Lol weird question, but I hate the way penis looks, why?

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I hate the way penis looks, I am not gay I like men but as soon as the pants come off I hate the way it looks, and I feel very weird like I’m an alien or something because I don’t like the way it looks honestly, but I never say anything to the man I sleep with cause then it would be awkward. Should I see a sex therapist or something? And do guys think vagina looks weird or odd, but your attracted to the persons personality? And has a female ever told this to you and if so what are the reasons for it lol feel very odd asking this but this defiantly affects my sex life, need advice and help asap.!

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

Not odd, at all. You are 21 and probably have not seen many penises. Some do look 'ugly' as I have see a lot myself on line, and confess, that the different 'looks' can be scary. Some are circumcised, some are not, some are longer, some are shorter, some are thicker and some thinner. The colors of the penis can be different also as well as some having large veins in the shaft that change the look.
Vulvas are in many cased different also, in that some are closed, some are 'open' showing the inner labia, the clitoris's, and the opening of the vagina. I have seen many in person, and many on line and the differences are great. Some Asian women seem to have a very small vagina, with very small inner labia, and the distance between the opening of the vagina and the clitoris is very small, indicating that if the penis were very THICK, that the upper surface of the penis would contact the clitoris during stroking in and out.
Without sound like a 'horses ass-male chauvinist- a woman on line, whom I was showing my penis to, said "Like your cock" - so I guess mine penis passed the 'look' test with one woman anyway.
A long round-about answer to your question - but yes- I have been 'turned off' by the look of a girls vulva, i. e. the look of the inner labia protruding through the outer labia in the same way you hate the way an erect penis looks. No big deal. I did not eat out the girl with the protruding inner labia, and she HATED me from that day on, and I never forgot it. We/ you/ other men/ other women cannot change the way our penis/pussy looks to an observer, and that is a fact. You are the normal person like me that was not accustomed to a different looking vulva. As a suggesting, look on Google, and search for Erect Penises and see the differences

nudeNhorny · Accepted Answer

I find that strange actually, I mean I'm not gay and I think penis look good, and for vaginas I think they look amazing, but anyway I encountered a lot of people who they don't like the look of genitals, so you are not the only one obviously.