What’s your red flags when interracial dating?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been wondering this cause I know some people have flags for dating in general but I’m wondering what flags people have for dating interracial cause I have some just to keep me safe cause their are some creeps out there.

This is my list as a black girl

1) saying they want a biracial baby (it weirds me out mostly because 9x/10 they specifically want a baby with light skin, light eyes, light hair, curly hair and if the baby comes out with kinky curls they won’t bother learning how to even do their hair most the time. ) *I know this from experience

2) “I’ve never dated a black girl before” I don’t want to be the first, that’s about it. I’m not trying to be an experiment if that makes sense.

3) them trying to use the word exotic as a compliment: I’m black, not a gecko 💀

4) when they say the n word: see explanatory, I’m black and don’t even use that word so dating me doesn’t give you a pass to be ignorant

5) “I only date black girls because Of [insert here]” whatever they say after that is always going to be weird and make me uncomfortable so it’s a no.

[MTC29]

The first black woman I dated was a blind date arranged by the girl's uncle. I took her and her daughter to my nieces 6th birthday party. She met my mother, my sister, my whole family. My niece (who is blonde with blue eyes) and the daughter were the same age and they formed a strong bond.

Our next date was at a 4th of July party with her family. Yes, I was the only white face in the crowd, but I shot hoops with the younger guys and pitched horse shoes with the older guys.

The issue was the ex husband. The woman had a daughter with that man and he screamed that I was going to raise his daughter as white. This guy would never go away, so I went away. I'm not in the least bit proud of that, but it's the truth. To this day, I miss that little girl who I would have loved as though she was my own daughter.

[Grubhub]

I’m not into that N word stuff during sex. Some white girls would tell a black man” I love or want that N word D. I have no problem with a woman wanting me because of my complexion or BBC

[Miah02]

When they feel the need to remind me every five sentences I'm black and they not.

Instead of telling me I'm attractive they repeatedly tell me. I think black girls are attractive. Obviously or your dumbass wouldn't be tryin to get with me.

Constantly asking me questions that start with Do all black girls like. I'm not your science experiment to get inside of the black mind.

Shocker we don't share 1 brain.

Basically if it's something they wouldn't say or do if I was the same race as them really annoys me.

[Lyrem_]

If i haven’t met their family after being together for a while. Like im not gonna ask to meet his family he’s gonna want mento meet his family if they aren’t racist. And I don't know if the he takes too long or if they are racist im done with his bc i don’t feel like loosing my time with race issues i would just leave.

[ItsLynn]

If they call me any racial slur as "dirty talk" without telling me they plan to beforehand is a big no no

[GenaBaby1995]

I have dark skin but I'm not black. When the parents are ok with me but racist about black people, smh

[genericname85]

just the same as with dating the same race i am xD

[Juxtapose]

Woke shit period. That's a no-go.

[NoLookingAtSoleil]

For me - the fact it is interracial

[Asker]

Than why comment, I was obviously asking only for opinions of those who date outside their race?

[NoLookingAtSoleil]

Fools and horses do

[SmokinAces2000]

NoLookingAtSoleil it’s the 21st century, for someone that’s only 43 you think like someone from the 50s or 60s

[Asker]

Fr, dude is butt hurt for nothing

[NoLookingAtSoleil]

@SmokinAces2000 you can date sheep, monkeys, ch8mpanzees also.

[SmokinAces2000]

@NoLookinhAtSoleil and you can keep your racist and outdated opinions to yourself also 😁 have a great day

[Asker]

Take your racist opinions elsewhere, no one needs your dumb ass pseudoscience here

[NoLookingAtSoleil]

I prefer to share them. Your opinion is in no way superior to mine. I have every right to be rightist - there is no obligation to be a retarded leftist - the whole of the west is in decline, self destruction, so those less capable can feel good about themselves, at the cost to those more capable.

[NoLookingAtSoleil]

In that photo, the guy is getting a raw deal - there is nothing that makes that right.

[Asker]

Dude, tf are you even talking about. You sound delusional. This is about relationships not politics, are you that mentally retarded?

[SmokinAces2000]

NoLookingSoleil so you are admitting that republicans are racist

[NoLookingAtSoleil]

@SmokinAces2000 there's nothing racist about not privileging the blacks or muslims. Live, sure - get off your bum and your imaginary moral high horse - you are constructing arguments entirely removed from reality (and failing on that basis, and no - it is not anyone else's fault but yours).

[SmokinAces2000]

You said something racist and when you were called out you said I have every right to be a rightist so that means that you just admitted that republicans have racist ideologies

[NoLookingAtSoleil]

@SmokinAces2000 you're too dumb to get what I was/am saying 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

@NoLookingAtSoleil ironic how you’re the one that’s too dumb and brainwashed to even understand the dumb ass racist shit that’s coming out of your mouth

[Asker]

Don’t get mad at people just cause you ain’t doing nothing with your boring mf life, take your negativity elsewhere mr i hare black people cause I’m insecure about myself

[SmokinAces2000]

Nolookingatsoliel and your too racist to see how racist you are

[taboomaster]

Wearing a mask is one to start

[Asker]

I guess during the end of the pandemic, but some people still haven’t got vaccinated though

[taboomaster]

If you're vaccinated. Why worry?

[shydude1991]

Lol she's like fuck you bigots!

[Asker]

Lol yeah

[Anonymous]

if she say white privilege or any woke nonsense I will ghost her

[Anonymous]

“If I was to date a black girl, you’re the only one I could see myself with”…. Hmmm yeah that’s not a compliment. Why me?


“If you want me to be attracted to you, You should wear your natural hair more often.” What if I don’t want you to be attracted to me? The audacity!!! You approach me not the other way around!