I don't want my boyfriend to watch porn but I should be allowed to watch porn. Is that unfair?

[JaneDoe190]

I don't want my boyfriend to watch porn. Period. I have told him that. I don't want him looking at other women.
However I like watching lesbian porn. I only like watching looking at women. I never watch porn with a guy. So I should be allowed to watch porn with women only. There's nothing wrong with that.
But he insists that's not fair. How could I explain to him that's unreasonable. I am a straight girl dating a guy. If I watch porn with women then there's nothing wrong with that because they are women.
He said then what if he watched porn with men? I told him that would be gay.

[Anonymous]

"That would be gay", but you're straight for watching lesbian? That's not gay?
But yes it's unfair because you're attaching some kind of connection to it that just isn't there. Like, he's not cheating and going out and having sex with these women, he's just watching. And this I think women have a hard time relating to, it "means" nothing. It's entertainment, period, nothing else. Like lesbian porn is for you. Why does the sex of the person change it? It doesn't, just in your mind for some reason.

[ProCoffeeAntiSleep]

This sounds like a kink thing, which if it is then thats fine, but it doesn’t sound like he’s on the same page.

To be clear, not kink shaming, I 100% get it and can honestly see how thats kind of hot. But when you introduce those kind of dynamics into a relationship you need to be open and honest about what and why

[Tamera952]

HAHAhhahahHAHHAHAHHAhhhahahahah !!! LMAO !!! Ohhhh honeyyyyyyyy...
Good LUCK with that one... Trying to control or interfere with what your boyfriend watches (porn) is a loosing prospect & a fools errand for you. The sooner you realize that it has nothing to do with you, and that you'll NEVER NEVER NEVER E-V-E-R ever, EVER be able to influence or control that -- NOR SHOULD YOU EVEN TRY !!! (you'll look stupid & push him away & make it one ore 'thing' he hides from you, if not dumps you).

[Little_Bumblebee]

Yeah, it's very unfair. And double standard.

The LEAST he should be allowed to look at gay porn.
But saying he cannot look at porn is bad enough, saying he cannot, and then you doing so yourself... Girl...

[Starrisunset]

Honestly, I don't think it's fair. Even if you are just looking at women. It's still porn and it's still doing something for you. He should be allowed to do the same things you do.

[hellionthesagereborn]

Can't tell if your really really stupid or a really really bad troll.

[artsygirl457]

why not share porn? what you watch? yeah its unfair otherwise

[BabyGirlRobin]

This is actually really funny. Is this a troll question?

[Levi4444]

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[TommyMountainFigure]

I don't understand why he would insist 'it's unfair!' In fact, I don't understand why he would even speak to you at all!

[AndyOh]

Wow, are you biased and one sided.
I guess a bunch of women watching lesbian sex is not Gay, and a bunch of guys watching man to man sex is Gay?
Or, you don't want him looking at ANY other woman, but it is okay if you watch naked women?
I see some serious insecurity issues now and later in life, also you hen-pecking him about any woman he ever even glances at, including the waitress for the check!

[Mofunfour20]

Hypocritical if you ask me. you're attracted to lesbianism yet he is wrong for watching straight sex. At least he isn't claiming to be something he isn't like you, obviously bisexual. I wouldn't be attracted to a woman that likes other women because i dont want to compete with women too, wtf? Most guys wouldn't feel respected while getting lied to, sucks for your boyfriend. Id break up with you asap if it were me.

[MotorcycleMan]

Yes, it's unfair.
It's unfair that you expect him not to watch porn at all.
It's also unfair that you think it's OK for you, but not him. I don't think gender even matters here.

[wankiam]

this is hilarious... besides you could watch porn together

[ItsTheNephilim]

You're ridiculous.

[Bricealan]

I would not want to watch porn with another guy, as that to me, would seem to be gay. I don't want to sit with another guy, who has a hard-on, and is probably jacking-off, with me sitting next to him jacking off.
That would seem gay to me. It has never happened to me, so I don't really know how it would feel. I am assuming that if you watch porn with a girl you are both masturbating? I have see video of one girl watching another masturbate, and it was hot to me.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Amazing. A troll and a catfish 😂.

[JaneDoe190]

Really? what's wrong with what I said? nothing? exactly.

[justlookin69]

Everything you said is wrong!

[Gwenhwyfar]

Wow. Everyone else seems to think this is a real girl and a real question. Hypothetically, assuming they’re right, it’s still extremely unfair and I would never agree to that as her boyfriend. I could go into more detail, but I’m still convinced this is a troll question by the guy who thinks all women are bi.

[jon28805]

I totally agree with you. This is a troll question.

[NathanDavis]

@gwenhwyfar lmfao... you're right, it's the same dude. he sure likes to rephrase his same question, every time but this account is his most elaborate effort yet, "to make all women bi"... lmao

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

You sound like a control freak and a hypocrite.

[justlookin69]

OMG! You’re a stupid one, huh? You’re selfish AF! I’m surprised he’s still with you. No way in hell I’ll allow my girl to tell me what I can and cannot watch. Not only do I agree with your man, he should probably leave you too.

[Tamera952]

WELL said!

[rcljr]

What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

[Pj1981]

Yes it absolutely is unfair

[Andres77]

I think it's bs.
Let him watch.
If you're trying to control him... he's gonna bolt.
If you don't like it you can always leave because you feel like he's disrespecting your wishes.

[pleasestopthis]

Yes it makes you hypocritical and unfair. Grow up

[soe11]

Best answer is you both watch together every thing and any thing.