Who has the higher sex drive in your relationship?

[IronLady6354]

[kaylaS91]

I think I'm more forward with initiating (I'll just turn a kiss into a makeout then hop on top) whereas he'll grab me and just kinda hold me there while he trails kisses/bites all over my body before turning it into more but..
net sum, we're probably pretty even.

[shouldnobetter]

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[Anonymous]

I do, and have in every relationship I've been in.

The poll results are funny. Women like to say they have a higher sex drive but science has repeatedly proven they don't.

"Study after study shows that men's sex drives are not only stronger than women's, but much more straightforward. The sources of women's libidos, by contrast, are much harder to pin down."

https://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare

[Izzyboom]

In 'your' relationship. People are different dude. What about lesbians or gay guys. Their relationships differ. Read the prompt before boasting like your a professor.

[Opinion Owner]

@Izzyboom What about lesbians or gays? They don't factor into anything I wrote here. Yes, people are different, but that is entirely beside the point of my comment. The poll results show 65% of straight females say they have the higher sex drive in their heterosexual relationships, which science shows to be very unlikely. It's something I see here on GAG all the time. I just find it a little comical. I'm no professor, but I think the word you were looking for in your last sentence is 'you're', not 'your'. You're welcome.

[Anonymous]

It really depends on your age... on who now has the higher sex drive in our relationship... Because, my wife has gone batshit crazy with her sudden constant need for sexual satisfaction... I'm like being put through the ringer here... and can she make me feel so damn guilty about not being able to meet her needs! Lord, please have mercy on my poor soul... I have no clue where this is coming from... but my private parts need a rest now and then!

[Vivian7k]

I think I'm more forward with initiating (I'll just turn a kiss into a makeout then hop on top) whereas he'll grab me and just kinda hold me there while he trails kisses/bites all over my body before turning it into more but..
net sum, we're probably pretty even.

[pickedcrisps]

Including he'll grab you from behind did you mean, also? 🤔

[kyleelyn199723]

Definitely my man, but I try to match it lol

[loves2learn]

Straight relationship and we are about the same. His was higher for years.

[IronLady6354]

What made it more even for you two?

[loves2learn]

My sex drive went up about 6 months ago after we worked through some issues we’d had.

[IronLady6354]

Was it anything you did or he did? Or was it just something that happened?

[loves2learn]

It was him. But he didn’t realize how much it bothered me because for a long time I didn’t feel safe enough to tell him.

[IronLady6354]

What was it that he changed?

[loves2learn]

He watches his temper and steps away if he feels like he wants to yell. He makes an effort not to gaslight me. And he validates my emotions if something he does is hurtful to me.

[Happytime1986]

That hand grabbing picture is often how I feel or am when I explode. This was a very good point made.

[OlderAndWiser]

I didn't vote because I am in a heterosexual relationship and my partner and I are evenly matched. We usually have sex once or twice every day and we are both happy with that frequency.

[ohshee]

Well I'm going to have to be honest it's going to be me because it seems like I'm the only one here is my relationship LMAO no I'm single so yep I'll take that title damn I need a life I really need to change this

[dezzman98]

I (the male in a heterosexual relationship) have a much higher sex drive than my partner does

[livin_hi_808]

As far as vocalizing it I do but she's a filthy fuckin freak who can't be surprised cuz she's done most of it or she'll try it! Always down to nut even when angry at me

[hamzaelll]

She doesn’t want to do anything other than kissing, and whenever i bring the topic she stops talking to me and accuse me of being disrespectful. I honestly don’t think i can put up with her anymore.

[Apple1996]

My sex drive is much higher than my husband's

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Pretty much me but she’s not too far from it yo

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Too*

[DarkLillysub]

Yeah, I do, but we have an open relationship where I can get my needs from others as well as him.

[pickedcrisps]

I would prefer a relationship where we were both on equal footing. Me and my girlfriend or my and my wife. If I had either.

Being out of balance would suck so much.

[pickedcrisps]

@IronLady6354 and I love that photo in the top of your question. I find that an awesome move during sex. Hand scrunching bed sheets 😋😋😋😋🥳

[Robert_]

With my current relationship status it is my right hand over the left hand.

[Vivian7k]

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[0112358]

The person on gag reading the sexuality questions has the higher drive than the partner not on GaG, more often then not.

[Drumlin2001]

Me. I would suspect in most straight relationships the man will have the higher sex drive

[Vivian7k]

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[Drumlin2001]

No thanks

[libsaretards]

I am single now, but both my exes had a higher sex drive than I do.

[shouldnobetter]

Was that part of the reason for the EX's?

[libsaretards]

@shouldnobetter No. The first one was turned against me by her family. The second one was a crazy psycho who loved to lie and cheat while I was deployed so I dumped her ass.

[shouldnobetter]

Sorry

[exitseven]

I think mine is the higher but it varies sometimes.

[invalid1]

I really got lost in the vote description 😂 still voted randomly 😂

[Vivian7k]

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[askaway121]

Of im having sex with my girlfriend, its her. If I'm having sex with another male, its him

[ARealHonestHuman]

My addiction to porn hits hard so id say myself and my right hand. I've been single for a while so my strong desires to squeeze boobs n rough fuck a girl to sleep is high and it makes me thinks a lot.

[Phoenix98]

Hmm I've always had a higher sex drive then my partners.

[Vivian7k]

cool. Inbox me