Would you date someone who is "waiting till marriage"?

Basically people who wouldn't have sex or oral sex before they get married ik a lot of people who do just a random thought and wondering how would people respond
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To be clear the scenarios here are no masterbation together, no oral sex, no sexual contact, just hugs and kisses
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  • I would not. But you go gurl.
    If you're doing it for religious reasons then just find someone like minded and plan it together. Decide what YOU want and stick to that. Be clear about what you want, and date with that in the forefront.

    • Thanks I already said that to my boyfriend and he's alright with it :)

    • Then why are confused about it? Why are you asking the question? Why do you care what strangers on the internet would do? You're just not that bright, are you?

  • Yep. I regret I'm not able to tell my wife I never slept with anyone else before her. If I was single again now I'd definitely want to wait for marriage again.

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  • Yes and no. I really like sex, and really want sex in a relationship, I feel like it's a very important part of a relationship. I absolutely do not mind waiting to have sex but till marriage could be a long time. If I fell in love with a woman like that, we were very compatible, and we were both in a position where we would want to maybe get married in 1-2 years. I'd wait.

  • Definitely not. I wouldn't consider marrying anyone without knowing if we were sexually compatible. I assume that anyone who is a virgin, expects to find Mr. Perfect and have a Disney fairytale marriage to Prince Charming is immature and delusional, and must have sexual inhibitions. It makes me wonder what they are hiding.
    Or she comes from a culture that I can't relate to.

    I prefer heterosexual women who revel in sex, are in touch with their own bodies, and know how to please a man.

    I wouldn't object to dating for a while before having sex (3 or 4 months max), in order to learn about each other - decide if we really like each other, are both sincere, and that we can trust each other. I totally understand a woman who doesn't want to get simply used by some guy. But if she doesn't trust me enough to have sex at some point, then I'm out. I won't be locked into a contract with someone who is a crappy lover.

    I place no value on virginity and actually think guys who do are fucked up in the head. A pussy isn't a special flower that gets ruined if it's been used.

    People are entitled to their own beliefs, though.

  • No could not do that.

    sex is something that reinforces the emotional bond between two people.

    without any sexual contact it’s almost just close fiends.

    The other big issue, is imagine going through this, then find out the partner is Asexual, for they girl, sex is painful or they really hate it, for the guy, not being able to maintain an erection, sex painful, not liking it.

    There are a large number of potential issues that could effect the long term relationship.

    a lot of emphasis on that wedding night, in the morning one or both now regretting their decision…

  • I would be fine in a relationship were sex was mostly off the tables assuming I was otherwise into them, however I don’t know how likely I would be to ever get married, and I suspect someone who was "waiting till marriage" would struggle to understand that

  • I would but there would have to be rules I would have to talk to her about it I believe when it can be done and still have tons of fun
    If I really loved her I would tell her yes we can wait
    But I will explain to her that I'm very passionate and I have deep desires to feel and to please
    There would have to be some form of touch passion Romance I would ask her if we could go all the way except for the penetration part
    So let me ask you would you agree to this if you were somebody that wanted to wait until marriage how far would you agree to
    So let's play pretend you and I are dating you asked me if I would wait until marriage I say yes but
    I need physical contact I need mental spiritual form of contact
    So I agree with you if we could do this we can have foreplay we can make out we can masturbate we can get each other off we just cannot penetrate
    So we're making out I blow you over on top of me I sit you up on my hips I grabbed a hold of your hips
    I pull you forward and I slide you back I pull you forward and slow motion and I spied you back as I'm pulling your hips forward I'm also pushing down so now your pussy lips are straddling each side of my cock but no penetration as I'm pulling you forward and sliding you back you're getting wetter and wetter I pull your hair down so it l e a n s you forward so now your pussy straddling my cock and your clit is dragging along the top of it all the way to the head of my cock and then all the way back start grinding your hips harder and deeper so my question is would you allow this to happen because it's no penetration it is a form of sex and would you keep doing that until you came all over me there are all different types of situations like this where I would agree to doing that to wait until marriage if we could do things like this for me it's a total turn-on is a form of intimacy and it's a bonding experience there's also masturbation there's all different types of situations that would enhance and make it well worth waiting for and keeping your girlfriend are the girl a virgin so that's my question to you I would agree to it if you think the girl would agree to this all the above

    • Well yeah you're view but the question involved no sex meaning no masterbation or anything like that

    • Understand that but in order for me to answer your question that's where I had to take it sorry about that

  • No way. If I'm going to be 'driving the same sports car' till death do us part, I'd be a fool to not test drive it.

  • No, because that tells me they don’t understand what life is truly about. And that they are living a brainwashed existence. And that sex with them is going to be boring as fuck!

  • I did but I would not do that again.

  • Oh fuck no!

  • Im too old to be denying necissary pleasures because of vague notions of purity.

  • As someone who doesn't want to marry, probably not, like I'm not too bothered about sex in general, as a virgin, but I don't see marriage as mandatory, as I'm not religious.

  • Yes, I would and I have.

  • I didn't/wouldn't. This is 2021, not 1921!

  • Not a problem, I'm fine waiting a few years

  • Sexual attraction will carry a big part for some people w/ a preferred marriage lifestyle.

  • I would

    Would you play with him and let him play with you?

    • No 😂

    • I understand

  • Very few men are willing to do that today.
    I wouldn't.

  • Yes. I also am waiting for marriage

  • I did it for a few years. I would not do it again.

  • I personally would not. I believe a real relationship requires the physical intimacy from sex. Otherwise it's just a friendship. And then what if it doesn't work out and marriage never happens? Then that was just a lot of time wasted when you could have bonded physically and intimately and had a better chance of making it work. No sex before marriage is too traditional and doesn't make sense to me.

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