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How do I ask my coworker for sex?

I've never had sex before first off. I've talked to this coworker about him sleepin with coworkers and he's done it before.

The thing is... I'm 18 and I look 12-14. Another coworker told me he'd be willing, but I'm more interested in the dude I want to actually ask. Though, I'd be SUPER nervous and then work would just be awkward since we close together.

Is that even a good idea? Should I just give up the thought and just find someone else to sleep with?
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Alright, I should explain WHY I'm trying so hard to lose it: I'm done with it being such a big deal and I don't want to end up losing it to someone I truly loved and heartbroken over. I already came close to losing it to a very shitty ex, and I don't want it lost to someone who ends up being a dick. I want it over and done with so that I don't HAVE to worry about it or think back to losing it and regretting it.
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  • Okay so hold on for a few days take a deep breath first of all I remember that feeling that you're going through right now and it sucks but I have to tell you this just because you do it doesn't mean that it's going to be good when I was 15 and a half I knew this college girl she's one of my cousin's friends she told me one day she wanted to have sex with me and I said okay after we had sex I was pissed off because first of all I just gave up my virginity and I didn't think you sex was very good she said that she loved it the next time she called me the same thing the next time she called me the same exact thing I couldn't believe what the big hike was about having sex it wasn't even that good even though she said she loved every minute of it to me giving up my virginity for something that was okay it was the greatest I couldn't understand why I'm a Virgo so it just kept playing over and over in my head the next time she called wanted to have sex I said okay and I started thinking about it even deeper but this time I decided to do everything different and this time was the hottest the sexiest I even sell fireworks this time so what I'm saying is I know you're tired of being patient have you ever explored the idea of do you roleplay or some sort of Fantasy online first so you know what to expect so when it happens in real life you can change it up to make it happen the best for you. The poor time was the best time because the way I changed everything up I made it all about her not about me. I learned so much that day did I still carry around with me today but 10 times more intense you also should know that you have an interview with inside you when you touch somebody else's energy are they catch your energy it is becomes even hotter so I would suggest to get to know your energy first get to know what you like don't just jump into it because you want to feel it you wanted to be the best possible that you can have ever and there's ways to go about that I suggest Google Play AR the fantasy play of some sort first so you can experience a lot of things before you just jump into it

Most Helpful Guy

  • just ask them if they want to go out and then tell them you want to get pounded before night is over and he will

Most Helpful Girls

  • Guys are pretty simple. You can pretty much just ask them if all you want is casual sex. A lot of guys would be down with it. The only thing about your scenario, can you handle it and maintain a working relationship if he says no? You being a virgin, he might be reluctant to take it under those circumstances. If you feel that would make things awkward and embarrassing at work, then you might want to choose someone else.

  • Why on earth would you sleep with a random guy? To lose your virginity? Those men are perverts. Don’t do it

    • Get it over with really. My mom made a HUGE deal out of it, getting me checked to make sure I was "still a virgin".

    • Being a virgin is what a lot of men wil value in a woman. I was a virgin till 26. If you lose it with a random pervert you will always think about that first time with him and you don’t want that. You want the romance with a guy that loves you and loves the innocent about you or being a virgin

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Find someone who values you

    • Ok I get where your coming from but theirs a strong bonding agent when it comes to sex you may become attached to someone who could care less and wind up getting hurt anyways, your still young no need to rush things. there's tons of stories on my casual sex doesn’t work because one of the person starts to get feelings only to be let down.

  • Doesn't matter what you look like, if you have the age. Guys always appreciate sincere female company

  • Wait until you find someone you love or care about

    • You are hurting I wouldn't rush in to losing it

  • If he's a cool, trustworthy guy, just go ahead ask him and roll with him underneath the sheets

  • dont

  • I think guys are easy to get sex from. I think if you let him know you’re interested he would be too

  • Interesting because women normally don't initiate a hookup

  • Your last sentence, yes, that's what I would suggest.

  • Damn that would b a fun night lol.

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