Do woman have it easier when it comes to dating, relationships, sex and life in general?

[Anonymous]

In my opinion attractive woman have it far easier in life in general, but mostly in dating, relationship and sex.
A hot girl with a pretty face, eyes, big titties, nice butt, nice body have a huge advantage over any man. They say "MAN ARE MADE, WOMAN ARE BORN". They born to be hot and pretty, and being feminine isn't hard. They can also do stuff like man like sports etc, but nobody expects them to be emotionless machines so they feel much less pressure from society in general. They can attract man just with their looks alone and they can choose between tons of man without putting barely any effort in it if at all. Even in sex they have an advantage. A man can came early, while woman came much harder which also a bad thing for a guy since he is the one who is supposed to satisfy her while trying not to came early.
Even average woman have it far easier and get approached left and right.

Man on the other hand have to work for everything, even for their bodies. Man have to do the approach, and pay for the dates. If a guy can't get a girl he gets shamed by society by called a loser, incel etc. Not to mention the thousand of double standards on woman's side. Woman can do everything while a mans life is all about rules and expectations.

[IHateBeingaMan]

i try not to let this debate cloud my mind as much as before, but its a reminder that, if a guy, man, has this mindset or way of thinking, he is labeled a baby, a whiner or a victim, or an incel, but if a woman complains or is upset about being a woman in the dating world or any area in life, she is more likely to get sympathy, emotional support, but if a guy is like that, he will be told to "man up, or grow a pair or grow some balls", phrases i've always hated with a huge passion

[Asker]

LOL. Don't listen to those kind of people. We all know that we are right at the end of the day. But sadly hating being a man is not going to get us nowhere.

[jakejacobson110]

How often do men ask women out? How often do women ask men out?

[MrNameless]

in the western world, I do think women have it easier when it comes to having a number of partners available, as well as making less effort to court someone.

But a lasting relationship takes both parties.

[Asker]

I hope you consider Europe as part of that western world too.

[ChrisMaster69]

No one has it easy.

some (either gender) have it lucky at times.

you just have to look at the number of high profile people on dating apps.

it’s a lottery at times.

[Asker]

I respect your opinion but it's hard to argue with the things I mentioned.

[ChrisMaster69]

If you substitute Attractive Woman with Man then it’s true as well. An attractive man will do well. I don’t think when I was in the Air Force I ever knew a Pilot or any Aircrew that were single or did not have a decent girlfriend or wife. Even among us ground-crew, we just fucked around and not many were single long. We did find a lot of civilian guys were pretty shit though, low confidence, not good prospects etc. Women definitely have it harder with life in general. Walk a mile in their shoes on a summer evening in nearly any city.

[es20490446e]

More choice doesn't mean having it easier.

[KatherineJ]

I don’t think either gender “has it easier”.

[Asker]

Woman have it much easier when it comes to dating. All woman have to do is wait for the offers and choose the best guy out of the bunch.

[KatherineJ]

Yeah because you know what women deal with in dating...

[Asker]

Oh and of course man are often considered to be creeps, weirdoes, and low quality losers, which also proves my point. You have both your body, looks, and personality as an asset. Man only have their personality, and we have to be far more interesting than a woman.

[KatherineJ]

Yeah, Mr. BlueAnon. If it’s so great being a woman, why don’t more men change their sex? Seriously dude, just stop.

[Asker]

Because you can't change it? Being transgender is not even close to being born as a woman. You are what you born to be, man or woman. You can't change that. You wish to be a man because of why? Exactly. I bet you can't name me one thing outside of the obvious which is not having periods.

[KatherineJ]

I love it when Anons like you think you know everything.

[Asker]

And I love it when woman can't admit that they have it easier. At least you would have tried but you didn't. I'm not saying that woman can't have problems but overall it's easier for them than for man. You don't see a hot girl out there as a hobo do you?

[KatherineJ]

Dude, just stop. You are completely clueless.

[Anonymous]

Dumb ass: you start out by asking if WOMEN have it easier and then in your first two fucking lines you specify HOT women with pretty faces, big titties, nice asses, etc., etc.

No fucking shit Sherlock--you've just discovered water is wet! Do you think that a dude who has movie-star looks, an athletic bod, is a billionaire celebrity and has an 8 inch dick has it easy? Probably!

It has NOTHING to do with being a man or a woman. If you've got what other people want, you're going to have an easier time in life.

Now big fucking LOSERS sit around and piss and moan about this. Those losers tend to be fat ugly women or loserish dudes. WINNERS try to figure out what THEY want, figure out what OTHER PEOPLE want and set about doing the HARD FUCKING WORK to improve themselves and add value to other people. And if you do that, guess what? You'll have better life outcomes. You might even convince a hot chick to let you touch her boobies. *eye roll*

[Asker]

I mentioned that even average looking girls have it far easier than an attractive man. Even they get tons of invitations for dates.

[Opinion Owner]

So what? Every time a chick gets laid, so does a dude. Sounds pretty even to me.

[Asker]

Nah fam it's not nearly even. If 10 guy pursue 1 girl and she chooses 1 guy how is that even? Tons of man chase the same girl all the time. I don't understand why you even try to damage control. Woman have it easier than man, deal with it and accept reality.

[Opinion Owner]

Check your math. One chick gets laid, one dude gets laid. Even.

[Asker]

And all the other dudes who wanted her don't get laid.

[Opinion Owner]

So what? One girl got laid and one guy got laid. Even.

[Asker]

You know that guys are the ones who approach, invite to date, pay for dates etc, right? You know that girls can attract man just with their looks right? It's far from even.

[Opinion Owner]

What's your problem dude? Not getting laid?

[Asker]

Just saying facts. And what is your problem outside of pandering and white knighting for woman?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm doing none of that. I'm just pointing out that every single time a woman gets laid, some dudes dick is doing the job. You're just pissed it ain't yours, but rest assured--it's attached to a smiling dude.

[Asker]

Alright fam, I see where you coning from, but how can you deny the fact that girls can get a boyfriend and sex partner much easier than man? They are the passive ones 90% of time and get invitations from tons of guys, while a man has to make things happen all the time if he wants a girl.

[Opinion Owner]

Dude you really are thick. "They" can't. Because EVERY SINGLE TIME a girl is getting laid SO IS A DUDE.

[Asker]

10 guy wants 1 girl and only 1 guy gets her while the other 9 gets nothing.

[Anonymous]

It 'depends' outgoing people have it easier, regardless of Gender, people that have self confidence (usually inspired by others telling them they are attractive) tend to have it easier.

Those with self conscience issues, regardless of how good they look have it very hard.

In my youth, I found that the ladies had it very easy, as it was expected that the man ask them out. These days where it is okay for her to ask out a man, means it isn't really harder for either of them.

[Asker]

Man are stilk the chqsers and the active gender mostly which is the natural thing, abd always will and should be. This is on of the many reasons why woman will always have it easier.