Would it be tmi to tell a guy I’ve never been as attracted to anyone as much as I am to him ever in my life?

[Anonymous]

We’ve known each other for half a year now. We have this weird thing going on, I don’t know what you would even call it. But we’re seeing each other, but we aren’t a couple. Anyways, he by far is the top person I have ever been attracted to in my life. I don’t get attracted or turned on by many guys but with him I am SO attracted and hungry for him in ways I haven’t ever been with anyone. I get instantly wet thinking about him whereas prior to him I had to use lube during sex with other men. I used to hate giving blow jobs. With him I LOVE giving him head, like it’s my favorite thing to do and I fantasize about it. I used to think sex was whatever and went years without having it because I found it kinda boring even when I did orgasm. But with him we have this sexual chemistry I have never experienced and sex with him makes me feel so alive and I am addicted to it.
Should I tell him this or would that weird a guy out?

[MCheetah]

That's extremely rare in a woman, nowadays. Most young women today seem narcissistic & selfish and/or gay. So to hear one who seems to be in love (or at least seriously crushing) is almost heartwarming to hear in such a cynical day and age of feminism, LGBT-oversaturation, and OnlyFans.

You should tell him a little bit of this, to test the waters. If he likes it, and seems to also be in love with you, then you should tell him the whole thing. I think that would make a man's day, or month, for sure. Again, I'm just glad to hear about women who still actually like men in 2021.

[Asker]

Aw I didn’t know that was rare for men to hear. I was having a similar conversation with him about modern feminism (of which I am not part of). From what I’ve heard from other men and my male friends it’s like walking on eggshells. Even being a gentleman is misconstrued nowadays (some women are offended of you pay, open doors, etc) and I just think it’s so uptight and ridiculous. But yeah, I like and value men and I do enjoy saying so. I will play it by ear and let him know some and see what happens 😊

[Zebadee88]

Sure you can tell him. Or let actions speak for themselves.

[supermagentas45]

So, if you too are having sex I don't thinm you telling him you really enjoy having sex with him would be that strange. It seems more flattering than anything really.

[supermagentas45]

And yeah someone doesn't have to be a model to make you feel strongly attracted. Good chemistry is so important to physical attraction, so looks can sometimes take a back seat.

[Anonymous]

You don't have to tell him that. It's not like it's tmi, but he probably already knows and probably feels the exact same for you girl.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I suggest not. Why risk changing the dynamic?

[slatyb]

Just tell him.

[Stevefiveo]

Definitely tell him. I love it when girls tell me things like this.