Why do some men have the audacity to be so selfish in bed and then complain when we never want to have sex with them?

[Anonymous]

It’s 6am and my man is waking me up, trying to get me to do oral on him while I’m hanging upside down. I almost pass out so I stop. He drops me and walks away. No he’s pouting. And he wonders why I never initiate. THIS IS WHY. He never cares about what I want. Just a word to wise.

[connemara_crocodile]

I guess he might have a very nice personality in every other aspect if you are willing to put up with that attitude from him.

Anyways, none of our business. To your question, you could try to play his game. When he does that, sit on his face, or say "no until you make me finish". You can even start the oral and when before he finishes say "my turn! Then you again".

I ALWAYS make my partners finish before I finish. A girl can vum and continue. A guy loses interest after he cums.

[AndyOh]

Well, depending on your situation, if you can leave, I would.
Or, expect your sex life to keep going on like this with a self centered douche for years to come.
A lot of men are very arrogant in bed, which is why dating and having pre-marital sex is so important, so you don't end up with a guy like that.
Just sayin'

[AndyOh]

Thanks for the MHO :) I hope everything works out for you.

[OlderAndWiser]

If you hate it so much, why are you still with him?

[Asker]

Because I’m determined to teach him how to treat me properly. He’s not going to just get away with it.

[OlderAndWiser]

Sounds like a beautiful relationship!

[Asker]

Sounds like you have a lot of judgement. Don’t care. Either you answer the question or you don’t.

[OlderAndWiser]

Someone's what you need to hear is not what you want to hear.

[Asker]

Thanks for your opinion. But I’ll take it from here.

[OlderAndWiser]

Good luck!

[summiter]

Dump his ass

[spartan55]

Yet you stay with him...😂 😂 😂

[No_biryani]

You clearly need a new man

[Hulk30]

that's narcisstic personality disorder

[Hotboy_booblover]

Not a good thing what he did so early in d mrng

[Anonymous]

Why not?

[Anonymous]

Same reason women have the audacity to be soo selfish out of bed wanting gifts, rides, attention, paid for dates, etc and then complain when all their man wants at the end of the day is a simple blowjob

[Anonymous]

Your man is a selfish asshole. My ex was a selfish asshole too. Both men and women can be assholes.

I dumped my ex because she didn't deserve me. Why don't you pull your head out of your ass and do the same?

[Seppel]

I agree.