What is your age limit to date someone? Are you ok that your parents marry/date someone who is younger than you /is same age as you?

[hi_it_is_me123]

To be honest it is disgusting to me since the relationship will be superficial and materialistic. The chance is very low that a hot young person will be seriously interested in the boomer personality and sagging balls/tits of the middle age person aka of a grandpa/grandma. I also will never believe that a middleage person is seriously interested in the personality of the young person. It is so obvious that he/she wants them for their youth/looks.
The divorce rate is high for couples with huge age gap for a reason. What annoys me most is, that these old groomers complain that their way younger partners are golddiggers. I mean what did you expect? They endure your saggy balls and your boomer personality for your money. Nobody would do thst shit for free. After watching bunch of ugly manipulative middleage men marrying eastern Asians or poor filipinos who left these idiots after getting financially independent i had to ask this question. 😃😂😂


"A five-year age gap statistically means you’re 18% more likely to divorce (versus just 3% with a 1-year age difference), and that rate rises to 39% for a 10-year age difference and 95% for a 20-year age gap."
Source:https://www. marketwatch. com/story/the-bigger-the-age-gap-the-shorter-the-marriage-2014-11-11

“The difference in the average age at first marriage between men and women for those who married in 2008 was 1.4 years,” says Statistics Canada media relations official, Edelweiss D’Andrea.
What’s more, the widespread belief that many older men are taking much younger women as spouses or partners is largely incorrect."
Source: vancouversun.com/.../




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[InventorofWarp]

Frankly just from reading you're incredibly judgmental, immature and undeveloped and just because two people are together and have over 5 years between them means nothing nor does it have any bearing on the likelihood of success within the relationship. Fucking horrible thing to say to judge people on and just assume all middle-aged people dating younger partners are "saggy tits/balding/etc." or the younger partners are just there for "superficial" or "materialistic" reasons. Love can form between people of all ages, backgrounds and characters and you have no fuckin' right to judge any of it. Who the fuck are you that you're so perfect with your relationship that you get to judge people like that and make generalizations about something you obviously know nothing about?
I imagine you're single or soon will be since someone with such a closed-off mindset can't reliably sustain something. I recommend you be a lot more accepting and open to understanding others in the future.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Keep being delusional. It is proven that human brain is developing till in the mid 20s which affect your personality. I also can't help you if you can't read, since you are the underdeveloped one. Where tf i talk about 5 years age gap, idiot? I am talking about people who date someone who could be their parent, fool. Statistics, studies and even evolution biologys prove my points. Like it or not, moron. I can judge who tf i want. Who tf are you to tell how i should think. Age is not just a number. What kind pedo argument is that

[hi_it_is_me123]

I also did not say ALL

[hi_it_is_me123]

5 years age gap is not much. 1-5 years age gape is very common

[hi_it_is_me123]

Due to brain development, maturity level it is difficult for a early 20 something to have meaningful relationship with a middleage person

[InventorofWarp]

You literally provided an example that states that people have a high chance of divorce after a 5-year age ga- You know what? Fuck it, you're not worth my time. I'm ignoring the rest of these. Good day, ma'am.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Okk fuck off then. You are also not worth my time.

[Anonymous]

My husband is actually 16 years younger than me and we've got a great relationship. I'm not going to try to change your mind (I don't think I could anyways), but I will throw my 2 cents in.
Firstly, I didn't 'groom' him. In fact, he was the one who first tried flirting/initiating a relationship. It actually took a while for him to convince me to give him a real try because I was concerned about the age gap (at first anyways). He's not just interested in me for my money. In fact, he actually makes more money than I do. Although I do think he's super sexy and got a killer body I can 100% say that his looks are not the primary reason why I ended up with him. Despite the age gap I've been able to connect to him extremely well and we understand each other on a deeply personal level. Moreover, since he's very mature for his age (and I'm a bit immature TBH) our maturity levels are very compatible. It may not be common for such a connection to happen in such an age gap relationship, but it did happen with us. Also, he was the one who tried to initiate sex to begin with. I made him wait for 3 months until I was ready for sex. Even now he wants sex a little more often then I do. I can also confidently say he is very interested in me sexually and still thinks I look very good naked (despite being older)
I know that it may be unconventional, but age gap relationships work out really well in some cases. My marriage is proof of that

[hi_it_is_me123]

I am happy for you. The whole post is actually a reaction on old men who only young women

[hi_it_is_me123]

I actually did not want to incke older women.

[Opinion Owner]

Why is the whole "old man-young woman" variant worse than the "older woman-young man" variant? I'm curious because (from my experience) the good majority of people feel the reverse (older man-younger woman is OK but older woman-younger man is bad)

[hi_it_is_me123]

Traditionally men marry much younger women and so some people think it is ok. I have been on gag for a long time and i realized many guys are kinda obsessed with women's youth while women dont care much about age. So it is always suspicious for me to see old men dating young women

[hi_it_is_me123]

" (from my experience) the good majority of people feel the reverse (older man-younger woman is OK but older woman-younger man is bad)"- what kind of experience do you had? Do people bully you? What kind of age gap do you mean? I mean what do you mean older men younger women? How much older? Do the people in your experience are also ok with much older guy and much younger woman?

[Opinion Owner]

I mean age gaps comparable to the one I have (13-18 year age gap). I guess I should say that it's not like I don't notice the older man-younger woman variants don't get any hate, but I do think that older women-younger men get a lot more. I've had people tell me that I'm a cougar and he's a gold digger (both untrue. He pursued me initially and he also actually makes more than me). They've told me he'll get tired of me and go to another girl whose younger. For a long while people told me I was wrong to deny him the joys of being a father (however, I've had 2 kids with him so they stopped after that. In fact, I think the fact I was getting younger sperm made it much easier for me to get pregnant with healthy kids than if the sperm had been from a guy my age or older). I've had people this is just a "phase" we're going through (although that's happened a lot less since we've been together for several years now). At the beginning his parents really hated it (although I think that was just mostly because they were worried he wouldn't give them grandkids. once I got pregnant they were pretty OK with me). I've also had plenty of people tell me that it's just plain weird.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Tf. They are so rude. I hope you defended yourself and insult them back

[Opinion Owner]

No. Over time I've learned to just brush it past me. Besides, I think a good amount of them (lots of them single women my age) are just jealous I got a sexy younger guy. I make sure to give him a long smooch where they can see it! haha

[hi_it_is_me123]

Do they just come to you and insult you?

[hi_it_is_me123]

I would show them my middle finger.

[Opinion Owner]

Sometimes, but most of the time no. Oftentimes it's women I work with or that I've met elsewhere. There are also guys who have issue with it too, but I find that it's not as common there.

[Opinion Owner]

I think when I give a big, long, sexy smooch to my husband in front of them that's even more of a 'slap in the face' than a middle finger. Haha

[hi_it_is_me123]

Yes haha but would they attack you if you show them your middle finger or insult backSo they are all ok if the genders are reversed? Man i really want to punch alm of them

[hi_it_is_me123]

Why do other men have issues with it? Wtf. None of their business

[Opinion Owner]

That's not the case for all of them, but it is for quite a few of them (at least in my experience). If you're going to be in a major age gap relationship you've got to learn to deal with all the haters that go along with it. It's apart of the territory. It shouldn't be, but it is (especially if you're in the older woman-younger man type) I've learned to just troll them back (again, by giving my husband a long, sexy smooch right in front of them. haha)

[Opinion Owner]

The men who have issue with it don't usually outwardly say anything. They usually just cringe or whatever. It's usually the women who say stuff (at least from my experience)

[Opinion Owner]

There's also a lot more women then men that don't like it (at least from what I can tell)

[hi_it_is_me123]

If the genders were reversed, would they be ok?

[hi_it_is_me123]

I think you live in a very conservative place

[Opinion Owner]

Some would, some wouldn't. I'm not sure exactly what the split would be, but I think it would be somewhere around 50-50 (give or take)

[Opinion Owner]

I'm wondering, why do you think an older man-younger woman age gap is so much worse than an older woman-younger man age gap? What makes the older man-younger woman age gap so much worse and/or the older woman-younger man gap so much better?

[DonRollins]

that sounds like you just want to bash men for liking younger girls haha well I have not aged a day since 18 and if I wanted I could still sleep with 16 years olds if I could stomach speaking to them hahaha

[hi_it_is_me123]

Ignore this disgusting hepebhile bastard. He admit that he had sex with 15 years old while he was an adult. He lives in switzerland and the age of consent is 16. So he could be arrested for statutory rape.

[Anonymous]

I'm (happily) dating someone old enough to be my dad (but still younger than my dad) so if my parents ever dated someone around my age I couldn't be too upset about it.

[DaveToo]

Hey, Have you been peeking in my shower? My balls only sag a little bit and my beer gut isn't from beer!

[hi_it_is_me123]

My grandma is the same age as you

[DaveToo]

Give my regards to another old far... mer.

[Robert_]

The add seven, divide by two rule works for me.

[DonRollins]

this bro code thing you people invented is stupid. Keep your collectivist bullshit away from me. I say I won't date younger than 17 and I wonder date older than 4 years older than me but I would never expect anyone to do the same. It's possible I marry someone 15 years old maybe.

[bubbakong2006]

Me and my lady are 19 years apart she’s the younger one and it just happened we have been together for 16 years now and the sex has been awsome we both enjoy it and get along well

[Feelicks]

18/ early 40s

Chemistry, and looks come first, otherwise age is just a number.

[Joshua0213]

As long as they're attractive, age doesn't matter

[imbeingmyself]

I prefere someone who is 1-2 years older or younger

[Anonymous]

Around my age

[Opinion Owner]

You didn't even talked about how older partner mean higher chance of abuse and you would be a young widow

[hi_it_is_me123]

You are right

[Anonymous]

At my age 10 years younger would be no big deal since they would not be that young themselves and most likely interested in me

[hi_it_is_me123]

Makes sense

[Opinion Owner]

I get along better with younger anyway but I understand your points so no worries