and would like to experience of making real true love me. And would like a family @ some point. But besides that. I'm just trying to determine why I'm just arouse or get sexually excited like I used to? 🤔
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  • I think the problem is after having too many guys, it's just not the same anymore. Speaking for myself I would not have a relationship with someone that has had a bunch of guys. And I'm not a whore.

    • I see. And with that guy, him and I just couldn't get alone. But, I don't think he wanted sex right away or so soon.

    • Maybe you can try eating vitamins and healthy food to help and stay away from guys that want one night stands, they are hurting you. Lots of good guys don't want someone that has been with a bunch of men, but there are lots of guys that sleep around with the girls that do that too.

    • Well. He's been the only guy that I was actually with sexually this year it's been a year for me and it was two years for him. I'm sure having sex early on may have had something to do with it. But me personally I'm just done. I'm not going to be a fool and continue to keep being used. I don't care what these men do to be honest I only have to protect myself and guard my heart and keep away from the enemies. And I definitely don't sleep around. Back in the day when I was much younger I used to get around then in there. But even then I was very picky but who I wanted to share my body with. And with this dude I met him this year. But anyways is not referring to just him just in general.

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  • If you fucked a different guy, you don't think you'd be at all excited about it?

    • last guy that I only been with, since this year. He says he wasn't expecting sex from me. And it wasn't his fault completely, I came on to him and he followed and gave in. But... He gave us those negative vibes, and the littlest things that didn't sound right with him it would trigger him and he would get irrational and mad. Then our last conversation we had. He made the most smallest things! Into stuff so big. But he didn't want to be bothered with me anymore and he came off very disrespectful..

    • . I know he said and he has told me before how he didn't want to be bothered and for me to leave him alone. So he went through the face of blocking me then Unblock Me. But since I gave him sum. That's when he decided he wanted to be done with me. When he could have left before the incident happened. I had good times with him, when he wasn't so moody and so grumpy. But why have sex with me! then just leave. I understand that there were things that he said that I did. But he never really gave me a chance. And I'm not talking about dating him or anything like that. But when it came down to communication he always wanted to get the last word and I'll let me speak and when things don't come out my mouth right he will hang up the phone and block me. That's rude!! . But anyways I notice after dealing with him my mojo just been down. And it doesn't need to be up because for one I don't go around looking for sex or dick! it usually finds me. And when it does I don't sleep with the guy right away and sometimes not at ALL. But the way I look at it! I wasn't supposed to give myself to him. I made a commitment to the Lord and I did not follow. So now I just feel like shit! . I'm tired of people taking advantage of me thinking that I'm some sex toy for them or their playground. But when I was dealing with him I always got excited and I wanted to screw him which did. But how things ended between him and I, that may be reasons why I feel the way I do. But I'm just going to wait for a while until I have sex. And it's not just him it's just becoming a problem and maybe it's just my physical health overall..

    • So, If you fucked a different guy, you don't think you'd be at all excited about it?

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  • Once you get enough sex than the thrust of sex came down it's normal. It's happened with me too.

    • So. How dose it make you feel

    • Nothing it's normal.

    • Well I'm glad I'm not alone.

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