Is my college crush (19F) interested in me (18M) (repost for opinions of guys and girls) ?

I've seen her around at high school since we both went to the same school, but we never had classes together, so we never talked. Anyways, fast forward to around a 10 months into the pandemic, and I add her on snap. Basically we hit it off, and now we talk almost everyday ever since I asked for her number.

Long story short, I've been getting more and more attracted to her as the weeks go by and I continued to get to know her and eventually, I started to crush hard on her (it's been 4 months since we started talking).

Since the beginning, I've been playfully flirting with her, and I think she's flirting back, but it's hard to tell since I don't have much experience with girls and I already consider her one of my closest friends.

Any feedback would be much appreciated, y'all really need to help this poor boy out

HUGE thing to keep in mind:
- We haven't talked in person yet though I have seen her in person before.

Main Signs (in order based on timeline):
- l called her cute, she responded that "You're a cute guy too, honestly why doesn't everybody ask for nudes XD"

- started responding with walls of text (I do too)

- started apologizing for taking too long to respond sometimes because she's busy (I really didn't mind, I knew finals were coming up around this time)

- she was attending my hs graduation, I basically told her I was nervous, she asked why, and I said I was nervous at the potential of talking to her in person. She reassured me, and told me I'm a handsome graduate and she's happy for me.

- asked for her number, she gave it to me

- made plans on hanging out one on one soon, I said it's like a first date, she said

- told me she wouldn't judge me for checking her out in a convo

- most recently: asked for my opinion on pictures she got from a waterpark to post for insta, sent me boobylicious pics, I complimented her tits basically, told her I'm normally an ass guy, but she's stunning. She said she's flattered and hopes to change my opinion on that.
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  • Boom at least you are lucky to get your crush number and have been talking to him... That's sounds great... How many people get that 😅😅 . So you have talked with her, got her numbers and had a kind of naughty chats... Then why to wait for ours opinion go ahead and ask her... Let's see what future has kept for you...

    • Hahaha yeah, I had to build a lot of courage leading up to asking her since Iโ€™m a pretty shy guy typically. I just feel like I connect with her on such a level it makes me blush just thinking about her sometimes; I would have never forgave myself if I let an opportunity like this goโ˜บ๏ธ. I donโ€™t want to ask her straight up yet since I want to kind of take this slow and not rush things since weโ€™re both still young, as I really want this to work out long term. Besides, starting as friends, turning into close friends and flirt buddies, and finally going into a relationship is super hot, itโ€™s one of my biggest fantasies. We are hanging out alone together this week so Iโ€™m excited tho.

    • Now you have done all things with her... so how come you are shy with her... go dude tell her feelings of urs at least... and be paitent... Don't hurry up it's like opening an 70 years old wine and tasting it the more time you take the more you will enjoy... but at least say to her...

    • Oh yeah, I'm definitely going to be telling her how I'm feeling in person soon when we hang. All I'm saying is that I don't want to rush into a serious full on committed relationship yet since we both have busy lives. I've been super direct with my flirting towards her so I don't think it'll come as much of a surprise, especially since she escalated by flirting back with me I think.

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  • I think you guys are already dating

    • Mind elaborating? We havenโ€™t gotten to talk in person yet but weโ€™re planning on meeting up in person irl soon alone. I wouldnโ€™t say weโ€™re dating in any sense

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