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How do you hide your body during sex?

besides turn off the lights?

I'm kind of slightly overweight and I'm ashamed of my body. In two days, I will be having sex with this ripped fit guy who says he doesn't judge overweight girls. But I'm still very ashamed of my body so, besides turning off the lights (which I'm not sure if he would be interested, how can I "hide" my body as much as possible while I'm with him? I planning on never letting him see me naked while standing up. After sex is done, I just grab my clothes and get dressed. I would have sex with a fat guy with no problem because fat guys don't judge. But he's ripped and kind of like the opposite of me so I'm more self conscious.
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  • Ok what I'm about to tell you is the absolute truth from my perspective. THICK GIRLS ARE SEXUALLY FUN AF. If he doesn't judge your body type then suggest him eat your pussy first and if that works alright then try to ride his face. If you don't scare him away then you've gained some assertiveness and voice sexually. If he doesn't go for it then you must stand down and backtrack to lure him in. This will take some finesse. As you submit you're still in control. You decide to go along with whatever he wants to try.

    If you wanna hide your body then hide it but if your pussy gets wet and your mouth can insert penis without the annoyance of your teeth or breathing get in the way then he can care less about you being chunky.
    But if you're really going to be self-conscious about it then do things that don't show much of your body like 1) give him plenty of head
    - on your knees between his legs
    - laying on your belly
    2) do position that shield the front of your body
    - doggie style
    Every girl has ass when they're bent over and every girl is hot bent over
    Face down ass up!
    - missionary could work but you have to keep his view on your tits or lying really close on top of you.
    If he's on top then try to accentuate your breast and or draw his focus passed your midsection by rubbing your clit.
    3) avoid riding him or sitting on his face. Your thighs and fupa will fuck him up.
    But when it all comes down to it, if you stand out in comparison to other girls then he won't care. Make him remember you. Draw him in with wild sex. Do the extreme things he wants within reason. No guy expects a girl to do everything the first time but if you do a bit extra you can hook his ass on what you do rather than how you look. Make him feel in charge and dominant over you sexually. Most guys like that (unless otherwise discussed). After he nuts in your mouth keep going to snatch his soul. That is a sure fire way to get him to not give a fuck whether you're fat skinny tall or hairy and bucktoothed. Make him bust deep and hard down your mouth and esophagus without stopping to puke or spit it out. If you are squeamish and gag really easy then prep yourself for cumshot to wherever you want but you need to make it clear and tell him where you want him to shoot vs telling him where not to shoot. Its just hotter. If you do this correctly, he will temporarily be silly putty in your hands. Best of luck and remember BBWs are known worldwide to be the best orally so use that to your advantage in hiding your body but don't be ashamed of it.

Most Helpful Guy

  • well wait how do you know he is gonna judge you. How do you know that to him you are amazing. He is ripped but he must and im sure finds you to be very beautiful and wants to be with you and wants you to be fully comfortable together. Im sure he is not going to want the lights out or you to run off , or to not show him every inch at some point. Not all men or all people are mean or judge mental. But i do understand many are , and that is a shame, but girl be you. don't ever let anyone stop you from being you. stand up and love you and be proud, and never let anyone make you feel like its best with you to have the lights off. Girl if they can't keep all the lights on with you or anyone then they deserve to be in a place with no light ever. Now take that gorgeous body and flaunt it , and repeat after me all of us are beautiful and different , and thats how god intended it. I am me and i am beautiful. now leave those lights on and never ever put yourself down or go down on anyone if they turn them lights off. okay

Most Helpful Girls

  • My advice is not to hide your body. Obviously he doesn’t care about your extra pounds and wants to get with you anyway. Guys are visual and like to look, so hiding yourself will be unattractive to him. As women, we’re much more critical of our own bodies than our male partners are. While we obsess over extra weight and blemishes, they’re focused on boobs and vaginas. Trust me, he’s going to enjoy every minute of sex with you and won’t care about you being slightly overweight. Some guys even like that. So be confident in yourself and just have fun. Life is too short to be so self-conscious.

  • I wish I could give some good advise but I have never thought of something like hiding my body. I do not worry about anything other than enjoying in that moment what matters least to me when having sex is what he think about my body. I only focus on my pleasure. I close my eyes and let myself be carried away like with music while dancing. Try that and you will see that nothing happens just concentrate on feeling and enjoying.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Ill parrot the same responses.
    Don't hide your body. I know you feel embarrassed but doing anything extra will make him uncomfortable.

    Just relax. Not every guy wants the models in the magazines.

    What I can offer is this. If you absolutely can not indulge the idea of just letting him see and have all of you. Buy a piece of lingerie that covers you a bit. If he tries to remove it just tell him you feel sexier with it on (truth anyway).

  • Let's assume for a moment that you are actually as fat as you are suggesting. He already showed interest in you, to a point that you are going to have sex with him. Unless he is blind and/or he hasn't seen you, he knows your size, he knows what he is getting into. He does not mind about your weight at all.
    We men like to look. Hiding your body tends to turn us off, whereas being confident in yourself and proudly showing what you have makes us crazy. Do not hide.
    You say you are fat. So what? Many men like curvy women. Your guy probably is one of them. Enjoy him and have confidence in yourself. ;)

  • Why hide it. He should like you for what you are. I'm sure he already has an idea of what you look like naked. Just relax and enjoy the sex!

  • More cushion for the pushin.

    He's looking to try a bit of marshmallow, you might as well be open about it.

  • A good guy that's into you won't care about your weight. Be yourself and have fun. If you're uncomfortable, consider wearing some sexy lingerie that can stay on during sex.

  • I think that guy is actually going to appreciate every inch of you. Just relax and enjoy the moment. 😉

  • fuck through a glory hole

  • Just. No. Words.

  • Wear clothes, lol.

  • He's expressed interest in you and has already said he doesn't judge. Seems, you have nothing to worry about.

  • Most guys that aren't ashamed about their body don't want the lights off. I will tell you this though. He will like seeing you naked. He chose you, a slightly heavier girl. That means he finds you attractive while fully clothed. No guy that likes how a girl looks fully clothed has found her unattractive naked. Actually a fair number of guys that don't find tou attractive fully clothed would probably find you attractive naked. It's hard to overstate how much guys like seeing naked girls.

  • wear a shirt with open buttons only :P
    by the way guys like girls without clothes during sex ;)

  • Don't hide your body! Lots of guys prefer chunkier girls so he probabally wants to see it, just embrace it and go with it!

  • Don't do that. It'll turn the guy off most likely. 2 reasons, 1) guys are visual and you're naked body is turning us on. 2) Confidence is attractive (just like you women like guys to have it). A woman having self confidence, especially with her body (and I know most don't), is a HUGE turn on.

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