Why do all women want tall and well-endowed men? why are women so shallow?

[smallbanana]

I am 5'4" (162cm) with 3" penis and the amount of times I am rejected is honestly crazy, yet men always go for all type and shape of women. There is porn addiction to blame here as well as all those romantic movies and shows which star men a foot taller than women, and now they all want a "tall, well-build, handsome man" even if they look like fat slob or a mess completely.

I have had bad dates but tbh the worst one was definitely when she left right as she saw me looking back into her eyes, which is right next to this woman where I instantly fell in love with her even tho her fat rolls were coming out of her top and made me feel them because "she wasn't comfortable with her body" but as soon as she questioned my size and I told her she looked at me like I was a pedophile or something and left without paying her bill and that fatass ATE basically used my money to eat with.

Why are women so shallow? and why do they expect so much from men?

[MCheetah]

"Natural" Selection. Human evolution, in real time.

I mean, I'm not AS short as you and not AS small as you down there, but I've had pretty much the same experiences as you. I won't assume they've been more cruel than you, but I know VERY much the pain and anger it is to be rejected over something you had no control over, like being below six feet tall or having an inadequate sized penis. I was depressed throughout my 20s due to it.

I agree with what @IveGotNoName said, although I wouldn't have been so mean about it. Most people suck and it's better that you learn now to stop putting your happiness and emotions in the hands of such garbage people in such a garbage species as planet Earth's version of humanity. I can understand your pain and resentment. I can understand people sh*tting all over you, and then when you want to vent, you get girls telling you bullsh*t like "looks and height doesn't matter" and in the same breath saying "yeah my boyfriend is 6'2 but I would've dated him even if he's 5'2" and you and i know how full of sh*t they are. But the thing is, this pain and anger will destroy you, if you let it.

One of the biggest, simple epiphanies I've ever had in life is that all of our fears and insecurities are man-made fabrications of the society we grew up in. Modern society tells us that men have to be over six feet tall and at least seven inches long downstairs, or else they're "inferior" and unworthy of a woman's time. But what if you lived in an alternate society where women liked short men and smaller penises? You likely wouldn't feel the same as you do now. What if you won the lottery at age 18, and invested that money into several stocks and used it to become a billionaire? You likely wouldn't give two f*cks what women think of you.

That's the key to it all. You gotta stop giving a f*ck. And yeah I know; easier said than done. I'm on year four of quitting women and still get lonely, on some rare nights. It sounds like the most annoying, cliche bullsh*t when you hear it for the first time, but it really is true: "YOU are the only one who can make yourself happy and NO ONE can make you feel upset without your permission."

My blunt advice? Hire an escort or two and get that horniness out of your system. Move on past women for a while and work on your own happiness. And again, WAY f*ckin' easier said than done. But what's the alternative man? Be sad and miserable forever because you got f*cked over in the genetic lottery? 21 year old me didn't want to hear modern day me's advice, either. But really ask yourself, what else can you do about it? People will always be shallow; women more so than men. But your happiness doesn't have to come from them. Now what are you going to do to chase after it?

[ohshee]

Bro that's not being shallow that's called being honest that's called having a preference it's not about dick size it's not about how tall you are it's about who you are on the inside change who you are on the inside and everything else changes. When I'm looking to date somebody I'm not looking at your face too but their boobs I want to know who that are on the inside that's where the true beauty comes from if I was to pick a person I'm with a look like. Oh I know it's going to fail because that's not who they really are who they really are is the person on the inside what kind of car do you like you have a preference don't you it's the same thing just because I think that other cars are better than the ones you like I can call you shallow no cuz first of all who gives a fuck and second of all it's none of my business and third of all that's what you like drive it same with the girl if you find a girl you like to drive it but the only way you're going to be able to drive it is if she likes you on the inside first

[Subarugirl]

Its not all women, but also its not fair to expect someone to be with someone they aren't attracted to or to be with someone who cannot satisfy their needs. Personally I wouldn't want to date someone who is significantly shorter than me, and that's not because I'm shallow, its because of my own insecurities.

[smallbanana]

not being with someone just because you don't like how their body looks is being shallow

[Subarugirl]

Its not shallow to not be with someone you're not physically attracted to.

[SamFromFL]

What insecurities?

[Subarugirl]

@SamFromFL I’m 6 ft tall and have always been insecure about my height, I’d want to be with someone who makes me feel feminine

[SamFromFL]

You probably had similar experiences growing up like I did. I’m almost 6’7 and was the skinny beanpole growing up

[SamFromFL]

Are you with someone who makes you feel feminine?

[Subarugirl]

@SamFromFL yes I am

[SamFromFL]

That’s great :)

[Neko911]

It's preference. My ex when we met sorta had a dad bod... sorta the chubby but sorta built look. Took till about 6 years into our relationship for him to workout and become built. Liked him just as much either way. And dick size I've only been really with one man so

[smallbanana]

alright, but the rest you wouldn't agree on it

[Neko911]

Rest of what?

[smallbanana]

tall and well-endowed, is it ok if he is 5'4 with 3" big penis

[CourtneyJane]

Why do all men want women with angelic faces, slim waists, big boobs, shapely butts, and blonde hair long enough to cover their asses?

If men can have high standards, women could too.

I for one am VERY shallow. For the most part, I prefer women over men, and I have no qualms about telling undesirables of both sexes to take an L, sometimes in very harsh terms, when they won't take a hint and try to get with me.

[smallbanana]

at least you agree women are shallow, and for the men part I literally have dated girls with flat chests and fat rolls and half shaved heads so I have no clue what you're talking about, and those same girls have rejected me because apparently I have a "baby penis".

[BabyGirlRobin]

Well, I'd say men and women are equally as judgmental and shallow. And regarding your height and your penis size, I've never really cared for either of those things. I've only cared about love and commitment. I've crushed on many guys shorter than me and most women can't orgasm through penetration alone, so I guess it really doesn't matter.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I have to ask.. Why didn't you just tell her you had a 3 inch dick before she sat down to eat? It would have been the same outcome, but at least you wouldn't have had to pay for the privilege.

[smallbanana]

because 1) that would be really weird thing to bring up even if she wanted to ignore it, saying that would've made her leave 2) I really haven't had a good chat with a girl in a long time

[TommyMountainFigure]

So... it was better to bring it up as an after dinner discussion instead?

[smallbanana]

maybe read the whole thing again, imma help you a little bit tho cause you're struggling "she questioned about my size"

[TommyMountainFigure]

don't need to read it again. She questioned it, she never held a gun to your head and forced you to answer.

[smallbanana]

are you crazy? you want me to not tell her how? ignore, laugh it off? or have sex with her so she can find out herself and then call it rape

[TommyMountainFigure]

One of us is certainly crazy. I will leave it up to other people to decide who.

[smallbanana]

it's clearly the person with stupid suggestions, now quit trolling and find a life dumbass

[yourbabygirl921]

It's preference and standards personally I don't care about size but height is at least 5inches taller it's just it and it's not all woman i see some that would date someone shorter than them

[smallbanana]

how tall are you? I am still looking for a woman who wants to date a 5'4 with micro penis

[yourbabygirl921]

I'm 5'1 i believe there's woman who is ok with micro penis as long as you know how to please

[Laciandmaci]

I don't care about that stuff. PERSONALITY is what I CARE ABOUT. Maybe I am one of a kind or just weird?

[smallbanana]

so you would like to date a 5'4 guy with a 3" dick?

[Laciandmaci]

if he has a heart of gold yes

[smallbanana]

wdym heart of gold? like love you?

[Laciandmaci]

he treats you wonderful

[IveGotNoName]

Humans are shallow dude... Most men also want a specific type of woman. Accept the world you live in and stop complaining. Grow up.

[smallbanana]

not humans, women are shallow. I have seen way more men approaching a woman based on her personality and women go straight to judging a guy by his body before dating him, looks like it's time for you to grow up.

[IveGotNoName]

You have seen it? You can't base everything men do or everything women do of of what you've seen. You haven't seen enough for it to make any mathematical sense. Of course men want to date someone they find attractive, and of course women do to. It makes no sense to date someone you're not attracted to. That's not fair to you or the person... you can get attracted to someone after you get to know their personality, that's different. But I don't see why you think that it's okay for you to generalize about women, and as soon as someone does the exact same thing about men (even saying that it's not a negative thing) you get incredibly offended.

[smallbanana]

I never got offended I am literally telling you my experience, I am 20 years old and I have been talking to a lot of women and when I say that I mean I date the next woman I see for me it doesn't matter what she looks like even she has a flat chest making her look like a boy more than girl, on the other hand only 2 girls have approached me one of them didn't even talked to me and left as she walked in 2nd had her fat rolls "massaged" by me because she felt uncomfortable about her body I literally was drenched in sweat from her body and yet she had the balls to bring up that I have a micro dick.

[IveGotNoName]

First of all, you can't base everything men think on what you yourself think. Second of all, you quite obviously feel like you're taking on some sorts of charity cases when you describe women you date as small chested and "with fat rolls". You obviously judge them for their appearances, that is shallow. You are no better than the rest of us.

[smallbanana]

no im not shallow since im literally telling you what their appearance is I hate when people become this sensitive, I look past them and still date the person you wouldn't have corrected me if I would've said "she was skinny" I remember her fat rolls distinctively remember rubbing my hands in them. I swear guys are way more better than girls, I have this friend in school who's a foot taller than me and treats me like his girlfriend he literally protected me from being bullied I have never seen a girl doing that.

[IveGotNoName]

Yes... as a matter of fact I definitely would have corrected you. Calling a girl skinny is not nice either. If you think men are that amazing and women are that terrible... maybe you should just date men.

[IveGotNoName]

Have you ever thought that that attitude you have towards every woman is the reason you don't get women?

[smallbanana]

my attitude? you mean loving them, ah yes that explains it lmao. I don't love men in that way I just love how he protects me from harm like I wish a girl would do for me.

[IveGotNoName]

Yes, your attitude. You say women are shallow, and that men are "better" (apparently in every way in your eyes). You have to learn to protect yourself, otherwise you won't survive here.

[smallbanana]

I say that because that's what I have experienced and I dont need to since there are some boys with greats bods who can protect me

[IveGotNoName]

"I say that because that's what I've experienced", again, you can't use your experience to describe every woman.

[smallbanana]

again, not describing EVERY woman, but yes most of them are like that.

[IveGotNoName]

Your question literally says "Why do all women"

[genericname85]

not all women want that. your premise is wrong. most women want an average size dick. 3 inches is a bit below average. which i'm not gonna bullshit you: is not preferred by most women. you will have a more difficult time to find your crowd but dude i assure you: there's a crowd for every show. there's women who can't take more than that. they are probably as rare as guys that are that size but hey, not everyting is lost here. there is still a silver lining.

[genericname85]

just avoid making yourself a failure due to dick size. be proud of your small one. yeah some girls don't like what you have. so what? you don't like any girl they have a choice and if you're not their choice, move on to the next. easy as that.

[genericname85]

*you don't like every girl either.

[smallbanana]

that's the point I'm making I literally like any other girl unlike women who judge me by my body and then date me. I have been on date with girls with shaved heads to fat rolls but they were the ones rejecting me.

[genericname85]

Thats how most guys feel anyway xD not dick specific but generally.

[succubus_girl]

we can't help what we're attracted to

[smallbanana]

well that's the shallowness i was talking about

[IncognitoBandito]

They generally like to be held in someone's arms and they like to have strong orgasms

[FamilyGuy2020]

To be honest a Girls Vagina can expand to fit any man

[In_Trance]

You assume this is social; it's not. It's biological.

[smallbanana]

it's social, women have been loving their husbands since back when marriage was formed and there was no dating apps there and almost no divorces. These days women are porn addict and want to try "bigger guys".

[In_Trance]

Yea ok

[OnTheLevel]

Yeah! Why are they so shallow? It's not like men are focused on boobs and ass all the time... oh, wait

[smallbanana]

oh wait looks like you are, cause I am not and dated flat chested and fat girls

[OnTheLevel]

So you can generalize all women but can't comprehend the generalization of all men? Are you just dim?

[smallbanana]

never said not ALL MEN aren't shallow, clearly you exist. pretty sure you're the dim one here pal.

[jeffryrobertbabb]

Women like men who can provide for them and their offspring, this is biologically determined, so they like tall, wealthy men.

[anylolone]

Because humans are shallow visual creatures.

[EaterPeter]

It's women oriented world. Us men just blamed for nothing. Why men do what they do coz women owns all the vaginas.

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

the same reason most men want short women who are also "well endowed up there"

Why are men so shallow?

[Cacee]

Why you calling anybody a fatass, hypocrite?

[AlbaLind]

Dude it doesn’t matter. As long as you can give good oral. We find penetration boring actually. Can do it with a vibrator easily and doesn’t make us come 80% of the time

[Subarugirl]

Yaaaass 100%

[Anonymous]

You don't have to be that tall and hung to get them.
I'm 5'7 with a 6 inch dick and I do alright with women.
In your situation you're gonna have to really look for open-minded women.
Sometimes they even say on their dating profiles that they don't care about height and such things.
I hope you find one.

[smallbanana]

yeah that's a lie, I have had a lot of "open-minded women" till we connect and she leaves me on read

[Opinion Owner]

Aww, I'm sorry to hear that. I do know guys who have attractive wives because they have money and take her on trips and shit. I wouldn't do it that way because my pride dictates that I want her to want me for me. It doesn't change the fact that those rich dudes are still fucking those greedy chicks while I'm currently single. I guess you may have to go the money route or keep dating until you get lucky. Some women are actually less shallow, but they're rare.

[Anonymous]

I started becoming bi because it's hard to find women that want to be loved these days, they want too much with high expectations.

[smallbanana]

ikr it's getting really unfair for guys tbh sometimes I too think if I would be better off with guys

[Opinion Owner]

Yes you're right, some guys are very nice, and accept us for who we are, girls are very picky.

[smallbanana]

so true, I actually have had a little experience with this in high school and made friends with some taller boys who actually treated me so nice. Literally what I expected women to treat me like, but I guess men are way more nice and gentle I guess that's why we are called "gentlemen".

[Opinion Owner]

I still like girls but like to be on the bottom with another guy and I have been with a couple. They were both nice to me while I was on the bottom, the guy treated me like his girlfriend while he made love to me and the girl treated me like here boyfriend..

[smallbanana]

I guess guys are just that nice, same with me the way they treated me I kept on acting like I was their girlfriend and they ended up defending me a lot of times from bullying too. In general men are wayyyy better than women.

[Opinion Owner]

You're right but there are still nice girls in the world, they are just hard to find. But that's why I started being on the bottom for love making, being like a girl but being nice.