Why would it be hard for a guy to pull out, when he is getting ready to cum. Especially if he is hitting it raw?

[Anonymous]

Like why wouldn't he not want to pull out. A: He really loves the girls juices, B: is it the feel of him getting ready to nut. C: Could it be, that he may be wanting to get her pregnant. D: Is it, that it feels so good! that he wants to leave it in there. Or E or All the Above or other. The reason why I'm asking. Well I asked this guy, who I have been knowing for some time now. And I said, what do you think about us not using and condoms. Like, would you be responsible, enough to pull out. And he said, if I hit it raw, I'm not going to want pull it out. Like, he brags about my pussy being so sooo wet, like all the times. Smh! So what gives?

[Sangita93]

Sometimes the difference between okay sex and mind-blowing sex is just a matter of moments. Just few seconds for a man, sex can be a nice, pleasant time or a fantastic, mind-altering experience. It all comes down to what happens during that brief window of time between when he first feels an oncoming orgasm and the moment when he actually explodes. This is known as the point of no-return - as the point in which he cannot avoid ejaculation anymore and it appears due to intense and uncontrolled excitation during lovemaking. He cannot stop it and continue making love at this point of no return; he becomes a slave to sensation. These are the moments in which one may experience the most intense excitation, when the movements and breath become rapid and erratic. Some people with a somewhat perverted nature manifest vulgarity, triviality or even physical violence towards their lover at this point. There are strong spasms announcing the imminence of the ejaculation. And finally, ejaculation occurs. This stage sometimes appears with the speed of light, not allowing him the possibility of acting, The penis becomes very hot, he feels highly euphoric and at the same time he lacks mental control. Irresistible desire, intense passion, coupled with deep, strong penetrations, increased speed, and a significant decrease over the control of his sexual energy results in a quick ejaculation, because the point of no-return appears unexpectedly. These are the key moments; it is "the moment of ejaculatory inevitability." It's the point at which the voluntary act (having sex) switches to an involuntary one (ejaculation and orgasm). He may get very intense in his thrusting. It is like being on a roller coaster. During orgasm, waves of energy go from the ejaculatory center to the rest of the brain. At the point of no return, most men actually lose touch with the external world. Once guys reach that point of no return, there's no way of stopping that response, you can just enjoy it.

[Asker]

mmm He loves being inside of me. He tells me, hoW WET I Am. Sooo

[Anonymous]

It’s not hard for a guy to pull out. My ex-boyfriends never seemed to have an issue doing it. In this case, he’s just being selfish and doesn’t want to. Every guy I’ve been with has said it does feel better to cum inside rather than on my belly but that had no problem doing it when I asked.

[bzcxx]

definitely because of how good it feels.
sex and masturbation feels amazing but what tops it all off is going faster at it while orgasming. when I'm close to cumming during sex, I push it in as deep as I can and thrust as hard and fast as my body allows - and it feels so damn amazing. I have had ruined orgasms a couple of times, mainly from stopping when I'm about to cum during sex and masturbation and it's literally the most frustrating thing ever.
what I hate the most is enjoying the entire sex/masturbation process, only to ejaculate without feeling any sort of pleasure. yes it does happen - cumming (a lot at times), without feeling any sort of pleasureable sensation.
edging is fun, stopping when you're close to orgasm but never crossing that line.
but stopping all stimulation when you're cumming just ruins the entire experience for me.
despite feeling waves of pleasure during sex/masturbation, ejaculating without an orgasm feels horrible for a couple of reasons.
firstly, I do not feel sexually satisfied and I'm still horny. secondly, I'm unable to masturbate/have sex again for abit as I have already ejaculated and is in the refractory period. So despite being terribly horny, there's nothing I can do about it.
Hope this clarifies.

[Asker]

He says. I like safe sex but I know if I go into you raw I’m. Not gone want to pull out can we do it rite now). He talks Bout how WET I AM LIKE ALL TIMES.

[Asker]

Yes and I'm sorry that you went through a horrible time with your past and experience with sex.

[bzcxx]

being super wet is a compliment! guys absolutely love it and it feels so amazing being inside a vagina, feeling the walls grasp onto our dick

[TheorionMage]

Natural evolution's drive is TO IMPREGNATE, is what motivates male copulation.

#1 Pulling out is NO 'fail safe'.
Most erect and aroused males leak 'pre-cum which DOES
contain thousands of Sperm anxious to DO what God made them TO do.

Natural evolution is rewarding him to FLOOD your Vaginal canal with as MUCH Semen
as his testicles can churn out.
When you two screw 'recreationally' you are sublimating, training and 'domesticating' your physical animals just as much as manually 'milking' a cow. Manual masturbation feels 'good' for the cow's teats.

You two are 'harvesting' the evolved physical pleasure 'reward' that accompanies his and your reproductive convulsions while TRYING to control WHERE his enthusiastic Sperm go swimming!
When YOU masturbate using a Vibrator or dildo... your 'lady bits' neither KNOW or care!
They just blindly 'go along with the program' as Nature intended. Likewise, for him...

His Penis's response to delicious pleasuring friction is to 'deliver' his DNA... whether you're there or not.
DO NOT expect him to be able to COMPLETELY prevent releasing his Sperm's DNA
Ain't gonna happen! Be smart & enjoy the ride, SAFELY!

[Lliam]

When he's reaching the point of no return, it feels really good to keep going. The natural urge is to increase the pace and then bury deep at the last minute to feel her warm vagina hugging you as you pump her full. There's also an eroticism to pumping her full.
It's anticlimactic to pull out and jack off.

The question is, why isn't she on the pill so that they can both enjoy uninhibited sex the way sex is supposed to be?

[blank_expression]

Instincts kick in. There is a crossover point where I know that I just thought to myself, “I don’t care” because I was instinctively into her and just filled her—this was only a few. Then there are women where I absolutely do, no matter what—even when they tried to hold me in.

[summiter]

Pulling out is difficult especially with a great orgasm approaching. As you know it does not work for birth control as precum can get one pregnant.

[livin_hi_808]

It feels better to nut inside. I've personally lost my nut pulling out.
I'll buy you the plan B before I shoot on your belly. If I pull out of your pussy then I'm high jumping to shoot it on your face, mouth and/or throat.

[Apple1996]

I have no idea why guys says this shit. For my husband he doesn't care if he pulls out or stays in as long as he gets to cum it doesn't matter.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

If you're not ready to have kids & not on birth control, you shouldn't let him bareback

[Outofthegrey]

Your penis thinks instead of your brain, and your penis is a dick.

[Asker]

What?

[Outofthegrey]

Call it a biological impulse if you want, but when you're about to cum your body tells you to go balls deep. It can be difficult to fight nature.

[Asker]

This is exactly what he told me. (I like safe sex but I know if I go into you raw I’m. Not gone want to pull out can we do it rite now)

[stevie123]

It is especially hard to pull out on the brink of orgasm.
Nature makes guys thrust deep into your vag when cumming to put sperm closest to your womb.
Plus the feeling of your wet pussy milking his dick is incredible.
Possibly he does want to impregnate you if he says he wants to do you raw right now.
I would try to get some BC before your next meeting.

[Mystery1900]

I find it extremely difficult to pull out when I'm about to cum. All I want to do is push in deep as I can. When I cum my buttocks clench reflexively and push my penis in when I cum, it is virtually impossible for me to overcome that reflex. The orgasm I get from pushing in deep is very pleasurable and satisfying, the last thing I want is to pull out. I think it's instinctive, I need to plant my sperm. When doing it without condom the juice from her vagina soaks my penis and makes me crazy, losing control and when I cum all I want to do is slide it in as far as I can and release and pump deeply.

I never pull out when I'm ready to cum because I enjoy having my orgasm inside her.

[eatingyou247]

it hits that moment when it all is aligned. Your body , feeling of the thrusting, her wet and amazing pussy wrapped around your penis, the feeling of being ion the edge and needing to cum, the minf might say pull out but there is a lag in time as it is that moment you realize to late i just lost my load in her and it felt great come over and ill show you if you want. Ill show you as many times as you want until it is more understandable. in fact everyone should come and we can do a group class, kidding ill come to you

[Asker]

He said this. I like safe sex but I know if I go into you raw I’m. Not gone want to pull out can we do it rite now) and he do tell me all the times, how WET I am. 😑

[Dargil]

Arousal reaches a point where it is almost impossible to stop.

[FilmGuy93]

Hitting it raw feels good, and finishing inside feels even better. It's not hard to pull out though. Even if you don't really want to.

[Asker]

Well he said, it would be hard for him. He talks about how wet I am. AND IF I give him the benefit to go inside of me raw. It would be the 1st. Remind you, him and I haven't had sex since 2020. So we just been talking about it. But his reasons for not pulling, Makes me think that he would try to get me pregnant. Soo

[FilmGuy93]

I guess you aren't on BC then? I wouldn't take the risk if I were you, personally.

[Asker]

I knOw. I'm so tempted to try it, because we always wore protection when we did have sex. and I guess my question is for you why would someonewill try to get someone pregnantknowing that they're not on birth control

[FilmGuy93]

He's just not thinking about it. He knows it will feel good for him, and figures that you can take Plan B or whatever if you do get pregnant.

[Asker]

Sounds about selfish to me! a psychic said, that he wants to trap me he"s trying to trap me.

[Asker]

But tbh. I have been dealing with him, for years on and off. And, I DON'T FEEL, obligated to give him anything. I do care for him and all. But I don't know if i should take the risk. We talked about meeting up on Friday, this coming weekend.. But, hopefully he forgets. 2💁

[NicoleNatZZ]

Now that you ask this i stressed so much this one time I had sex with this really hung black guy and I told him not to cum in me and we did it so hard and he came in me i didn't even wanted him to pull out

[OutWestBandit]

you get that far - guys just want to fill her full of cum

[karaspara]

I guess he just gets carried away in the moment

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

It’s way too difficult for I pull out and everything you mentioned contributes to why it’s so difficult! It just feels so good!

[Asker]

So it has nothing to do with getting someone pregnant right. This is his exact words. (I like safe sex but I know if I go into you raw I’m. Not gone want to pull out can we do it rite now)

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

It can be about getting someone pregnant. There are breeding fetishes.

[Asker]

I would hope he wouldn't try to do that. 😲😲

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

Maybe not!

[jwatson4000]

I feel you need a second opinion on the state of your vagin... do you feel ur panties are wetter more so than your friends? Or about the same.
Overly moist vagins can arouse a guy beyond their ability to think clearly as does the presence of aromatic hormones secreted by an overly active clitoris. Can you describe the scent of your panties? I have a lab of you would like to send a sample

[vald9inches]

All of the above for me! Lol 😂

[vald9inches]

But its also similar to the feeling of getting out of a hot jacuzzi to jump into a cold pool its a very shitty feeling lmfao

[Twalli]

It feels really good inside a girl that we don't really want to

[ND4SPD31]

Does he know ur pussy is wet all the time?

[Asker]

I like safe sex but I know if I go into you raw I’m. Not gone want to pull out can we do it rite now). He most recently told me how WET I AM. (LAUGHS).. HE'S LIKE- YOUR SOOO WET AND creamy. But there has been a few times! That I wasn't or had to make my wetness. So Idk- he seems to be very attached and addicted. This man has been lusting after me.. Since we started having sex back in 2014. 😑😑🤦

[ND4SPD31]

Damn. That’s a good sex life then. Lol.

[Asker]

friends with benefits.. Yo! He literally told me how he is only horny for me. I don't know if I should run and hide or play red flag or be scared. He has this imagination about me and my vagina. Smh

[ND4SPD31]

Damn, still lucky.

[Asker]

But we haven't done anything since let's share with each other we have been with other people I'm sure he has. But every time we reconnect he wants to bang!

[ND4SPD31]

Ahh then that means ur pussy must b better than the others he’s getting

[Asker]

2020 was the last time we hooked up! And according to him it seems like... Laughs

[ND4SPD31]

Well from what u said, u must b a great fuck buddy. Hehe.

[Asker]

Seems to be

[ND4SPD31]

Jealous! Lol.

[Asker]

There's nothing to be jealous about I haven't gave him any benefits yet this year. He might be a lucky man to some degree but I still have to be careful when dealing with him. So

[ND4SPD31]

Well still, with how wet ur pussy gets u said and even creamy sometimes, that’s just awesome. 😉

[Asker]

That's what he was describing I was just only sharing. I guess I really don't pay attention to that type of stuff lol. But he's the one that's down there so it probably is actually like that.

[ND4SPD31]

Well still could b lots of fun. 😎