Tips for giving a blowjob?

Hi. This guy i’m dating wants a blowjob and he explained that he likes it very wet and spit everywhere and jerking him off while sucking but how do i suck without getting my teeth in the way? any techniques? my mouth is quite small do i put my tongue over my teeth? what about my top teeth? I’ve only gave head twice and it just didn’t go well. Also how do i get more spit in my mouth? I’m 20 and i’m just not good at them.
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  • I'll list them in numerical order for your reading pleasure.


    1. I also love it when she moans or talks when she's sucking me off. For some reason that I cannot explain, the vibration from her voice box is actually quite stimulating.
    2. Don't forget the balls. Playing with them while sucking feels heavenly. Don't forget to rub, fondle and play with it, if you're comfortable, lick it. Try pulling down on his balls when he's about to cum and he'll have the most intense orgasm of his life.
    3. Use your hands! Who said you can't incorporate hands into a blowie? Stroke him off into your mouth as you're giving sloppy head.
    4. Rub and\or lick his taint. This is the area between the balls and he anus. It is packed with tons of nerve endings and indirectly stimulates his prostate.
    5. Lick and stimulate the frenulum with your fingers and tongue. I would compare this spot to the clitoris - it's also packed with loads of nerve endings and it really brings out waves of pleasure.
    6. Whatever you do, don't stop! If your jaw is tired or aching from going too fast, try something else - try going slower, stop and use your hands instead, lick and stimulate the head of his penis while you rest your jaw etc... just don't stop or he might get a ruined orgasm!
    7. Touch and rub his body as you go down on him.
    8. Don't forget eye contact and dirty talk!
    9. Go as fast as you can when he's about to cum. Use your hands to stroke every last drop into your mouth as you continue that tongue action.

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  • A big reason that the male orgasm happens (best) from head is when there is a very steady rhythm stimulating the tip. "Deep throating" is not such a big deal because all that does is simulate the experience of being in the warm wet snug vagina. During intercourse, it is the tip being touched and stimulated that causes excitement and orgasm.

    Keep in mind, all the best BJs are also a bit of a hand job as well so don't be afraid to give your mouth a break.

    And don't forget the balls! They get lonely and are STARVING for female attention. So, sometimes use your fingers or hand such as cupping or teasing testicles or the penis.

    Google "Fellucia Blow" and STUDY those videos. Those women are experts at fellatio and genuinely love it. The sensuous BJ really is best both for the guy and for the woman. Watch and notice how easily they do it yet aren't choking or getting sick. And watch how they switch between mouth and fingers.

    Also, look into videos for:

    A) lingam massage (tantric massage for the male genitalia)
    B) yoni massage (tantric massage for the female genitalia - he should return the favor).

    That said, consider studying good hand-job videos. All you then have to do is imagine doing what the woman is doing with her hands and fingers, but instead replace with lips, tongue, and mouth.
    I'd upload a video, but it is not safe for G@G. PM if you want the links to two such videos.

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  • 1. Deepthroating is overrated. It's ok if you can't get it all the way in. You can try and then choke on it. You don't actually have to really push it so much that it makes you actually choke, just push it until it reaches the back of the mouth and then cough as if you choked on it. It makes then feel as if their cock is so big you can't get it all in!
    2. A good bj is actually mostly a hj. The main job of the mouth is to keep it wet and slippery.
    3. Pay attention to the tip! Rub it with your thumb while your holding his dick, suck on it, lick it.
    4. Lick the dick from bottom to top. From the sides too. Think of it as a big lollipop. Imagine your enjoying every moment of it (after a while of this mental exercise, it actually becomes true). Just close your eyes and lick. Kiss it all along, put it against your cheeks. Just have fun with it. This is the sexiest thing you can do - realize it and act like it.
    5. Don't neglect the balls! Lick them, suck on them, sub them softly against your face - but most of the time they should be cupped in your hand. Sometimes in the media we see a girl holding two balls/eggs and shuffling them in her hands, as a metaphor for playing with a guy's testicles. Don't do it with actual testicles! Just hold them in your hand. You can squeeze them gently or pull on them gently (GENTLY!!!), but you can also just hold them.

  • Hi hun my ex boyfriend asked me to watch this particular porn video before I gave head for the first time and it really helped. I studied It to try and do it like her, and I feel like how she positions herself kinda answers your question. It’s called Mouth Meat 4 starring Nicole Brazzelle but skip the first ten minutes

    • Apologies it’s spelled Brazzle

    • Thanks for the MHO 😊did you watch the video haha

    • @gatorademebiatch hey can u dm me i have some questions about ur hookup with steve story lol?

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  • Some things that I prefer.
    *Form a kissing mouth and then "nurse" (num num) on the head like an infant on a pacifier.
    *Part your teeth just enough to pass your tongue through to tease the little hole.
    *Once he is hard enough. stroke his shaft vigorously until he ejaculates.
    *Never pause or slow down until ejaculation starts.
    *When ejaculation starts, **stop all mouth motion and just straight suck, but keep stroking until the last squirt.
    *If choking or gagging on cum is a problem, curl your tongue up so he shoots under it.
    **If you can develop the skill, time "num-num-ing" to the exact moment of later squirts so you suck them out.

  • can you dm me?

  • Hello! so cover ur teeth with ur lips helps with the teeth thing. i think its more important to be enthusiastic. its more fun that way for both honestly. have u seen his dick yet? is he hung? also u can dm me :) its easier to chat that way

  • lick the head