Want to surprise boyfriend w/ sex. How can I get my boyfriend in bedroom w/out letting him know it's for sex? Should I come out in lingerie or naked?

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Want to surprise boyfriend w/ sex. How can I get my boyfriend in bedroom w/out letting him know its for sex? Should I come out in lingerie or naked?

My boyfriend has been waiting for a long while for me to be ready for sex. He's wanted since a couple of months ago, but I just haven't felt ready. He's been very understanding about that. However, I now feel ready and want to have sex with him. I want to surprise him with the sex. However, there are a couple of questions I have.
1. How do I ask him to come in my bedroom without giving any hints that we're going up there for sex? I want to surprise him a little after we get in the bedroom, but I don't want him to suspect anything until the right moment. I want to make sure he has no idea that I'm going to surprise him with sex (until the right moment).
2. I've been thinking of going in my bedroom's bathroom (just tell him I'm 'using the restroom') and then come out in either sexy lingerie or totally naked. On one hand I think lingerie could be fun because I'm not totally naked so it's kind of a sexy tease. I could tease him for a little while by not getting naked (until I actually do). Also, there's often something very sexy about leaving something to the imagination for a while.
On the other hand part of me wonders if the tease thing is such a good idea. Maybe it would be better if I skipped all that and was just butt naked right when I came out of my bedroom's bathroom.
I'm gong back and forth on these questions. Please help me figure them out. Thanks!

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OlderAndWiser Editor
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Begin around noon and call him. Tell him that you have a surprise for him when he comes to your home that evening. Later in the afternoon, call him again and tell him that you can hardly wait for him to unwrap his gift. But don't tell him what the gift is. Leave him guessing.

When he arrives at your home, have dinner for him and tell him he can get his gift after dinner. When you are ready, walk into your bedroom and then call for him to come and help you with a zipper. This works best if you are wearing a dress that zips in the back. When he lowers the zipper, say to him, "You've got to keep unwrapping if you want your gift." Then let the dress drop to the floor, turn around and give him a kiss and whisper in his ear, "I want you to make love with me."

That will work.
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donkeyde Xper 5
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Just an idea you can try tell him like a day or so before that you need his help moving some stuff around the house. Have him come over and tell him that you will start in the bedroom since it will be the quickest to rearrange. Tell him to wait there for a minute and you be right back to tell him what needs to be moved around. Come out wearing some sexy lingerie that’s his favorite color and begin the fun. Nice simple and left him wondering if the other rooms will need some work also.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Great idea! I'm totally going to do that!
- donkeyde
  +1 y
  Always come up with a lot of ideas that friends use when needing to spice things up. I hope that works and if needing other ideas let me know.

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kkirk4442 Yoda
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You can just say you want him to look at something in the bedroom, that you think is broken, and what his to look at it. Be sure to have something real, and the story of what is wrong is plausible. If you choose to walk our to him, then definitely wear something sexy. It could be a sexy bra and panties, or perhaps a sexy low lace bra, stockings and a garter belt, etc. However, do sometimes just come out naked, but not the first time.
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FunkyMonkee Master
+1 y
Tell him you want him to take a look at your plumbing.
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Browneye57 Master
+1 y
You're 35 and you don't know how to get a guy to have sex. Dear lord.
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Wise4myage Master
+1 y
Although naked is best, be wearing clothes and try to trick him into fixing something and then jump his bones.
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Twalli Master
+1 y
Completely naked would probably get him hard instantly. You could hide it more easily if you ever just hang out in your bedroom with him.
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Pterodon Guru
+1 y
Naked and do a come hither with your finger
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- Asker
  +1 y
  what do you mean by "do a come hither with your finger"?
- Pterodon
  +1 y
  You know. Come here motion with your index finger
LoveIsFake Xper 4
+1 y
Uhh to be honest I don't know, simply because I never heard of a girlfriend giving sex without her boyfriend asking 🤣 I would say lingerie but then again if I were in bed with a girl wearing lingerie I'd think we are probably just going to sleep. So honestly and unfortunately you'll have to be naked
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ItsMeItsMe1989 Yoda
+1 y
Wait, how do you know you're boyfriend and girlfriend, if you haven't had sex yet?
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taboomaster Xper 4
+1 y
What does he like best?
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I don't know. This will be our first time together. I also don't want to ask him because I want it to be a total surprise. If I ask him I think he may catch on to what I'm trying to do.
- taboomaster
  +1 y
  Ok, flip a coun and go with it. Either way he'll figure it out and lo e it
lycanthrope3 Yoda
+1 y
why does it have to be bedroom
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- LoveIsFake
  +1 y
  Maybe in the snow
chidrup Xper 2
+1 y
Try waiting in ur bed room and just tell him to come inside to help you with something that's all
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I know this might be silly, but I kind of really like the idea of leading him to my bedroom (with him having no suspicion of sex), me going into the bathroom, and coming out in either lingerie or naked. So if I just asked him to fix something in my bedroom then say 'I need to use the restroom' (and then take off my clothes) do you think he wouldn't have any idea I'm planning on surprising him with sex? Or do you think there's a better way to go about it?
- chidrup
  +1 y
  If it's out of the ordinary then he might suspect something but if u casually ask his help then it will work but try to go with the flow don't tense up that's all ull be fine
- chidrup
  +1 y
  Better to wait outside lying on the bed in a sexy pose to surprise him that would be better
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- Asker
  +1 y
  It is a bit out of the ordinary because I normally fix that stuff myself. Do you know of anything else I could say to get him in the bedroom without him having any idea (before I come out of the bathroom that is) I'm going to surprise him with sex?
- chidrup
  +1 y
  My suggestion is u go inside the bedroom saying that you are going to search something... Wait and be ready with everything... Then ask him to come in and help u with something... And that actually feels simple but works fine... And u can also see his full face reaction as he enters the room
- Asker
  +1 y
  Cool. Also, do you think I should be in sexy lingerie or butt naked? Whatever your answer is could you explain why you think that's the better option?
- chidrup
  +1 y
  It's easy be in a sexy lingerie cus obviously ull be but naked in 10min after he sees u... Lingerie actually brings out sexiness better like when ur private parts are hidden it kind of excites us guys to feel like seeing it... So the feeling of removing ur clothing also brings up the excitement... Try wearing something on ur legs also like matching or black knee socks or something like that it might make it more sexy
- chidrup
  +1 y
  It's my opinion but I don't what tastes others may have
- Asker
  +1 y
  I've actually been thinking of teasing him in my lingerie. I know he's going to want to take it off 10 minutes afterwards but I've been thinking about 'teasing' him in not letting him do that so soon. I'll let him touch me/play with me sexually but he can't take the lingerie off for a good while. I think that way he'll really anticipate me being naked and will be more excited when I do take my lingerie off. Do you think that's a good idea or do you think I should just take them off in 10 min or so? Also, I've been thinking about taking his clothes off first. Before I take off my lingerie. Do you think that's a good idea or do you think I should just get naked first?
- Asker
  +1 y
  Sorry about asking so many questions. I just want to make this really, really hot for him and I'm trying to get everything just right.
- chidrup
  +1 y
  What u r thinking is perfect do that... try to wait him out and it becomes more intense... Getting him naked first and cuddling is best way to start... Its OK to ask... If it's ur first time the more you have foreplay the more ull enjoy cus it'll help ur lubrication also so have protection in hand and do it... Use lube also... And longer the foreplay the better both will enjoy
- Asker
  +1 y
  How long do you think foreplay should ideally be? Should I go an hour or two (I've got time during the evening/night I've picked)? How long is the ideal amount? I know you can't know exactly and it very much varies from person to person, but if you could just give a rough estimate it would be appreciated.
- chidrup
  +1 y
  You'll know yourself... Time won't matter when u r involved with your partner... Just go with the flow... If u like what he's doing try to prolong it... And also try making him feel good too don't forget that
- Asker
  +1 y
  Great! Also, what's a good way I can undress him. I don't want him to take off his clothes. I want to take off his clothes for him, but I want to do it in a really sexy way that drives him crazy sexually (in a good way). Do you have any good ideas for how I can do that? I guess I could just undress him in standard sort of way, but I wan to think of something better/hotter than that.
- chidrup
  +1 y
  Try to remove outer layers 1st and wait for some time and then remove the underwear... cus that just gets in the way sometimes... So first try to enjoy your time with your skin to skin feeling... And also try to go with the flow... Don't keep an expectation... The lesser ur expectation the more you'll get
- chidrup
  +1 y
  Don't worry about anything and just go with the flow... If u feel like u want something he did ask for it... Communication is key... Try talking in a sexy voice and tell him what u want...
- chidrup
  +1 y
  Try listening to him also what he wants... Communicate and u'll experience the best feelings
- Asker
  +1 y
  Cool. One last thing. What are some dirty ways I can compliment his body? My boyfriend has an amazing ripped body. I've been trying to think of dirty things to say about it but I can't think of much else beyond just soft core dirty phrases (Ex-your abs are so sexy! Your body is so hot!). I want to say something really hot and super filthy (In a sexy way) about his body, but I can't think of much.
- chidrup
  +1 y
  I'm my opinion without talking u show it to him by the things you do to him from touching to watever u do that'll work better and feel the feedback from him after u the things... Ull understand what he'll love
Anonymous
+1 y
Ask him if he could have a look at your bedroom curtains that are falling off the wall.
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