My boyfriend wants me to give him oral why he watches porn, is this a guy thing, or should I be worried?

[sarahjca]

My boyfriend is 32 and i am 30, we have been together for 9 months now. He often gets really jealous, for example i had to go the the doctor recently and my boyfriend was upset the doctor was male. He refused to speak to me for an entire day. When we finally saw each other, i was getting ready to give him oral. He told me i did something awful, and asked what he was going to get to do because of it. i was confused, and said i did not know. He told me he was going to watch porn while i gave him oral. i told him that really bothered me, but he wanted to do it any way. He went straight to his phone and pulled up BBW while i gave him oral, and he wanted me to watch with him. He was really into it, and after it was over, he said it was not a big deal because what he did was digital. Is this something guys like and does it mean I am not enough for him?

[AmandaYVR]

If he was a nice guy and asked for this to fulfill a fantasy of his, I would say just oblige him.

But he isn't a good guy. He used it as a 'punishment' and that is fucked up, girl.

And yes, why are you lying about your age. You may want to avoid being hit on digitally by guys here, but you need to realize it makes you lose credibility. Age matters when it comes to creating context and life experience.

I remember your other question, and guys getting mad about male doctors examining you is not okay.

Get rid of this guy. You're going to get emotionally damaged by him, and then all future guys you get involved with will have to pick up the pieces, and pay for it, and they'll also question your judgement. Already many of them think "girls love dicks" and "why do they put up with them, and bypass us good guys."

[Red_Arrow]

So you are 30 but sign up on here as 39. Already I wonder what I should believe. You have a boyfriend who goes ballistic because your doctor is a male, which is very common. He wants to watch porn while you blow him, and you go along with that. Nothing normal in that question at all.

[thotmas97]

Getting upset because a doctor is a guy is not common that’s weird as shit.

[Anonymous]

That’s not a big deal and lots of women do that with their boyfriend, it’s a fantasy on the screen while actually getting a bj, it’s no big deal, no one can hook up with someone from an old porn movie much less them wanting him so it’s nothing to be jealous about

[ImHere22]

Wow this guy is complete trash! What a loser, like really! I'm shocked you actually followed through with sucking his dick while he sat there watching porn. I mean he got mad because your doctor was male? He needs help and I advise you to leave his ass quick.

No way would my wife continue to suck my dick if I was acting like that; and same for me! If I'm about to give a guy head & he's rude and pulls out his phone, naw, I'm not only going to bite his dick in half but I'm also going to punch him in the balls.
Now some guys that I've sucked off were pretty quiet and didn't talk much, but that's because I'm just there to get them off and then leave. It's different if you're dating someone who acts like that. Man I'm sorry you're dealing with that assclown

[Dargil]

Sounds like it's time to go.

[Not_Average]

A lot of red flags here

[Nik1hil]

Not a guy thing!..
He wants to imagine a pornstar sucking his dick..
You work down and he imagine that his favorite pornstar is sucking him off..

Also its a douche thing to do..

[Nik_92]

watching a porn is not a bad things but excessive is bad its kind of male thing,
you can enjoy time by considering both of your like -dislike and permission one can not force it to do..

[thotmas97]

Sounds like a controlling creep

[bushwookie]

He sounds toxic as fuck

[Waldoe]

he sounds like a real CREEP

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

Could you be anymore cliche with you being the younger one in the relationship

My dad is younger than my mom. How come you can't date a younger guy?

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

Also, why's it say you're 39, if you're 30

[Grubhub]

😂 you’re his slave. He wants pleasure while he watches porn

[NibirX]

Porn has destroyed a big number of people... stop his watching porn... and make mutual understanding... if he doesn't stop... leave him... find a guy performs respondsibility rather than only wanting reward...

[Anonymous]

What a dumbass. Isn’t the whole point of porn to be there when there’s no woman around?

[Anonymous]

Maybe he could show you a tutorial that you could both watch which might turn him on and give you some pointers or ideas? I would love my SO to watch porn (more realistic stuff) and get ideas.

[Anonymous]

I assume both of you have had your share of relationship since your teens

[Anonymous]

That's a red flag in my books. Sex should not be coerced or a punishment, unless you're into that kind of thing. I understand that it can be a turn on to watch porn while having sex, but only if both partners enjoy it.