My boyfriend makes me feel like sex is a chore. What should I do?
My current boyfriend works a manual job but is also a little overweight. He’s put a bit more weight on recently.
When we have sex or he does any jobs around the house, he gets really really sweaty and puffed. He has made a few comments that make me feel like sex is a chore to him. Things like “I’m doing all the work” or along those lines. He absolutely is not. I do so much to satisfy him and I just feel like he is not into it at all. I’ve done role play, dressed up for him, asked what his fantasy is and re-enacted that. I’ve literally tried so hard only to get a real lacklustre effort back.
It’s getting to the point where I’m a bit frustrated now. I just feel like…if it’s that much of an effort, I’m sure someone else wouldn’t mind filling your spot so to speak!
I don’t want to feel like that because I do love him and he’s very good to me in other ways.
I try and keep myself fit and healthy and encourage him to do the same but he’s eating junk food a lot.
I just don’t know what to do to try and fix it. Should I stop instigating sex?
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