If a boy compliments your body parts during sex, does that mean he is gay or just likes you?

[Anonymous]

… so, just to be clear, I’m not insinuating that boys who say “you have gorgeous boobs” or call your private parts “nice” are GAY in particular. I’m wondering if all guys usually do this when they’re having sex? As a way to make her feel good or just to heat things up maybe just saying what’s on your mind?

You know how some closet gay men admire female beauty and bodies? Could it be that some of them are just fascinated and gay?

[Losalt]

He can just be speaking his mind you know...
Nothing to do with his sexuality or trying to please you or whatever...
And you're *clearly* overthinking this *way* too much...

[FilmGuy93]

Most guys say things like that. It's a way to turn her on and hopefully relax her a little bit. I imagine it would be easier to get excited to have sex if you feel confident that the man you're with actually finds you appealing.

[daryan12s]

I think that he just wants to please you during sex. It's just a desire to compliment someone during intimacy. I don't think there is anything homosexual about it.

[Asker]

Yes, I myself have complimented before when I’m in that sensual mood, but do you believe there could be a chance or possibility that some men who DO compliment particular female body parts upon FIRST seeing them during sexual contact can be gay?

[daryan12s]

Honestly, I didn't even think about it seriously. It seems to me that if the guy was gay, then it is unlikely that we would have had sex. But it seems to me that gay guys are not complimenting about your beautiful boobs and tight ass. It seems to me that they are looking at the girls in more detail. And they compliment your hair, how you smell, your manicure, etc.

[Asker]

Oh I see, I totally get that too! He did notice those “little” things too… hmm. I’m just following my intuition. I thought it was strange he complimented me so quickly as if he was observant and mesmerized that he maybe desired what I had? …

[ChrisMaster69]

You of course know what Gay actually is.

this would be like a guy asking a girl mid sex if she is a lesbian.

😂😂

[boggboss]

You the first person I have ever seen try to link a complement to being gay whilst fucking you sorry you are doing some crazy overthinking

[Asker]

😂😂😂

[Browneye57]

Oh here we go... the 'all men are gay' bullshit. GTFO

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/_0h3Stc0NxY

[OnTheLevel]

You are reading WAY too much into this.

[Shy_Steve]

I think I would probably, So I think a lot of Guys would.

[Anonymous]

If a guy compliment a girl's body part, he is gay?
That's really shocking.

[Anonymous]

Straight men also admire beauty and good boobs with lust. I doubt it is gey since it seemed like with more lust :) . Also it surprised me that you thought he may be gay because while fucking he said you habe good assets. Interesting lol

[Asker]

… reminds me of one time this transgender classmate complimented my collar bones. She said I’d make a great model. I did not relate this experience to my sexual experience at all. But actually… Maybe he is bisexual, or even transgender. In this world today you never know

[Opinion Owner]

Okey my impression is that the case is not very relevant. Either, you have other signs that supports your statetment or you're overthinking because of some experience or observation.

[Asker]

Maybe it’s a mix of both? many lgbtq folks are analytical and observant of themselves and others as well. I feel like his tone of voice was more like, grading my body with a rubric system, if that makes sense.

[Opinion Owner]

I see. I don't know if there is correlation but I don't think there is a causation. Personally I am a analythic and observant people. In high school, I was a bit outcast so I started to make more observation. I don't know it doesn't seemed so to me. However, I would suggest you to talk this topic with him. Obviously you can't clear your doubts. Personally, I would feel bad if my partner said something like that but it would be worse if she things so and don't say something