I would say that most straight guys wouldn't be attracted to a transgender girl. Unless they didn't know she was transgender. I've heard stories of transgender women who were killed after revealing it. I've seen some good looking transgender girls.
agreed. plus, some trans girls make it unsafe, as well. i've never been in this situation--but i've seen how some bash the same men who are interested in them.
unsafe in that they bash those interested in them. call them fetishists and chasers--like here: https://youtu.be/9UoiQyk054o?t=170 . another video was one just going off on a tare... full of hate--i'll try and find it, later. such ignore the number one driving factor of humans... curiosity. as i said--i used to view them as freaks--i only started to change my view because i started to fetishize them which, in turn, made me humanize them.
@Sabretooth I see what you mean. That's not cool, but it's also true that some straight guys are not genuinely interested in transgender women. Some have a fetish. So they don't believe they actually like them. I can tell that she's transgender.
but still. the point that they aren't special in that regard... no gender is. hell, men are essentially seen as mechanical god... and i mean that in all the worst ways.
agreed. we're all fetishized in some way. but i think that men get it the worst. as men, we have high expectations that as humans, we can't always follow-how can we provide if we're physically unable to do so? or our job goes under? or an incident forces a shutdown? or, what if a disaster hits and our job can't cover it? i've clashed with Wowgirl on the issue numerous times (she played the victim and blocked me). we also feel like you as well. see why i phrased us as being viewed as mechanical gods?
@Sabretooth Well I wouldn't say that men get the worst but I see where you're coming from. There are some high expectations about men. And some things that men learn as little boys that are wrong and toxic. I'm sorry to hear that she blocked you.
i mean, i get it--our responsibility is to to lead, support and, protect our family but we will fall short at times. we do the best we can but we can't control everything. it's one of the reasons god made you--to help.
I saw this thread and I just wanted to clarify something just a tiny bit.
I've had friends who have dealt with this, one in particular, and the way it was explained to me (because I had the same questions too) is this:
If you find a transgendered person cute/sexy or whatever as a man/woman/etc then that is a-ok.
If you find a transgendered person attractive specifically because they are trans and the only reason you are dating them is for a soft entry to bisexuality then that is not only vile but also makes you a chaser.
though, i do think most men with trans girls would be curious in their dick... that's honestly just human nature... unfortunately, that's also a minefield.
Well, trans just isn't just male to female, female to male (which really this group especially needs more representation), nonbinary, gender fluid and more.
Besides that clearly won't matter if that person isn't even comfortable using their biological sex features anyway. There is also the matter of those who choose to go through GRS.
Iunno, I think that it is very possible that its just a matter of falling in love with a person regardless, but I also like to try and believe in the best of people 😊
@Ez-Bri-Z "Iunno, I think that it is very possible that its just a matter of falling in love with a person regardless, but I also like to try and believe in the best of people" - I think it's not that simple, but I get your point.
@Ez-Bri-Z i've noticed those who grow comfortable with it are a lot happier and those who don't are so bitter they'll outright attack them. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bZAtXvGHDhA&t=1s look for the comment made by Diana Salameh.
@Sabretooth Looks like Dianah there isn't comfortable with it. I mean, who are we to say which is right or wrong? I guess in the end as long as they are comfortable with themselves and their partner is too then it is fine. I don't think it makes either of them less of a woman, they just experience it in different ways.
@Ez-Bri-Z seemed like she was bitter, to me. that's just one case-i saw another post about this same issue. again from what i can tell, people like Shannyn tend to be happier but get scorned by people like Dianah.
@Ez-Bri-Z it is. from what i can tell--it's largely due to social pressure. plus, you may never enjoy sex after the operation, anyway. my interest starting in sex games and it helped me to shape an opinion of them. Shannyn forced herself to accept that men who are trans attracted wanted to experience these things. this is a direct quote: '' I think that is the norm for trans-attracted men. When a man makes sexual advances towards me, it is much more likely that he wants to be submissive than not. Whether or not this is always a manifestation of autogynephilia isn't clear to me, but I believe it usually is. If I may get a little personal, I have to admit that it's always kind of been a turn off for me when a man wants to bottom or is interested in my penis, but I am learning to rethink my feelings about that. I think it's perfectly natural for trans attracted men to enjoy bottoming, so it's something I'm learning to accept.''.
Seriously this is why I dont judge people for their sexual fantasies and acts as long as all parties are accepting adults.
We all have stuff we like and for someone to deny it is wrong, but i do think someone who can see only that part of a transwoman who isn't ok with it is being rude to her.
@ez-bri-zZ honest i judge a few that are like rape play. ly, i think they need to be viewed as a fetish. i used to see em as freaks, then, sex objects... now, i can speak to em like any other girl. trans girls shouldn't condone or promote it... just not bash men for doing it.
I think in the end its more about being more than the sum of a part.
I understand that as a woman there are just going to be guys who will look at me for certain attributes, but im more than just tits or ass. Those who take the time to know me see that I can be really funny too which is fairly easy to do since my tits aren't very big to begin with and they have plenty of time to make it up to seeing my personality.
@Ez-Bri-Z but that's the problem, most men aren't given the chance to get to know them. i saw another vid that must've been taken down... she was just hating on guys who are trans attracted. let's forget about being interested in new experiences... the attacks and hate would make me feel unsafe to confide in her with anything.
I guess that's fair. It might be the same kind of defensiveness women experience when guys approach, especially if it happens a lot and they weren't there for being hit on. I know that is a bit unfair to guys, but when it happens so often you kinda just develop a perimeter that is harder to get past if you are like the 5th guy that week
Maybe or just avoid five bad ones. It is sort of a crapshoot and unfortunately there are a lot of guys full of crap and they shoot themselves in the foot and make it harder for the right one to have a chance.
i randomly started thinking about something Stef said... i remembered her saying guys say that trans girls who get srs are ruining theit body. i'd never go that far... but i started thinking about it... kinda makes sense if you consider what srs gives them. random thought i wanted to unload.
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NamerOfStars | 2.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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Here's the thing: most of us aren't even going to know unless we're told, or we see them naked and they're pre-op. Have I seen MtFers that I've found attractive? I'm sure I have, I just didn't know it, since how would I? The ratio of "people I see" to "people I see naked" is very, VERY high. And while some of them go around screaming about their trans status to score political points, most of them just want to get on with their lives.
I think it’s possible just like anyone but the one thing they want is honesty. If both people are on the same page and they want to pursue things I think it’s wonderful just like any other relationship/ hook up.
Personally I can acknowledge someone’s attractive (beautiful/handsome) without being into them. Just like with fellow men and be like you’re a good looking well dressed bro.
For a transgender woman to delay informing a male as a potential love interest that she's a transgender woman is wrong, but not only is it wrong morally, but it's also a wasted opportunity. Society is currently more accepting, not sufficiently accepting, but gradually more accepting of men and transgender woman getting together as romantic couples.
Yes, there are still transgenders being murdered by men who originally thought that these women were cisgender women, and then they felt humiliated upon learning later that these women were actually born as males. That's tragic. It's also an insane reaction by these men who did murder.
The above situation aside, a lot of men who wind up rejecting the transgender as his lover do so for having been deceived about his would be girlfriend upon learning too late of that woman's change of gender - might have otherwise accepted that transgender woman as his next mate had that woman been forthcoming at the beginning about her being a transgender woman.
It's understandable that a woman has grounds to delay revealing her having been born a male baby, and that later she arranged for her gender to be changed. Being rejected hurts. It hurts a person's self-esteem. It hurts to realize that too many people don't want to be intimate with you. It hurts me when a woman I like would not want to be intimate with me. Yet, if I will seek a woman as a lover, I'm going to brave potential rejection from that woman. I hate being rejected, but I accept that outcome as a reality. But unlike younger times when I really hurt, I can take rejection in stride. A woman's rejection of me as a potential lover is not a definition of me or my worth. A man who refuses to date or to become the lover of a transgender woman does not define who and what she is or her worth as a person, as a lover to someone. It simply defines who she is in that rejector's head.
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Kaneki05 | 2.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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Yeah of course if they look like a woman. Which is rare and normally only the rich ones who can afford all surgery to be so. Therefore doubtfully i woule ever run into one i didn't know was a guy. But if i did i would find them hot until i see there package and be like nope.
I am sure I have not known it and probably at onetime or another found them attractive. Knowing would change my perception a bit. Turned on no, one I dislike fake boobs and knowing they were once male would not make me turned on. Now the above transgenders are good looking I will have to admit that.
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FunkyMonkee | 5.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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Sometimes, they're absolutely gorgeous and you'd never know you were looking at one! I know some of the things t0o look for and some of them can STILL fool me!!
used to view em as freaks. a few years ago, i viewed them as a fetish i wouldn't be with in rl. now, i've spoken to a few and flirted with one.. started great but that went bad after i revealed my religion.
thanks. i've met a few more fairer minded of men and human nature. a lot have a problem with men showing interest in their dick--but that's ''human nature'' part. curiosity is a guiding force for us and they open the mind to things you normally wouldn't be interested in. i've noticed that trans who grow more comfortable tent to be much happier than those who get srs.
''tend''. here's a sex game that actually helped me revise my previous thoughts on the issue: f95zone.to/.../page-701#post-3496487 . i'm a very stubborn man... but even before... i couldn't argue with these facts: www.youtube.com/watch
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No idea.
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Anonymous10 moOnce they’ve gotten rid of the penis, they are fun to play with for sex. But just sex, I couldn’t have a relationship... sorry girls.React
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