My sex buddy told me its my responsability to buy condoms?

He wanted to give me money to buy condoms and I said Im not very confortable with that. I feel awkward. His response was "if you get pregnant dont count on me. Play stupid games and win stupid prizes
We live in a smaller city and he has a prestigious job and doesn't want to be seen buying condoms ( its a conservative comnunity in Ukraine). We are both in our 20s by the way
What should I do now?
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  • It's both of your guys' responsibility so typically I'd say to go buy them but... he honestly sounds like a straight up dick. (pun intended)

    It's fine for him to not want a child but the way that he not only told you it's 100% your responsibility to provide the condoms, but also completely absolved himself of anything to do with a kid if you were to fall pregnant goes to show he's dumb af and treating you even worse than a piece of meat. I'm surprised you're still considering sleeping with this asshat.

    • Im falling for him I guess. He does treat me badly. Like im just an easy girl. He would never date me. I know. :( I guess I should dump him

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's not your responsibility. It's both of you all really. Sex is a team activity where both are affected. If you get pregnant he is affected too. If you guys have an STD, both get affected. So, I understand he is trying to keep a low profile in a small town. That's something you guys should talk about. Like, hey, we are doing this, what are the roles we play in. Who provides the place? Who provides the protection? And what's the plan if a pregnancy occurs? You guys should talk about things like that.

    You guys have to communicate, compromise, and then agree on what the roles are. Apparently, he assumed you would get them due to his job. His assumption is wrong since you don't feel comfortable doing it. There was a lack of communication there.

    If he's that worried about it, he can order condoms online, and there you go, a compromise. No one has to go to the store!

  • Tell him that he gets no pussy until he supplies the condoms and he will become Trojan Maaaan..

    Seriously if that selfish irresponsible sex buddy of yours is putting it all on you to be responsible...

    I joke and say sarcastic shit a lot of times.. this isn't one of those times.

    Be responsible enough to leave his ass alone. He doesn't care for your well being or His because if he said that to you.. then he is saying the same thing to others and who's to say that they aren't irresponsible just like him.

    Always protect yourself. both involved have that responsibility to yourselves and one another..

    • Thanks for MHO 👍🏾

Most Helpful Girl

  • I'd break it off.
    He clearly sounds like a dick, lmao.
    I supply my own birth control, so I expect you to buy your own condoms since you're the one wearing them and know more about what size and brands work best with you.

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  • I would break it off. Putting all the responsibility on you and refusing to have any of it. Nope.

  • Tell him he can purchase them online and have them delivered to him, or you can do that, but if the discussion is about games and prizes. . . he doesn't sound like much of a prize!

  • Tell him to fuck off and find a real man!

  • Tell him to man up and buy some if he wants to have sex!

  • Sounds like it is time to TRADE UP, for a Better guy!! Sounds like this one is a loser!

  • Tf? That guy is an asshole.

  • What you should do now is kick his ass to the side. He is clearly an idiot.

  • Find another sex buddy that has a lot more respect and concern for you.
    He should be lucky he has you as a sex buddy. Let him find another one that does not mind being told what to do and it's your problem if you get pregnant... what a deutsch.
    And you find one that adores you... maybe a real relationship?

  • You should both buy them

  • Find a new guy. He sounds like an asshole

  • find new buddy, your only good to him if you do as he says. eventually it will be do this or that. if he can't do it he can't have any. sucks for him he can grow up or stay out.

  • Tell him you'll be ready for sex with him when he is comfortable buying condoms, or just limit yourselves to oral.

  • can't you buy them online, or buy them and have them delivered?

    • he's the one with the dick and he acts like the one with the pussy, if anything stop giving him pussy and watch him buy his damn condoms

  • oh, darling.. he's a cunt... while it may differ from person to person, a guy surely should not 'expect' a girl to buy condoms for him

  • Don't have sex with that guy. Get out of any relationship you have with him if you can.

  • Get rid of the cheap bastard.

  • he is right. you're the gatekeeper of sex. it's your responsibility.

  • In my country I feel that's it's the guy responsibility to buy the condoms if he going to have sex with you and so you don't get judge or awkward. I would also if it possible for you to get birth control pill you should buy instead of him.

  • It’s really both. Don’t put out if he doesn’t provide and see what happens. Lol

  • Order a ton from Amazon.

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