Is the guy using me for sex, please help?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been saying a guy for 2 months and a half now. We’ve had sex etc like we are close and speak everyday. Today is the longest we haven’t spoken, he’s at work 3-12am but he always replies normally, i can’t explain but he always replies in the morning and says morning and he’s been online and not opened my texts and this isn’t in his routine.

The whole 2 and a half months of us dating he’s never took this long and been online and ignored me. We have really good sex and he usually only ever puts in loads of effort after we have had sex. . he went out with another girll the other night and it makes me feel sick and he had sex with her i think. I just KNOW! i saw his snapchat story and my friend knows the girl he was with but i didn’t say anything because i don’t wanna lose him. i know he was round her house, he didn’t reply to me for a whole day since he was with her. He took a picture of her room and posted it KNOWING i’d see it?

What shall i do? Shall i ask him if he’s speaking to other people, shall i ask him what he wants? he never takes me out for dates anymore he only ever comes to see me at my house then leaves an hour after sex but he texts me everyday?

It makes me cry knowing he was with another girl but what can i do…. but i don’t wanna get hurt in the long run…I don’t wanna he a sidechick to him. He also threatens to kick me out his house someones and car and shouts and swears at me when i confront him.

[btbc92]

What you can do is not have sex before marriage. You can't get mad of him because you chose to do it. He's gonna sleep with whoever he chooses, because there is no morals. No sexual morals. Of course he's using you for sex you just had sex with the guy. He won't respect you if you won't respect yourself. When you people choose to Half pre metal sex, these are the consequences you should already know that comes with it. You are not legally married to him, he's not obligated to tell you anything basically or to stay with you. He can sleep with whoever he chooses just like you. You make a decision how you choose to have sex and how you choose to be treated. Any man who's coming to you and barely knows you looking for a relationship is obviously using you for sex. How? Because that's what they're primarily looking for. They don't get they gotta wait 6 months. They are requesting sexual favors because again that's what they are seeking. Today people think sex is what makes a relationship and it doesn't. So you decide once again what you are looking for, looking for, this is gonna be the same result.

[btbc92]

To be honest you really need to ask yourself where is your life going and what the hell are you doing question Bailey noticed person, you in his house, you having sex with him, you're getting mad he's having sex with other girl's, you barely been together for 2 and a 1/2 months, she treats you like garbage, screams at you, cross at you, what the heck are you thinking? I work you tell us about you don't want to get hurt in a long one the moment you chose to open your legs, you're already screwed. Instead of putting you concern about whether or not the guy wants up the more which obviously he does not, I suggest you get yourself some serious therapy, some serious professional counseling to avoid what is happening with your brain. I don't mean to be mean, judgmental, or nasty But I am being flattered honest. This is abnormal. Abnormal behavior. You at your age especially now as young adults should already know that this guy does not give a damn about you, or anybody else, is therefore his immediate release, you gave what you wanted because you're desperate or whatever you've got going on, bad enough you don't love yourself, and you look over somebody who don't give a Dag about you or any one else but himself to love you. He can get away with this because women sadly like yourself allow him to. If he can sleep with you, he can sleep WI those little girl called will make you to keep messing around with other girls? Again, you better go back home to your parents if you have parents, you'd better get yourself a place to live and we've not then you'd better figure it out. And while you add it, get tested because you don't know if this guy's carrying disease.

[kidvid80]

YES! he is not only using you but abusive and manipulating you? dont allow him to throw you out, frigging run for the hills

[Browneye57]

You get a NEW guy. Duh.
You're what is commonly referred to as a 'door mat'. Sweet, but no.

[Asker]

The only reason i’m sweet is because i hide my anger. Well shall i just stick up for myself then or is it too soon to get angry at him.

[Asker]

I don’t. wanna be sweet i do wanna confront him but i don’t know how to go about it

[Browneye57]

If he's doing someone else, why are you hanging around? "It's over. We're done. Good bye." Forget the 'angry' part, just dump him.