My dad checks me out?

Question

Please, please, PLEASE express your honest opinion on the topic. Whatever it may be, I’d love to hear it cause this thing’s been driving me crazy for ages.

My father is, in my opinion, a pervert. He checks women out in front of me/ my mum, he watches tons of porn (including teen porn, please don’t ask how I found out) and talks to me about how my friends’ breasts/ butts look good whenever they wear tight clothes.

But it doesn’t stop there. Every time I wear a nice skirt or a well-fitting dress, he checks me out. Literally. He stares at me with wide eyes, from the bottom to the top of my body and gasps. Then he goes like “whoa” and keeps staring at my f@cking breasts/ butt.
I always react in a very bad way when he does that. I sigh, yell at him, try to cover myself, run over my room to wear loose jackets, plead him to stop. He doesn’t, though. He enjoys making me feel like sh*t and keeps making remarks like “you’re hot/very beautiful today” etc etc.

It’s making me uncomfortable. I’ve told him a trillion times but he won’t stop. My mother yells at me for my behavior towards him and calls me problematic, bitchy and bad mannered. A few minutes ago she made a scene and said that I should be ashamed and that he’s only complimenting me.

Thankfully, I’m going to move out in October for university so I will no longer have to tolerate this whole thing. But I’d really like to hear what you guys have to say. Do you think I am problematic or crazy? Am I wrong for hating the way my dad checks me out? Is it normal for dads to react like that?

JennBITx · Accepted Answer

Is this your biological father? That needs to stop. See if you can stay at a friends mostly till you move out

Hannah_le · Accepted Answer

Its not normal umm... Ok that’s enough reading for me today 😂.

Iron_Man · Accepted Answer

That’s the best thing that you can do is move out but before that tell them all your feelings about it

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

What kind of Brooklyn bullshit is this?

Wgatap999 · Answer

Honestly your dad I hate to say it is a piece of shit pervert. I would have definitely if I was you I would have reported him immediately if my mom isn't believing me I would have reported him. The fact that he is making comments about your friends boobs and body and what they wear is incredibly inappropriate and very disturbing. You're definitely not crazy I'm very sorry that you've had to go through this and experience this especially from your own father who is supposed to protect you. A father's supposed to love on you and be there for you and support you and everything you do not sit there and tear you down and be a pervert. I'm very sorry you had to go through this growing up and I hope that getting out of the house if you're not going to report it will help.