I didn't lose my virginity until I was 25, do you find that weird or sad? No sex until 25?

What do you think of a guy who didn't have sex until 25? Do you find that weird or odd or sad, or too old to wait until sex?

Just asking because historically it seems to be the norm for people to lose their virginity, or have sexual intercourse for the first time at ages 14-18, or just definitely before 20.

I haven't had that much sex since losing the V-Card, I still feel like a beginner in sex though.
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Ya, men need to have very good or advanced social-skills or have certain social behaviors if they want to attract women into their lives
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It's a reminder that I like to feel men are expected to take or accept responsibility for their lives more than women are
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  • Nah, I lost it at 24 at first it was because somehow I always get into trouble so I was terrified of unintentionally creating a kid and later because i thought i'd suck at it, but to be honest i'm glad I waited, nothing strange you expierence you learn 😊

    • Are you still together with the person you lost your virginity to?

Most Helpful Guy

  • I had my still v card when I was 25 but I did a lot of exoerimenting with girls before I had intercourse like oral sex, mutual masturbation and one time anal. It's not weird or odd it actually more normal for guys than you think. Also some girls might like you lost your virginity when your older cause it shows you have so many sex partners.

    • Are you ever depressed over not having had sex until 25?

    • I do sometimes feel I missed out some experiences of sex but I think it was okay to wait.

    • Yeah I sometimes get bitter and resentful whenever I see teen couples

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Not weird. Everyone is different. At least, I don’t judge.

    • Well that's good, not everyone has the joy of losing their virginity in high school or in their teens

    • What do you think of guys who go to an escort or lose their virginity by paying for it? Because those guys feel it's a last resort for them

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  • Why is it confusing you? SO WHAT? Nobody really needs to know when you had your first time, and, ACTUALLY, NOBODY CARES!!!
    Where are you coming from, that this is an issue, worth a question, here?

  • Who cares? That part of your life is over. Yeah, you were later than most but so what? It has no effect on your present happiness.

    • Well can't speak for every guy, it has affected me unfortunately

    • See a therapist to help you get over it. You need to think about what you are going to do now.

  • Yeah most people that lost their v-card at their teens ended up with a child by their early 20's. That means automatically broke - working for that baby and how ever number of other babies came later.

    If i were you, I would reconsider where I spend my adult life. Some places have everything, friends, money, women. Some don't have shit for me. Have you ever tried abroad?

  • My sister was that age.

  • I still haven't lost mine. I don't think that being a virgin is weird or sad; actually I think it wise these days, if you aren't married.

  • I was 5 when I lost mine.

  • i didn't lose the V-card until 27

  • I wonder why you guys consider having sex a source of pride? only animals brag when they mate.

  • nope. not at all. i was 20 when i lost mine and i regret it to this day, who and why i did it

    whoever, remember, we don't go backwards, in age. and as we age, we start to lose the ability to reproduce, biologically. women know that

    • Why do you regret it?

    • who and why i did it

    • How has your sex life been since then?

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  • I was 15 when I lost it but everyone is different

    • Yeah but it has historically been the norm for people to lose their virginity before 20

    • But who cares about the norm? Do it exactly when you feel like it's OK for you.