For those with partners, does your partner satisfy all of your kinks? Is there anything that’s missing?

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  • I don't have a partner at the moment, but usually when I do they do not satisfy all my kinks, I have yet to find that person.

    An easy one to identify would be novelty/variety, in that I get off on having a new lover, a stranger, discovery. So pretty much by definition anyone I've been with for more than a couple months isn't qualifying for that anymore. The one caveat is if she's one of those who really likes role-play and/or is a good actress, who likes to dress in different outfits, etc. Like a cosplayer or something, but honestly I haven't had too many lovers that fit that description, though I'd be interested.

    For the rest of the kinks, I have a lot of variety so it would be hard for any one person to fill all those roles and I'm not asking for that anyway. I just like to get to know who my lover is and enjoy her for that. Play to her strengths, so to speak. For instance, if she doesn't like giving head, nbd. If she wants to wake up and drink my morning urine, then suck me off every day, also nbd.

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  • I like your nom-d-plume, but that information is held in confidence.

    One does NOT discard 4/5ths a Confection just because it's shy a slice!
    And, to hold One's relationship in ransom to compel them to One's missing fetish
    is beyond unkind and being a bore. Negotiate!<3 ;)

Most Helpful Girls

  • No, but in all fairness there are some she never will be able to either. It's fine. I'm not losing sleep over it.

    • Good answer I like that 😉

  • Yes he does. Absolutely
    I don't even think he's real.

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  • Nope.
    I pretty much satisfy my kinks that can be achieved in my own solo manner.

    • like what

    • PM me if you want. I'll tell you about it there.

  • No, there are things I keep to myself, like piss play and all of that. As another user said above, too much to ask.

    • Why not ask?

    • She's too nice and normal, she's not used to those kind of things. I wouldn't like her to see me any different to how she sees me now, like a weirdo or something.

  • Yeah stuff is missing, she dont even want me to cum in her mouth yet

  • My last partner (s) did not satisfy all my kinks; So I do without.
    I hope to find a partner that will be as kinky and wild as I am, yet still enjoy cuddling and all that.
    Kink can be a lot of fun if you like to explore sex.

  • Some but not all. I love her but if I were single I would search nationwide for a kinkier partner.

  • If she is my partner then the only way she is going to be my partner is she is going to be amazing in bed and have a great heart and stay loyal to me , and I will teach her what I like to do in bed to fulfill my kinks , if I needed someone else to fulfill my kinks then I wouldn’t be in a relationship with that girl is the way I look at it , what would be the point of committing to someone. You need someone else to fulfill you?

  • No, my partner doesn't satisfy all of my kinks. Some things will remain a fantasy.

    • like what?

  • He does

  • She liked me eating her out on New Years Eve, but would not suck me off or get me hard so we could fuck.

  • Nope. Had a girlfriend who came close before I got married, but my wife is decidedly vanilla

  • It’s surprising how compatible she and I are given that we never discussed it before having sex.

  • When I do have a partner they mostly do. I like giving oral more then they want to. Lol

    • That's great What do you like to be done with you?

  • Yea im missing just one very important thing

  • No! Not at all, but i actually enjoy having a rich fantasy life. 😝

  • Nothing missing.
    We wear each other out physically and mentally with just about every session.

  • I’m not comfortable sharing all my kinks with my partner unfortunately

    • Why is that?

    • I think they’re somewhat abnormal. I’d tell you what they were if I could go anonymous. Either that or I could pm you

    • Sure PM me

  • I am currently single but I can't say I was happy about the sexual life I had with my ex, which was online. We had a one year difference and I felt I was back in my teen days, dealing with an insecure teen girl.

    The worst part is that we never actually get to know each other. You can't accurately know someone online. It doesn't matter how many videocalls you do.

  • My partner satisfies all my kinks. I reciprocate hers.

  • I just have a friend with bens now, but she does anything… and historicity I’ve had good luck there too. So I’d say yeah

  • My partner only exists in my head, so she does whatever I tell her.

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