Guys, translate his intentions?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been texting with a guy (an old acquaintance) for about 6 months now. He is married (happily, it seems, he mentions his wife in positive ways sometimes and they seem good) with kids. Recently he has started (very slowly and always letting me know i can tell him if I feel uncomfortable) to ask a lot of questions about sex, especially my masturbation habits, my turn ons, and he shares his own. We started sending some half-clothed photos to each other. He also shows a lot of care for my life in general and I like him so much. We don’t actually sext…but we tell each other when we’ve masturbated, when we are horny, and other details about these things. It’s never about the two of us together. Never. We do admit to each other that the other one is hot and sexy and all those things. We say we are both curious and sex is a favorite topic for both of us. What might his intentions be? He mentions long term goals with his wife, wants us to double date sometime, but then we have this sort of secretive piece to our relationship too. What do I make of this?

[FunkyMonkee]

I WAS gonna say, he might want a 3-way but, according to you, he's not interested in fucking you.
I used to be close friends with a married girl, in fact, ALL of my women were married, at the time but, with this one girl, it was never about sex. I'm not so sure it would've ever been and, now, I have no way of finding out because she died about 15 years ago! Anyway, we've been to each others' house a few time and she was naked in front of me (and vice versa, I think) at my house but never at hers, even though she even took me up to her bedroom! I'm pretty sure she let me feel her DDD's a time or two but, other than that, we never touched sexually. One night, we were on the phone and she was Jilling off and asked me to talk dirty to her to make her cum. I did. Anyway, with all that, there was NEVER any sex between us and the most I EVER got was a hug every time one of us was leaving to go home.
Anyway, maybe, like me, he's just easy to talk sex with. Sounds like you are, too. My best friend and I used to sit up until 3:00 a. m. chatting online about sex and other stuff almost every night but she's VERY timid and was already seeing another guy and not at all interested sexually in me!! Nor I, her! It's just that we could talk about EVERYTHING and ANYTHING, and USUALLY DID!!

[Nikki6t6]

He’s sizing you up and just looking for some fun on the side. He has no intention of leaving his wife for you but is enjoying the flirtatious nature of your conversations.

Unbeknown to his wife, he probably does this every free chance he gets. If their relationship isn’t already strained he’s doing this with you on the sneak. Ie. - telling his wife he has to work late or sneaking off to watch t. v. when she’s in bed.

I can almost guarantee you you’re not the only one he’s having these conversations with.

Ultimately his tactic is to play Mr. Nice guy… not rushing you and getting you to take the bait. Once the sexting begins he’s hoping to get you vested enough that eventually you’ll meet up for a hookup.

Once he gets what he wants he’ll do his best shuffle and play to keep the sex going and just close enough but with no actual intentions of being with you.

[MTC29]

He's looking for entertainment and he found you. There's no future with a married man, but at your stated age, you already know that.

If you want to provide him with a source of material to jackoff to, that's your business.

[ChrisMaster69]

He’s playing you as a bit of risky side fun.

he is going for having his cake and eating it.

You are at an age, where you should be able to work this out.

are you in a relationship?

if so then you are both pretty much risking relationships.

He definitely is risking his relationship with his wife.

Chances are he will like keeping you were you are to relive his bored moment.

[Avicenna]

He'd like some side action

[humanearth]

I think he wants a
sexual thrill ride with you and is trying think of way he can without ruining his marriage.

See it all started being fun talk and killing time. But somewhere in all the talking, you both crossed that line.

I also see you wanting a sexual thrill ride with him to. See I think you both want it to happen

[Iron_Man]

That’s all real bad leave it alone and don’t commit adultery he is a married man

[Twalli]

He likes talking about sexual topics with a person he isn't married to.

[Surely]

Tread lightly. Seems like the masturbation fantasy’s are becoming more real.
Maybe looking for a threesome?

[888theGreat]

I think he wants to go to Hell and you too. Married men are off limits and you are going to ruin his marriage.

[Anonymous]

bitch are you blind or something? he's trying to have sex with you and possibly with you and his wife at the same time in a threesome. he's clearly cheating on his wife with you