Why do people think it’s a good idea to bring in another person in the bedroom?

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Mainly women think it’s a good idea to bring in a woman for threesome. I will never understand this because you’re opening up your real to another energy and sex is powerful. It’s really foolish. And then they wondered what happened when the man leaves or finds out he’s in love with the person they brought in there bedroom. I’m attracted to women but I never ever express this to my husband. I keep this to myself. I believe threesomes break down bounds.

DeepThoughtday · Accepted Answer

you say mainly women think this is a good idea? I've always been of the opinion that it was the other way round. that most women where against this. my simple answer is who are we to judge? if a loving couple want a three way in what ever form that takes be it two guys one girl or two girls one guy that's their decision. not really for anyone else to judge

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

I was in a FMM threesome, about 2 years ago, and I liked it, and the couple had been swinging for many years. I tried to arrange a FFM threesome when I was at Firestone Tire in Ohio, but was gutless in following through. It would have been wonderful, I think.

Leavesbound · Answer

This is why the few times that this has happened to me I leave those decisions entirely up to the woman. I don't seek it out but if she wants it she has to do the recruiting. I just go along for the ride.

OutWestBandit · Answer

for some women thats a tease - a way to test the man's responses?
for some women maybe thats a way to open a bi-thing with the man's approval?

in one situation I had, she brought that tease up - and i knew how enormously jealous she would get with any woman near me, so said maybe not... but how about 2 guys and you instead? (that really rocked her) lol

any kind of sex thing you open like that - you dont want it to be someone next door - someone that will cause drama next week

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

It might ruin your relationship with a threesome, but you should be honest with your husband.

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Cuz they dont really love or care for the person their with

OnTheLevel · Answer

Different strokes for different folks

CubaPirate · Answer

Greed and sexual frustration. Either it's a recipe for disaster

MasterKS · Answer

threesome is just awesome!

hillbilly201 · Answer

I think it's ok no matter who brings it around

Anonymous · Answer

They see it in porn and think it's normal. It may seem harmless on the surface, but in reality it's something you have to be very careful with or you risk ruining your relationship with your S/O over, as you mentioned. If you think you are bi or a lesbian, you owe it to yourself to find out as you owe it to yourself to be happy.