Is it racist for white men to refuse to date a white woman just because she dated black guys before?

#Racist against whom exactly?

I don't think so, as someone who had been with white girls like that, I can tell you that a white guy who dates these kind of girls:

#1 Will hear lots of mean things in his social circle. Things like "she's a BBC S-word," "she's with him for money/stability," "she has a fetish" etc.

#2 Unfortunately, machismo is very prevalent among black people and he'll be mocked by black guys. "You're taking our sloppy seconds!"

#3 In addition, it'd undermine his trust in his own girlfriend. White women have the same issue with boyfriends who have a fetish for Asian women.

Just see the shit Pasha The Boss is going through because he married the famous p*rn actress Riley Reid. Black guys and white women are sending him so much hatred like this
Is it racist for white men to refuse to date a white woman just because she dated black guys before?
I don't think any woman is worth you having to face such a humiliation to be with her.
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Lots of butthurt people trying to shame me. Lol lol lol If I get single again, should I ask for your consent before I date any girl or can I just choose a girl according to my dating standards?
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  • Nope. Racism is the belief that race accounts for differences in human character or ability and that a particular race is superior to others. So if someone said "Black people are all criminals. Their savage behavior prevents them from living in a civilization with normal human beings. They are an inferior animal to the White race and should be segregated like monkey's in a zoo away from our population so that everyone can live in harmony" then that would be pretty racist. No one has the obligation to date anyone. Judging a person and then rejecting them because of their behavior patterns is a judgment on an individual not on their race. You aren't classifying her behavior as an attribute of her race and stating everyone in her race is the same. You aren't claiming that your race is superior to her race. You are simply declining to pursue a relationship with an individual that behaves in an unattractive way.

    • Most logical answer so far.

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  • Yes. It doesn't matter if her exes are black, white or green with yellow stripes.

    If you're refusing to date her because she previously dated a black guy it's you who is a racist fuckwit. And you know nothing about human biology. Pornography has painted the idea of "BBC". The average male homosapiens is not porn proportions. If he was the female population would actually reject them long term because the average female homosapiens only has a certain depth to her cervix and longer than that is physically painful.

    • I don't believe in the concept of race, so you're talking to yourself about racial stereotypes and porn-based stereotypes. That said, I'm still unwilling to date a white woman who has a preference for a skin color different from mine. It's about preferences.

    • My wife is ethnically different to me. You asked a question about if it's racist to refuse to date someone simply because their previous partner was of a different race. It is. Absolutely. Purely. Racist. You're judging her for having had a relationship with a member of the species homosapiens who had a different colour skin to you. That attitude stinks of racism, not "preference". I met my wife online. She had no profile picture. We chatted, fell in love and I knew I wanted to grow old with her before I had a clue what she looked like. I proposed on our first date - the day we met in real life. All I saw, and all I see now is the woman I love. I've had people make racist comments to me. When we've been out together we've had people literally throw stones at us for no reason other than we are ethnically different ancestrally. Funny how truly racist pigs like you never have the balls to ask your questions unless you're "anonymous". Like every racist pug I've met, you're a cowardly piece of shit.

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  • Yes it is generally. The implication is that she is dirty and inferior for being with someone they consider dirty and inferior. If it’s a case where the guy is afraid of the response others will have, then it’s just out of weakness. It’s too bad people just can’t get past race.

    • Are you speaking as a white woman?

    • I’m bi-racial….. if that’s relevant to the conversation here.

    • I don't see black people as inferior or anything like that. You're assuming it probably because you're too much into politics. I just have no interest in dating a white woman who prefers black men, or has a fetish for, or anything like that. In regards to "weakness," you're demanding others what you can't do yourself. Let's imagine that you met a guy, started dating him, and found out that he's a former racist and people don't like him. Would you be with him despite all the negative comments you'll hear from people around you? According to your silly "principles," you're weak if you don't.

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  • This is fucked up. We all date individuals not races. If your friends can only think of people as members of their race and judge them accordingly yes they're definitely racist. Date who you want and get friends that don't suck.

    • If there's something I new is that colorblindness is not a thing anymore, if it had ever been so.

    • I knew*

    • Of course it never was but your premise is still bullshit. I've dated four races, do I have four fetishes?

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  • Yes, it is. Next question!

    • Why do you think so?

    • Think about it. A woman is being rejected by a white man simply because at some point in her past she dated someone who was black. If that's not racism, I don't know what is.

    • Oh, c'mon? Racism against white women? I'm white too, dear heart. I don't hate myself.

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  • Whatever works for you I guess. This is a very personal matter.

    • This is a simple but smart and realistic answer. Thank you!

    • You are welcome.

  • Uhm. . . of course it is racist.

    That shit is insane.

    Why are you hanging around folks who have insane crazy racist views? Sloppy seconds? Dude, what some "Black" incel says to you while he is jacking off the porn isn't important.

    • I heard from some people around me that an ex of mine, at the time we were still together, that she wanted me just for financial security. And then we had a very problematic relationship filled with mutual hatred, I'm in no rush to find another girl like her and the two girls I dated after our breakup were much better than her.

    • Yeah, I think you are the same dude who has been posting this drivel for years. Man, get a prostitute. I think once you have sex a few times, it won't feature so prominently when you think about dating. You will think more about compatibility and intimacy.

    • Same dude? Have I ever talked to you before? I'd remember of someone so condescending and dumb like you for sure. But I don't.

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  • I wouldn’t just flat out call them racist just so quickly but it’s not a good start. I usually try to find out what in particular about them white women having a black man as a previous partner makes them view white women undesirable immediately.


    It’s not a good look but I’m willing to at least hear your opinions out before I develop an opinion myself, like I said , it’s not a good start but I believe in redemption.

    • Quite a few black guys would tell me that I'd be taking their sloppy seconds. I just wanna make them sure that I'm not intetested in doing so. It's a win-win case scenario.

    • Any toxic ex boyfriend/ partner of a girl will tell that to the new guy to get in his head and make him not want the girl regardless of the race. You’re making him/ them win by letting it affect you.

    • They can take their "win." I can find a girl that doesn't come to my life with such a baggage, so I can take such L. Before I love any woman, I love myself.

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  • I’d say yea it kinda is also that Riley Reid thing isn’t because she was with black guys it’s because she’s a pornstar in general. Both her and Lana Rhodes are pretty much internet celebrities and of course they’ll get trolled their profession makes them the most easy people in the world to make fun of.

  • Yeah, pretty much.
    To Hell with racist insults. Why would you choose to live your life around what idiots like that think?

    • As I said before, before I love any woman I love myself. I'm not going to go through unnecessary shit just to be with a woman if I can find a better one any time.

  • Yes, it's racist, and it's also silly.

    Your points:

    1 & 2. Your social circle is a bunch of assholes. Find a better group to hang with.
    3. How insecure is he?

    • Yeah, yeah, there are some toxic people in my social circle. On the other hand, I've met better women after that breakup. One of them is one of hottest girls in my area and the another (my current girlfriend) is also hot and trusts me. I guess being insecure pays off really well.

  • I wouldn’t consider it racist, everyone has their own preferences on what they like and what they are into and what they aren’t into , Preferences don’t make anyone racist , I know girls that only date guys with beards , does that make them racist cuz they don’t date guys that are shaved? As for me I date any girl that I feel attracted to no matter what race she is but there are a lot of people only date within their race , that doesn’t make them racist that’s just their preferences , so a white guy not dating a white girl that has been with black guys is probably because he is only into girls that date the same race like he does. There are plenty of black guys that only date black girls so does that make them racist? People are dumb when it comes to racism comments when it has nothing to do with racism what so ever. Most people have their own preferences on what they are into.

    • Great comment.

  • Yeah, pretty much. Unless it's actually because he feels he might be inadaquit, now. Like they say, once you go black, you never go back. How could his littlle pink worm compete after you've had a huge black python?

    • You sound like a cuck.

    • D'you hear about the gay rooster? He says, ANY COCK'LL DOOOOO!"

  • No, it's a pussy move tho. So if you like this lady you want her yknow but then find out she banged a black dude before, then you have to back off just so other people don't think you're a cuck? Fuck that noise.

    I've banged a black woman & that doesn't mean shit about either of my later white partners. If people call you/her names then fuck them and get real friends. Don't let racists tell you who you can and can't date. Damn

    • I gave up to my relationship because I started doubting my girlfriend. It killed my mood to think she was with me for status or stability, so I lost my interest in her.

    • I'm sorry their shaming got in your head.

  • She’s damaged goods, trash, I ain’t touching her.

    • I don't say that. Those women can date whomever they want. But so do I... I can choose not to date them.

    • Two different approaches to the same end.

  • somewhat. it indicates he may think she is some sort of tainted goods because of the other guy's race.

  • no. simple reason: nobody is entiteled to be dated by you to begin with. so you're not denying anyone their right. hence: not racist. just personal preference.

    • lol. you say entitled as if he is special or something.

    • is anyone entiteled to be dated by you? like can i demand a date with you and you have to say yes?

    • okay. but do you have the right to say that i don't want to date her because her ex was black? that is racist, and the asker was asking if it was racist, which it definitely is.

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  • Yes. You’re racist.

    • Wah wah Proud racist then.

    • I know. People wear being a racist like a badge of honor these days.

    • They think they’re brave for saying the n word online like want a medal dude?

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  • I am no racist but I would not lower myself to date them.

    • I don't blame you. I would think I'd be lowering myself if I dated a girl who's with me for stability.

  • if she goes black we dont want her back

  • A white girl wouldn’t date a white guy after dating ack one as the myth says.

    • Really? I had dated white women who had no problem "coming back." What do you think?

    • The myth says that not me. I didn’t try to tell you my point of view

    • There's a legend that once white men go Asian, they never go back to Caucasian... Is it true? Well, my girlfriend is used to tell me in a humorous way that "white men belong to Asian women." I wanna know if she's right. 😆

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  • I don’t get what’s so bad about black people. You’re talking like black people are somehow subhuman. Who cares if she dated black men before you? She’s with you now.

    • Have I said anything bad about black people? That they should be denied jobs, segregated, stripped of rights, that they are an inferior kind? No. You're assuming that maybe because you're too much into politics. Am I meant to be with every woman who wants to be with me? No. I can choose whom I wanna date. It's not a human right to date someone.

    • Wow. Dude. You’re reading a lot into this. The bullet points you used, whether they’re your words or not, are pretty condescending of black people though, don’t you think?

    • The only thing I said about black people is that machismo is still kinda common among blacks. Black men are (a lot more) sexist than us white guys. Am I wrong? Am I racist for pointing out an obvious issue of the african-american culture?

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  • I'm not a Faggot so I couldn't actually answer

    • Ahem, you're not a f*gg*t on Mondays. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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