Should I be offended that my boyfriend won't cum inside me?

My boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months everything seems to be going great we are in love, sex is great and all that. But he won't cum inside me... he's cum in previous ex girlfriends but with me he's just so careful to pull out. It makes me so jealous.
It may sound strange to want him to cumbinside me without me being on contraception or anything. But we are prepared to take care of a baby if that's the case, as we have discussed this. Should I be offended? Should I bring this up?
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  • You shouldn't be offended (yet), because you don't know the reason. Maybe he has a reasonable answer, and maybe he doesn't. Until you have the answer, you don't know what to do.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I would be offended if I was a girl and my partner would not cum inside of me if I wanted. Especially knowing they did nut with previous partners, so why am I not any safer? But you could ask him, is it because you are not on birth control and he isn't ready yet kind of thing. It'd just be better to know sooner than let it fester into remorse.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I don’t think you should be offended. He isn’t rejecting you personally. He’s just trying to avoid impregnating you. Maybe he’s not completely ready for a baby yet. I mean, you’ve only been together 6 months. Give it some time.

    • Yeah your probably right... I need to give it time. Thanks girl!

    • You’re welcome. Besides…. if you’re wanting a baby that badly, just bide your time and wait. Guys usually get tired of pulling out after a while and will start finishing inside you.

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  • I don't understand your logic. You're saying you want him to give you a creamy for pleasure but are willing to care for a child as if that's something you can do without living a completely different life.

    I would understand if you WANTED his child which is a different conversation one where you actually tell him and if he too wants it he'll knock you up. But just randomly playing with fire is unwise

  • That has to be extremely frustrating, wanting him to explode inside you but being denied that moment of intimacy.

  • You may be "ready" but he's clearly not.

  • Not wanting 18 years of child support.

  • were the girls he came inside of on contraceptives? if so then no. he's just not absolutely sure about being a dad. also, look up the rhythm method. contraception based on timing, works surprisingly well. bring up the whole discussion if you want, but for a while I'd just enjoy time together, unless you're really pushing to have kids.

  • How long have you been together?

  • Sounds like he doesn't want kids yet.

  • U: I'm on birth control
    Also you: I'm pregnant, pay me

  • Are you on birth control? Sounds like you're doing it bareback. Obviously, he doesn't "want" to be a daddy now, so why does this offend you?

    • I guess your right... but in my mind if he came in me, it would assure me that he thinks my kitty is soooo good! I know 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • And no I'm not on birth control

    • You didn't answer the question... are you on birth control? I'm sure he loves your kitty. I don't know where you got the idea that cumming inside you indicates "pussy approval" and pulling out doesn't !! Believe me, it means nothing of the sort !!

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  • You are a retard. He should break up with you and run.

    • Lol why exactly am I retard, sir?

    • Because you’re willing to get knocked up by some dude you’re not married to.

  • I don't think you should be offended he just wants to be careful so you bring get pregnant. If you really want him to start cumming in you I say go on the pill then he might start cumming in you with out any recuppresions.

  • He's smart. He doesn't want a baby now. Get on birth control, then I'm sure he will cum in you.

  • Maybe he wants to wait until you're more established before he does so. Did he do it quickly with his exes?

  • At least you are honest about wanting to get pregnant.

  • No he doesn't want child and not going out that much

  • Nope

    He's being a smart guy. Not a retarded idiot, like @rangers

  • Seems strange to me

  • Sounds like he isn't ready for that potential to be a father

  • It's better if ask him about it

  • tell him fill me up with your shitty cum.

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