Boyfriend asked me for sex. I told him I was a virgin he didn't believe me does that mean I look slutty?

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Alejandro3000 · Accepted Answer

Its difficult to believe yes but that's the way it is because most girls lose it much earlier in their teens. To avoid him sexually assaulting you, ask him if he is responsible enough to deal with your feelings once you've lost it because you'll be attached. Also that you are wanting someone you really trust and will go v slow and make sure you don't feel much pain. He'll realise you're being honest.

OutWestBandit · Accepted Answer

he is inexperienced, he sees you talking to your guy friends (which he knows are all horny liars). he starts assuming things.

it doesn't help that guys talk shit to each other.
she is mine, bro... i had her... etc.
thats either to show off - or to discourage him to stop talking to you, it depends

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No body should be asking you for sex. He sounds like a loser. Steer clear of him. Save yourself, you will maintain your dignity in case he decides to dump or cheat on you. Protect your heart. Your clothing doesn't look slutty and don't let anybody rush you to be intimate or guilt trip you into doing something you didn't even want to do in the first place.

Jessica405 · Accepted Answer

If he doesn't believe you, that is his problem. Just don't give in to any emotional blackmail. Stay virgin as long as you want. Remember, it shows how little he trusts you if he does not believe you.

liel443 · Answer

You're in a relationship, it he doesn't believe you stuff like that, you got bigger problems. And to answer your question - yes, but that's beside the point.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

You don't look slutty. Perhaps what he meant to say was that a girl as pretty as you is unlikely to remain a virgin this long.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Nah it just means he’s immature. he should trust what you say. how you dress has nothing to do with being a virgin or not.

Kayla99 · Answer

You look too hot to be a virgin. I don’t know if hot equals slutty or not. But…

ohshee · Answer

No that means your boyfriend is a jackass and he wouldn't be my boyfriend if I was you there's no reason not to believe you and at the same time it's a form of manipulation so he can get into your pants I would walk away from him

summiter · Answer

Not really

normalice · Answer

Usually such responses from men have nothing to do with the woman.

Almost10inch4funlol · Answer

it’s more about the times and your actions lol. but don’t worry about if he believes you because he’ll know if he ever gets to feel it 😂

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

Troll 🖕

Andres77 · Answer

You look fun. He can eat shit. It's a ploy. Don't fall for it. Good luck.

aRadioHead · Answer

It's uncommon in today's world but there is nothing wrong with it either

loveslongnails · Answer

It doesn't, it just means he wants sex so badly he refuses to believe you're a virgin. Keep using that filter - you'll stay a virgin for a long time :) lol

kellytheman · Answer

You don't look slutty to me but it might be the way you act. You can't be slutty if your a virgin though.

Still-alive · Answer

Not slutty exactly but you are very attractive so you might’ve had plenty of opportunities to lose it even if you chose not to. But its on him to believe you or not. And its also wrong if he’s judging you for it